1. Parents and relatives
The main table of a wedding banquet is usually sat by the newlyweds and their parents. The bride sits on the groom's right, with her father, mother and parents' elders on the bride's right and his mother, father and parents' elders on the groom's left. Parents of both sides should take husband and wife as the center and sit face to face.
2. bridesmaids and groomsmen
Bridesmaids and groomsmen also play a more important role. Generally, bridesmaids and groomsmen will be arranged at or near the main table, which not only shows respect for the couple, but also helps them through their closeness.
Leading colleagues
This kind of guests should be arranged in the middle of the wedding banquet, and at the same time try to be familiar with the same table. If you are not familiar with each other, it is best to have a familiar person to adjust the atmosphere and give timely help and care, which will show respect and courtesy.
4. Classmates and friends
Newcomers' classmates and friends are usually arranged at the last few tables in the banquet area, because they are more active, so this arrangement can avoid affecting other guests' meals. Try to indicate the location on the wedding invitation!
5. Child seat
Children usually appear at weddings, but children are naughty and lively by nature, so special attention should be paid to the arrangement of seats. Generally speaking, it is recommended to arrange children in the concentrated area accompanied by parents, but the seats should be as close as possible to the exit, which is convenient for entering and leaving and will not disturb other guests' meals.
6. Employees
Generally, on the wedding day, the couple will arrange a wedding reception for the on-site service personnel to thank them for their hard work. However, seats are usually arranged at the end of the banquet, which is convenient for staff to enter and leave at any time.
2. How should I write the wedding seat card?
1. First, choose the color of the seat card according to your own preferences. The wedding mode should be considered when choosing the color of the seat card. For example, Chinese weddings, because Chinese weddings are all red, it is not appropriate if you set the seat card to green or yellow. At this time, choose red for happiness and gold for wealth. But the printed matter of western-style wedding is very different from that of Chinese. Cards are usually white or pink, because in western weddings, the bride's wedding dress is usually white or pink.
2. The wedding banquet seat card only writes the seat number. However, in this case, you need to find a guide who can take the guests to their seats, and this guide must be careful and trustworthy. However, it is important for you to know exactly who is suitable to be a tour guide and what qualities he should have. After careful consideration, you can choose one.
3. The wedding banquet seat card leaves the main table position to the closest relatives, such as the man's house and the woman's house. Share a table with the woman's parents and close relatives. Since most relatives are family members, you can write down the whole family.
You don't need to write your name on the wedding seat card. Because if you write your name, wouldn't it be embarrassing for that person not to come?
5. Write the name of the leader directly on the wedding seat card. The leader is one of the important guests. Wouldn't it be great if he could see his name as soon as he entered the door?
6. Fill in the wedding seat card according to the number, or just write the company name. For example, in the front row are "VIP seats": seats for general important guests, elders of both sides and leaders of the unit; Your colleagues can directly put the seat card of "* * unit" on the table, and the unit will naturally sit together.
3. How to arrange the guest seats at the wedding banquet?
The newlyweds, parents, elders and witnesses sit at the main table on the left, and the guests of the newlyweds are arranged at the main table on the right. This is: the couple sits in the center of the main table facing everyone, the groom sits on the left side of the bride, and the groom's left side is his mother, father and parents and elders in turn; On the bride's right are her father, mother and parents' elders. The couple's family sits opposite each other with the couple as the center, and the witness, the best man and the maid of honor sit next to the elders. VIPs invited by newcomers need to be arranged according to the specific situation.
Of course, there are cases where both parents are not at the same table. In some places in China, parents of husband and wife should sit separately, parents of groom should sit at in-laws table, and parents of bride should sit at bride table. At this time, it is suggested that the groom's family group sit in the guest seat on the left or right. The bride's family sits in the guest seat on the right or left, and the parents above the couple sit in the center of the main table on one side, facing all the guests. The newcomer's VIP is arranged in the nearest place to the stage and the main table to show the newcomer's respect for VIP.
Colleagues, business partners
This group of newcomers should greet the elders first and then the newcomers, and try to arrange the same table if they are familiar. Unfamiliar people should be arranged at each table, and it will be more polite to take care of them in time. Please arrange them in the middle of the whole banquet area.
Little, best friends and classmates
They don't care much about their seats. In terms of age, friends and classmates should be biased towards young people and must be the most active group at the wedding. They might as well arrange the last few tables in the banquet area, which will not only make them enjoy themselves, but also avoid the influence of drinking on the whole wedding process, including the staff who help.
Arrange wedding banquet seats with 3 skills
1. Relationship between guests: people with similar interests are more harmonious together;
2. The relationship between yourself and the guests: pay attention to the location and the distance from yourself, usually arranged near the main table;
3. When arranging seats, you can ask the food and beverage department to provide a table map and number or name each table, so that all aspects can be better taken care of. Prepare several copies of this dining table map and the guest list printed according to the table, so as to facilitate the guests to sit down and show the host's carefulness.
4. How to arrange the wedding seats?
It is best to prepare spare chairs before the wedding reception, and arrange at least two or three more at the wedding reception site.
Table. In addition, if the wedding banquet provides seat cards, some seat cards are printed with the names of the guests in advance, and some empty seat cards are also stored. Once a guest who has not prepared a seat card arrives, the guest's name will be temporarily written on the empty card. If there are too many people, you can consider renting a lounge temporarily, so that the rest of the guests can go to the lounge first and arrange the wedding reception on the spot before inviting them.
I want the couple to know. The classic round table is arranged like this. The bride and groom must stand in front of the table and face all the guests.
3. It is very important for the parents of the couple to sit with whom, especially to choose the square table, which is a more western-style sitting method. old-fashioned square table for eight people
In a small private wedding, the relatives and friends of the couple may get together. In this case, insert friends who know each other well.
Carry will be very important.
In fact, the easiest way is to set up two wedding tables, so that the couple will have more friends and arrange two weddings.
The table is better. One table is the parents and elders of the couple, and the other table can arrange some comparisons with the couple.
Close friends, so that guests can coordinate well.
It's better for the couple to arrange the same person to attend the wedding at the same table, so that there will be topic connection between them. ask
What is avoided is that a person who comes to the wedding is arranged by a group of familiar people, which is easy to produce non-circle rejection effect.
6. Seating arrangements should be divided into three groups: bride, groom's parents and bride's parents. Each group knows their friends or relatives.
Genus, in order to avoid strangers. Arrange some unknown single young people to have a romantic wedding together.
The banquet environment is also a good opportunity to make friends.
In fact, it is easy to think of this principle. If you are invited to attend the wedding of the couple alone in a different place, you can be safe.
At the wedding table, if you are a college classmate, you can arrange it at the classmate table, and guests can talk about the "new student era" with each other.
People can be arranged on classmates' desks, and guests can communicate with each other on the topic of "new people in their student days", so that
Guests will not appear lonely.
8. When the parents of the newlyweds divorce; In fact, in this case, it is best to ask their opinions before the wedding, if parents have them.
After each family forms a new family, should we consider arranging seats according to the existing family order? This can not only be arranged.
When, also can increase happiness. It's best to let parents sit at different tables, and the newlyweds can take care of them when toasting at the wedding banquet.
To both sides to avoid embarrassment. If only divorced parents take care of both sides when toasting, this can avoid falling.
Awkward. If only one divorced parent gets married, you can arrange for the other parent to sit with the couple, or arrange for the other parent.
Sit with your elders and have a topic to avoid being too lonely.
5. How to set the table for the wedding?
Pay attention to the wedding banquet seats in Chinese weddings;
Tips 1。 Seats should be arranged according to the seniority of the guests at the wedding banquet, which is called "treat" or "follow-up". The principle of seating arrangement is to respect the upper and lower, respect the right and respect the left. Guests are sorted from high to low according to age, identity and status.
Tips2。 The chairman should put it in the middle of the upper room, and invite the "big relatives" to sit at the right head, the groom's father or uncle at the left head, and the rest according to seniority.
Tips3。 In addition to the main seat in the main hall, the next distinguished seat is placed in the new house. The bride's mother is invited to sit first, accompanied by the groom's mother or aunt. The seats of other seats should also be arranged in order.
Tips4。 After the seats were arranged, the best man announced that the banquet would be held with music and firecrackers. The groom should first propose a toast to the chief and say a few words of thanks. Then the first course in the kitchen will push the wedding banquet to * * *.
Tips5。 All tables and drinks should be the same except the seats where "male relatives" and "female relatives" are located. Generally speaking, there must be a steamed pork elbow. Moreover, the groom should always wait at the table to pour wine and send hot towels to "relatives" to show respect.
Tips6。 The matchmaker has already left before the wedding reception is over. This is called "running away". If he doesn't leave, the "washing media" will wipe his face into the bottom of the pot. After the wedding reception, "Shangqin" went to the back room to rest, ate some snacks, and was accompanied by the man's elders to say some polite words. The handyman moved his seat, and after sweeping the floor, Shang Qin should get up and leave. At the beginning of the day, men should "send away" clothes, shoes and socks and pay attention to red envelopes. "Farewell Kiss" is another lively scene. All decent men in the family should be sent to the door and set off firecrackers to show their respect.
As the protagonist of Chinese wedding, the wedding banquet is very important, and the arrangement of wedding seats is also very particular. I hope my answer will be helpful to the couple who plan to hold a Chinese wedding. But it can also be modified according to the actual situation!