Because of my own reasons, it is difficult to balance dreams and reality after being a full-time wife. Other reasons: the husband is not good enough, even if there is no love, he still has no money, and he still hates that the full-time wife spends too much money, and the mother-in-law is not good enough. He thinks that marrying a daughter-in-law is a nanny, taking care of the family with children, and there is nothing to complain about, and his mother's house is not good enough. It is understandable that his daughter can't support it, even mentally.

Actually, being a full-time wife is very hard. Although they don't go to work, they do more things than those who work regularly. But many times, stay-at-home wives are not understood and recognized. Most people, especially husbands, feel that they don't have to go to work and do nothing. They are lying at home watching TV. But in fact, most stay-at-home wives have to take care of their children's food, clothing, housing and transportation, as well as all the housework at home, which can't be understood by their relatives. People who don't know how to adjust their emotions are always in a bad mood.

What's more, some stay-at-home wives are really devoted to their children, their relatives and their families, and they don't care about their own growth or what happens outside. Finally, their vision becomes extremely narrow, and all the information may be heard from others. Over time, the usual hard work and the incomprehension of relatives will make their psychological problems more and more serious.

As a stay-at-home wife, I deeply understand how difficult it is to take care of children and family by myself. Fortunately, my husband can share some, and there is warmth and happiness in hard work. However, people must be prepared for danger in times of peace. I often think, if my husband is love rat, what full-time job should I do? That is to be strong. Don't worry about painting plays, studying recipes and eating so delicately at home.

I have time to present my abilities, such as myself, studying accounting and art design. I can't say that I am proficient, but it is still possible to make money to raise a baby. Why choose these two subjects? Because these two subjects can basically work less overtime, or only work overtime when there are projects. Usually, they can meet the time setting for sending their babies to work and picking them up after work. On weekends, or when children need to work overtime, they can take care of one day, and they don't have to worry about themselves and their children after their husbands become scum.

Someone must say that you have to rent a house, so it's hard enough to pay the rent with a little salary. Do you still want to raise children? I can't afford it myself. The house should have been decided before marriage. No matter how much you think your husband loves you, you must be calm before marriage. Everyone can become scum, let alone men. The woman should remember to save money crazily after marriage, put it in her own account, and then calm down and learn how to manage money. If she doesn't know anything about finance, she should save it. Remember not to pay the loan together, only fools will pay it back. Even if she saves less after a few years, she can't afford another down payment, but she can still have tens of thousands and have the start-up funds for her own small business. There is no room, but there must be some money. As long as the mind does not decline, there will always be more difficulties than analogies.

Come on, stay-at-home wife, we are all the best!