Can you go back to your parents' home for the Dragon Boat Festival? Specifically, I suggest you judge according to local customs.

Due to the vast territory of our country, the custom of returning to parents' home during the Dragon Boat Festival is different in different regions. In some areas, I think going back to my parents' home during the Dragon Boat Festival will bring them bad luck. In some areas, I feel that I need to go back to my parents' house to hide from the Dragon Boat Festival, and I can't stay at my husband's house. In some areas, Dragon Boat Festival is regarded as Mother's Day, and now married daughters need to take their husbands and children back to their parents' homes. Therefore, whether a woman married on the Dragon Boat Festival can return to her parents' home also needs to be judged according to local customs and habits.

Beijing Customs introduced:

In the Ming Dynasty, "Ten Thousand Miscellanies on the List of Gods" recorded the custom in Beijing at that time: from the first day to the fifth day of the fifth lunar month, people dressed their little daughters extremely beautifully. Only married daughters also became mothers during this period.

Introduction to the customs of Suzhou, Hubei and Chengdu;

Women have to take their children under one year old back to their parents' home during the Dragon Boat Festival, which is called afternoon hiding, in order to let the children escape the evil spirits of the Dragon Boat Festival.

Shandong Customs introduced:

In Shandong, there is a saying that you can't go back to your mother's house during the Dragon Boat Festival. They will think that going back to their parents' home during the Dragon Boat Festival will bring bad luck to their married daughters, so they are not allowed to go back to their parents' home.

Therefore, it is suggested that whether a woman married on the Dragon Boat Festival can return to her parents' home should be judged according to local customs.

What are the taboos of going back to your mother's house?

1. A girl who gets married on the first day of the first month must spend the New Year at her mother-in-law's house, but even if she doesn't go back to her mother-in-law's house, she can't spend the New Year there.

2, the fifteenth day of the first month, this day is a reunion festival, you can't go back to your mother's house, you must spend the New Year at your mother-in-law's house.

On the second day of the second lunar month, the dragon can't go back to her mother's house on the day when she looks up.

4. Tomb-Sweeping Day, on this day, you can't go back to your mother's house, women can't go to the grave, and women can't go to the cemetery either at her mother's house or at her mother's house.

5. Dragon Boat Festival on May 5th. Even children know it's in memory of Qu Yuan, but they can't go back to their parents' home this year. Why? Although it is not good for their mother-in-law to go back to their parents' home on May 5th.

6. The first day of the sixth lunar month is still popular here for half a year. After the first day of June, it will mean that half of the year has passed. No matter how big or small, it is also called half a year. So you can't go back to your parents' house on the first day of the sixth lunar month.

July 15 is Ghost Festival. I can't go back to my parents' house on this day. No one can tell you why. Because you are married, you must abide by this rule.

8. This festival is a big one. August 15, of course, the reunion festival can only be held at the mother-in-law's house. If a married girl spends August 15 at her mother's house, her neighbors will use it as an excuse, so no one dares to take the risk.

9. You can't go back to your parents' home on September 9th.

10, which is the winter of solstice. I heard that this day is not very good for my father-in-law, so I must stay at my home on the solstice of winter, or it is better to go to my mother-in-law's.