All growth is not achieved overnight, but the result of accumulation over time. Good growth needs good habits to bless. My habit is 5 minutes 100 yuan.
Take five minutes to try to realize the good habit you want, and then find someone to supervise your realization. If it is not completed, give the other party a red envelope of 100 yuan.
I like to brush the entertainment section in Weibo and read novels. This habit is hard to break, but it can be replaced. I changed the entertainment section in Weibo into TED, gourmet recipes and handmade DIY videos, and changed the novel into a practical reference book. Keep the way I like and only change the content, so that the change will be more acceptable.
Adhere to 5 minutes every day, 100 yuan as supervision. Small changes will be well supervised and good habits will get twice the result with half the effort. Up to now, I have developed the habit of getting up early every day, reading every day, doing my homework every day and listening to TED every day. I hope to develop more good habits through these methods.
On the second day after my birthday in May, I said to all my good friends: I want to close my door for a year and concentrate on being myself. I have always felt that I am growing slowly, and I am 24 years old. This age may be new to others, but for me it is pressure, from my own pressure, from my parents' pressure. For myself, all my young wishes can be realized at the age of 24, such as studying abroad, traveling abroad, becoming an elite, and watching the lights on in the CBD building. This is my best expectation at the age of 24.
But there is always a gap between reality and imagination. No one can guarantee that every step we take will follow our own imagination. At the age of 24, I don't go to study abroad or travel abroad, but I often work overtime. I stand at the door of the office on the first floor and watch the street lamps light up one by one. Every time I think of my boyhood wishes, I feel extremely anxious. Can I still realize my wish and go where I want to go?
When I think of my parents, my mood will be even lower. At this age, for parents, they think that your growth has been finalized, and it is whimsical to go to graduate school to study abroad. You should find a job with peace of mind, be closer to home, learn to make up, fall in love, and get married if you have a good one. I will also tell you that when you are so old, you should start to take on family responsibilities, choose home decoration materials and be responsible for all kinds of purchases. We are old and retiring. Every time I mention it, I'm really exhausted. The national legal retirement age is 65 for men and 55 for women. My parents are at least ten years away from this age. It pains me to be under such pressure to retire so early and to formulate various rules and regulations.
Then, at the age of 24, I should obey my parents' expectations, be clever and obedient, don't think too much, work hard, dress up beautifully every day to go on blind dates, and then expect God to give me a husband? Can't I pick up my boyhood wishes and fight for them before I'm 25? Did my growth and study stop just because of my age and parents? My answer is no, so I chose to close the door, refused some boring pastimes such as eating and shopping, refused to talk and groan late at night, and began to concentrate on myself, which is related to my heart, trying to find the gap between ideal and reality and trying to fill that gap.
I'm not sure whether I can have enough tuition and knowledge to study abroad before I am 25, and whether I can fulfill my desire to travel abroad, but I still don't want to give up. I still cling to my wish when I was young and want to make it reverberate in the future through my own efforts.
We often encounter such a situation. When everyone is talking about the same question, you have different answers in your heart. This answer is even contrary to what everyone thinks. Would you choose to say it?
? In fact, we often meet, but many people choose "more than one thing" or silence. Maybe everyone thinks the same thing, but I'm different. Is it my wrong self-doubt Actually, we don't need to worry too much. We should be brave. Even if you have different ideas, we should speak out bravely.
Every time I discuss the activity plan with you, I will meet a time when my views are different from yours. At this time, I will hesitate to say it, and finally bite my teeth and say it. Many times, it will actually be recognized by everyone. My point of view is actually useful. At that moment, I felt that my hesitation, anxiety and self-doubt were unnecessary. Everyone has blind spots, and it is very likely that your point of view fills the blind spots of others and gives this team a more comprehensive view.
How to treat a person with heart? Is to treat others as another self. To understand their desires, we should think from the other side's point of view. What does the other side need?
In fact, every old iron who comes to the reading camp has a wish in his heart, some want to cultivate the habit of reading, and some want to make more friends. In any case, we need to observe each other carefully and get to know each other better, so that we can give them what they want at critical times, lend them a helping hand when they need it, and give them whatever help we can.
Pay attention to everyone at ordinary times, encourage everyone to call and comment on Lao Tie's article, and let Lao Tie know that you can see TA, and there are people to accompany and give feedback at every step.
Every detail of the activity plan needs to be considered repeatedly, from multiple angles, such as the administrator's point of view, the ordinary old iron's point of view, the company commander's point of view, and even the old iron reading camp's point of view.
When we come to the reading camp, we often say, "The more you participate, the luckier you are." . In the reading camp, we have a daily "three-piece set"-daily fierce, energy button, reading recovery; There are five theme camps, a think tank consisting of comment group, evening paper group, data group, design group and activity group. There will be activities every day every month, and we also provide opportunities and platforms for everyone to participate. Whether as participants or planners, as long as you come, you will gain something.
You always have to try it yourself to know whether the activity is fun or not. Only by trying it can you know that the opportunities for growth are hidden in these opportunities. I myself went from an ordinary old railway, to a member of the Evening News Group, to the leader of the Evening News Group, to the platoon leader of the intensive reading camp, to a member of the activity group, and then to the administrator of the Eighth Company. This growth trajectory is due to participating in various activities and functional groups, and through the exercise of various activities, today's growth has been achieved.
A person's growth can not be separated from everyone's help, and reading camp is a place of mutual achievement. Everyone encouraged each other, commented on each other, supported all the way, and accompanied them all the way here. We talk about altruism, take it to heart, and always think about it. what can I do for you? How can I repay your company, doubts and comments? My approach is: give each other red envelopes, encourage and praise each other, help each other with articles and give each other suggestions.
Sometimes I will be a listener, quietly listening to others' sharing, and sometimes I will be a storyteller. I will talk to Lao Tie about my life ideal and listen to their stories. Every story has its own life feelings, and I will also exchange my own stories and tell them that there may be different choices in life.
"Give me papaya, give it to Joan." This is what I'm talking about. You come and go, we achieve each other and promote each other's growth.