Speech is a kind of language communication activity aimed at a specific problem, which clearly and completely expresses one's views, clarifies things or expresses emotions, and carries out propaganda and agitation. I've sorted out 10 skills for you below, hoping to help you!

1, "receiving" is more important than "releasing"

Speech needs to be "closed" and "released" In fact, the most difficult thing to grasp when entering the speech state is "off" rather than "off". Two of them are very important: one is the control of emotions, and the other is the control of behavior. For example, set a "climax" in the speech. Until then, you should keep your emotions under control. When you burst out at the climax, you can pause before reaching the climax, which will attract the audience.

2. The speech should be "concrete", that is, it should have a "sense of picture"

When telling a story, don't make a dry statement, but tell the details, so that the story will naturally appear. For example, when writing a speech, instead of "my dad told me", I used "my dad told me with my face in his hands", which will bring me back to the state at that time and bring the audience into your mood.

3. "Short sentences" are more powerful than "long sentences"

There is a difference between speaking and sharing: sharing doesn't care about the length of sentences, but only expresses your own views or things clearly. Verbally, short sentences are suitable for progressive expression and are very suitable for expressing strong opinions and emotions.

Step 4 avoid official languages

A good speech, without beating around the bush, never in fog, never beating around the bush, but straight to the point, straight to the point. From the audience's point of view, such information transmission is effective, focused and unforgettable. From the law of information dissemination, this is just in line with people's demand for information acquisition in the era of information explosion. More importantly, the expression of direct giving has its own added value of language charm in this era.

Before making a speech, you should first "know" yourself.

If you want to make a great speech, you must first know yourself, then learn to speak, learn to communicate with people, and then learn to speak. The first step to become an orator is not to be afraid to speak in front of everyone, nor to master those fancy speech skills, but to break through your own knowledge and analyze your true colors. This is called "rebuilding after breaking". First of all, we must understand our own personality. In fact, no matter what you learn, the first thing you have to learn is how to find yourself; No matter what you do, the first choice should be to be yourself.

6. Accept your imperfections and be good at getting along with shortcomings.

The fatal weakness of people is that they don't know their own advantages; A more fatal weakness is not knowing your own shortcomings and disadvantages. Sometimes, we always feel that some things are our shortcomings and obstacles. If we are good at getting along with our own shortcomings, they may become our strengths!

It is a process of searching for self-potential and self-exploration to analyze yourself and what you have said logically and hierarchically and to seek the most authentic self. The most powerful thing about this method is that it can help those who always feel that they have nothing to say, and quickly find what they want to say, which is tantamount to a clown.

For example, if you have a lisp and speak slowly, you can't use long sentences and nonsense if you want to finish your speech in a short time, which will make your language very powerful and explosive.

For example, you are nervous as soon as you go on stage, so nervous that your body movements are affected, you blush, your neck is thick, your limbs are cramped, your legs are trembling, and your throat is blocked ... but if you can speak with your heart, you can accept yourself and show your true self. Perhaps these tensions will better mobilize your emotions, assist your speech, and let you express yourself more truly.

7. Sincerity is more important than skill.

Le Jia said: "The audience knows nothing about the things behind the camera, but they have a natural ability to know whether you are sincere or not!" Therefore, the speech is definitely not to suppress nature, definitely not to embellish, definitely not to cater to the audience, but to impress people who are really watching you.

Speech is not only a speech, but also a sincere expression, expressing your life, your feelings and understanding, and expressing all the problems exposed in your character. The level of your speech is not the presentation of simple skills, not whether you can speak Mandarin or how many times you have spoken it, but how well you know yourself and how brave you are to face your inner vulnerability.

A good speech should be a story that has been brewing for a long time, a sharing and collision of feelings that have been precipitated for a long time, and a public exchange from real personal experience, independent individual thinking and responsible personalized choice. It should be the story you want to tell and the words you want to say most. A touching speech must be based on emotion. Emotions can't be empty, and stories can't be fake. Every sentence should have a basis. The inexplicable emotional outburst has no basis, and the logic of the story is unclear and there is no basis.

Therefore, speaking for the sake of speaking may not leave a masterpiece, but as long as you feel it with your heart and heart, a casual remark may be remembered by many people. When the true feelings guide you to express, the method becomes less important-of course, good methods will make the true feelings more accurate and effective.

8. How to deal with the audience's tricky questions?

When you encounter a question that you don't want to answer in your speech or communication, you can return it to him in another way, and at the same time, you should consider the feelings of others and don't offend others.

9. resonate with the audience

The speech is not what I want to say, nor what the audience wants to hear, but what I want to say can be combined with what the audience wants to hear and resonate. As a speaker, we must know our audience. Whether the audience can understand and empathize is very important. A speech that moves the audience is a good speech. Only by thinking deeply, seeing deeply and speaking deeply can the speaker resonate with the audience.

10, practice, practice, practice.

True feelings are very important for a speech, but if you want to be a really excellent speaker, you must keep learning and practicing and seize every opportunity to "speak".

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