Hadron and Xiao Tong have been married for ten years. Hadron is an enterprising person and has made outstanding achievements in his work. He believes that men should earn money to support their families, so he has always asked children to be full-time wives at home, as long as they are responsible for taking care of the family.
Hadron has a high monthly salary. In fact, before she got married, the child's job was also very good. Working in a state-owned enterprise, her monthly salary is also very good. She likes the feeling of going to work very much, and thinks that only such a day will be more fulfilling. But when she saw her husband let me go to work, she still chose to respect her husband's choice and stay at home to clean up the housework.
After staying at home for a long time, my mother-in-law had an idea. Watching my daughter-in-law stay at home every day and not go out to look for a job is very unbalanced. When my son goes out early and comes back late every day, he naturally begins to feel that his daughter-in-law is too lazy to like her.
The child stayed at home, and her mother-in-law came home every few days to find fault and accused her daughter-in-law of not even doing the housework well. The child knew that her mother-in-law was looking for her trouble, but seeing her husband working so hard every day, she put up with all this and didn't want to give her husband any more trouble.
Later, when the child became pregnant, the attitude of her mother-in-law was much better. Maybe she is thinking that the children in her belly can carry on the family line, and the number of mistakes is much less.
The child was eight months pregnant, just in time for her mother-in-law's birthday. My mother-in-law has always been a lively person and invited many relatives and friends to celebrate her birthday. The child knows that her mother-in-law never likes herself. In order to please her mother-in-law, she specially prepared a beautiful cake and cooked many dishes herself.
My mother-in-law's friends all praised her mother-in-law's good life. When she met such a filial daughter-in-law, her father-in-law's work unit was in other places, and she came back specially for her birthday. When my father-in-law came back, he saw a room full of relatives talking and laughing, and my daughter-in-law was cooking in the kitchen with a big belly. Looking at the busy figure, my father-in-law is very distressed.
"Did you have a good birthday today? You see your daughter-in-law has such a big belly, so you won't help? Do you have any mother-in-law measures? Did I ask you to cook in the kitchen when you were pregnant? She is about to give birth, can she still do this? " Say that finish, directly raise my hand and smash the bowl on the dining table.
When her mother-in-law saw her father-in-law lose his temper, she had to whisper, "I had a very happy birthday today, and then I will pay attention and help cook together."
Later, Hadron also knew that her mother didn't like Xiao Tong, because she had no income, so she always bullied Xiao Tong. When the child was born, he said to the child, "When the child is old, go to work if you want!" " ! I won't force you to be a housewife. "
When her husband agreed to let her go out to work, the child laughed as if he were going to turn into a flower. Later, when the child was a little older, she hired a nanny to take care of the child, went to find a job by herself, and dressed herself exquisitely every day, unlike the original housewife.
As a woman in a new era, when you want to live by men, you lose. Girls must have their own jobs and find ways to improve their value. Only in this way can they live a better life.
Whether you are married or not, don't forget to improve yourself and try to make yourself better. Take time off at ordinary times, read more books, see more about the outside world, and take a long view. Don't be confined to a small place and don't be a frog in the well. When practicing internally, we should also pay attention to the external. Usually do more facial maintenance and take good care of your skin.
Know how to do anything, never rely on others, and never let others find a way for you. Be sure to remember that only you know yourself best and only you are the most reliable. Of course, don't give up your job and become a full-time wife after marriage. Only by working, regardless of income, can girls show their unique charm. A person who has no thoughts, a person who has no ideas about things and only thinks about how to do housework, has no charm.
Nowadays, the society is very realistic, and everyone is weighing their own advantages and disadvantages. As a girl, I need to protect myself after work and improve my inner self. Only by making herself excellent will her status rise and the people around her will respect you.