In rural areas, many old people don't want to celebrate their birthdays. First, they don't want their children to spend money. Second, they don't want others to feel that they are really old. Third, they need relatives and friends in the guest house for their birthdays. Third, they need to be given big red envelopes for their birthdays. It is necessary to explain and analyze why many rural elderly people don't want to celebrate their birthdays from the following four aspects, and what are the exquisite aspects of birthdays.

First, I don't want to spend children's money.

First of all, the elderly are unwilling to spend their children's money, which is a key factor, because for the elderly, knowing that their children have a heavy financial burden, they often need to raise their children themselves and support themselves and their wives. If they need to hold a birthday party for their own birthday, it is a waste of children's money.

Second, I don't want others to think that they are really old.

Secondly, I don't want others to think that I am really old. For the elderly, I am reluctant to let others know my age. This will form a state of being marginalized by others. After all, if I am old and many things are not suitable for me, then others will not take the initiative to invite me.

Third, the elderly need all the relatives and friends in the hostel for their birthdays.

Moreover, the elderly need all the relatives and friends in the hostel for their birthdays. This is the etiquette that must be done. For the relatives and friends of the elderly, they all have the right to attend the birthday party of the elderly, which can make the elderly happier and make all relatives and friends feel happy.

Fourth, the elderly need to wrap big red envelopes for their birthdays.

In addition, all relatives and friends need to wrap a big red envelope for the elderly's birthday. The main purpose is to express respect for the elderly and wish them a long life. This form not only increases their feelings, but also reduces the economic pressure of entertaining their children.

Matters needing attention in the birthday of the elderly:

Respect the wishes of the elderly, and only do it if the elderly are willing to hold a birthday party.