Chen Danlei is such an example. She is inferior, sensitive, paranoid and possessive. If her husband He Lei disagrees a little, she will yell at him, even to the point of starting work. He Lei has tolerated her many times, trying to influence her with his love, but unexpectedly, he will eventually die under his wife's gun.
Chen Danlei, 1977, from Sichuan. Her father is a university professor and her mother is just an ordinary housewife. Because the status difference is too big, it was nothing at first. The longer it took, the stronger her mother's suspicion became. Because her father is a university professor, there are many people who need to associate with her, and there are many women who are better than her mother outside, so her mother is extremely inferior and sensitive. She is afraid that her father will cheat, so she always peeks at her father's letters.
This behavior was discovered by her father, and it was a fierce quarrel. Chen Danlei has been living in a quarrel between husband and wife. Chen Danlei was deeply moved by his mother and became introverted and inferior. She even has a hint of possessiveness that she doesn't realize. Finally, after she was admitted to Tsinghua, her parents stopped quarreling and chose a divorce. However, after the divorce, her mother became depressed and eventually died. The death of his mother made Chen Danlei more unsociable, living in his own world, and his paranoid personality gradually took shape.
In her junior year, she found a valuable pen and returned it to the owner, He Lei. But Chen Danlei was attracted by the sunshine on He Lei. He is like the sun, always living in the shadow. They are two extremes. He Lei thinks that Chen Danlei is a kind girl, although she is quiet and introverted. He thinks this is true love. He Lei has tolerated her since they established their relationship. No matter who is at fault when quarreling, He Leixian bowed his head, while Chen Danlei lost the bottom line under the tolerance of He Lei again and again.
In the last year of college, Chen Danlei won a scholarship from Purdue University in the United States because of his excellent grades, and He Lei was also sent to Tsinghua University to study for a master's degree. At that time, they were married. After some discussion, He Lei decided to give up Tsinghua's walk and accompany Chen Danlei to study in the United States, but Chen Danlei is an extremely sensitive and suspicious person. She never felt that He Lei's sacrifice was for her own good, but for taking advantage of herself. Like this time, she felt that He Lei just wanted to walk around. Originally in Chen Danlei's heart, He Lei was not her husband at all, because she lacked sunshine in her heart, so He Lei was her tool. As long as He Lei can do it, she will make many demands, but she will not pay for it.
After they went to the United States together, He Lei also applied for a Ph.D. from Purdue University, which passed smoothly. Moreover, He Lei was originally an optimistic and cheerful person, and she was also very sociable, and soon integrated into the study life in the United States. However, because Chen Danlei's personality is difficult to blend in, her mother's tragedy soon staged on Chen Danlei, and she began to doubt He Lei's love for herself. One thing the size of sesame seeds can cause two people to quarrel. In an argument, Chen Danlei had a knife, and she stabbed He Lei in the chest. Chen Danlei was quickly arrested by the American police. But in He Lei's view, this is a couple's business. He is willing to forgive his wife and influence her with his love, so after paying $5,000 bail, he voluntarily lifted the ban on "no contact" between them.
However, He Lei's active concession was not moved by Chen Danlei, but made things worse. On August 19, 2005, the couple broke out again, He Lei filed for divorce, and the scene of parents' divorce appeared in Chen Danlei's mind. Chen Danlei didn't speak. He Lei thought it was over, but the next morning Chen Danlei shot her husband in the head.
After killing her husband, Chen Danlei didn't panic. But spent seven days and seven nights in a room with her husband's body. In the meantime, she acted like a normal person. It was not until He Lei's body began to stink that Chen Danlei tried to start destroying it. Because her husband was too tall, she chose to dismember him and leave him in the parking lot. Because her passport was detained by the US government after stabbing her husband, and she returned to China with He Lei's passport with a wig, or because the staff of Shanghai Customs found something wrong and detained her at the airport.
When He Lei's parents came to see her, they asked her why He Lei didn't go back to China with her. She can still smile and say, "He is in a very safe place." It can be seen how terrible Chen Danlei is. She can keep calm after killing and keep a straight face in front of her husband and parents. But in the end, because He Lei's body was found, Chen Danlei was put in prison. She said she wanted to kill He Lei a long time ago, and it was all his fault. If they get divorced, She Lei, an excellent person, can remarry, and her life will be over. So she wrote a detailed plan to test the silencing effect of the pistol with a pillow. I don't know how He Lei's parents went to the United States after learning the truth.
In September 2006, Chen Danlei was sentenced to death with a suspended execution and compensated He Lei's parents for 440,000 yuan. However, because of Chen Danlei's good performance in prison, the suspended death sentence became a fixed-term imprisonment. Chen Danlei also said that after she got out of prison, she wanted to find a job as a translator, but she never felt guilty about He Lei. She still blames He Lei and never thinks about her own problems.