It's natural for a mother to be angry when she hears that someone has provoked the relationship between her and her children, but there are many such things in real life. For example, some older people will tease their children with their parents when they see that their children have nothing to say. The child was made to cry, and the adults laughed around, but the parents still had to clean up the consequences. Therefore, when the old man uses these words to scare the children, the mother must resolutely stop it, which hurts the feelings of mother and child too much.

Your mother is lying to you. Does she really want you?

Similar to the experience of the netizen above, my girlfriend also encountered such a thing at that time. Once, my mother-in-law and I took our children to the supermarket. After buying, I suddenly found that I left my key at the counter, so my girlfriend asked her mother-in-law and children to wait for her in the same place. As a result, when my girlfriend looked for the key, she found the child crying, and her mother-in-law wiped her tears while laughing.

My best friend quickly asked what was going on, and my mother-in-law said with a smile, just to scare the child, her mother lied to him, left him here without taking the key, and the child began to cry. My girlfriend was very angry on the spot. With a straight face, she told her mother-in-law not to play such jokes again, and then began to coax the children until she came home. For these words, children are easy to take seriously, and being abandoned by their mothers is a joke that children can't stand.

Your mother is pregnant with a little brother again, so she doesn't love you?

In fact, when my mother was pregnant, relatives and old people at home often said that my mother didn't love Dabao when she was pregnant with her little brother. But my parents didn't take it seriously and didn't explain it. The misunderstanding is getting deeper and deeper, and the children are getting more and more uneasy, just like this.

If you provoke the feelings of mother and child, mother must stop it in time.

It's not that children don't understand jokes, but things and words involving their mothers will always be taken seriously. Because mother is special in her heart, she believes and relies unconditionally. If others say that mother doesn't love herself and wants to abandon herself, the child will be very hurt. Especially when the mother has not responded to this, the child will feel that there is a crack in his relationship with his mother. Therefore, when it comes to provoking feelings, mother must resolutely stop it.