After Xiaomei and Xiaojun got married, they had a good relationship. They live near their mother-in-law's house, 10 minutes away.

Soon, Xiaomei became pregnant. When pregnant, I go to my mother-in-law's house for dinner every day, and then go back to my own house. Mother-in-law is a hard worker. She keeps the house clean and cooks some delicious meals.

In the second month, her mother-in-law took care of Xiaomei, mainly helping them cook, wash clothes and take care of the children.

My mother-in-law is willing to cook, but she is not willing to wash clothes.

Xiaomei sweated a lot in the second month. The autumn trousers are sweaty every day, and two sets should be changed every day.

Mother-in-law is unwilling to wash clothes for Xiaomei, but only willing to wash clothes for her son. Xiaomei can't wash herself. Husband Xiaojun takes care of his wife and washes clothes for Xiaomei.

But my mother-in-law was very dissatisfied after seeing it. She loves her son very much. She thought it was too hard for her son to wash Xiaomei's clothes every day, and asked why Xiaomei was so particular and clean, and why she changed clothes so frequently. How can you sweat so much?

Xiaomei is also very wronged, sweating is beyond her control!

Seeing the dispute between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Xiaojun quickly went online to check the information and asked his classmates who was the doctor. Only then did he realize that some women are prone to sweat in the second month.

The mother-in-law listened to the expert's explanation and knew that Xiaomei's sweating was a normal phenomenon, so she fell silent.

2. Grandma, understand each other

It is true that a mother-in-law loves her son. Sometimes, between laziness and diligence, there will be some aversion to each other.

However, every family has its own way of life, and everyone has everyone's living habits. You can't just blame each other.

Sometimes, for some special reasons, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law need to live together and in the same room, directly facing each other's temper and life character. At this time, the two sides need to understand each other, understand each other and help each other in order to live in harmony.

For example, if a daughter-in-law is busy at work, she will have a rest and relax when she goes home. It is impossible to do housework at once. At this time, if the mother-in-law can understand, the daughter-in-law will be moved and feel warm.

It is important to have an independent husband.

Husband plays a key role in the harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If the husband is reasonable, firmly supports his lover and tells his mother what he thinks, then the mother-in-law can understand and understand her daughter-in-law.

On the other hand, if the husband can't tell right from wrong, but only agrees with his mother-in-law and complains about his daughter-in-law, then her mother-in-law must be more and more angry with her daughter-in-law and think that her daughter-in-law is a lazy person.

And often such a husband feels very filial. In fact, he has no opinion, no vision and no ability to distinguish. Can not give women the happiness they want, can not maintain the peace of small families, can not reassure parents, can not be truly filial.

It is very important for a husband to have his own opinion. A husband who has an independent mind has an independent mind not only in his own work, but also in dealing with interpersonal relationships and family affairs.

An independent husband knows which is more important, and dares to speak for his lover in front of his elders, which can not only give his lover happiness, establish his own small family, but also reassure his parents.