Life will lead many people to the opposite side.

It is very likely that what was once valued may be looked down upon later; What was once despised may be re-examined.

No one's mind is unchangeable.

No matter who it is, it will change with age.

Before Xiaoyu got married, what she hated most was the person in the circle of friends who did WeChat business. She once said: "I think this kind of thing is going to be banned, whether it is a classmate or a friend."

After graduating from college, she went to work in an ordinary company. Her life is simple and everything is just right.

At the age of 25, she met a boy under the introduction of her family. These two families are very suitable and hit it off with each other. A year later, they entered the marriage hall.

Less than half a year after marriage, she had a child.

Later, she resigned because there was no one to take care of the children and she had to rely on herself.

When the child was a few months old, one day I received a letter from her, which read as follows:

I want to make it clear that if you don't like me, you can block me.

I'm unknown so.

She replied: I am going to sell things in my circle of friends.

I asked what I was selling, and she said she was selling snacks for the time being and was still observing.

The next day, I saw that her circle of friends began to update, with little frequency, usually two or three a day. She said she was worried that others would not like her.

Especially for good friends who play, she made "prevention" in advance to remind them that they can block in advance.

It can be seen that in fact, her personality is not a very open person, and she is very concerned about the evaluation of others.

If there was another choice, she wouldn't go this way.

Because she doesn't want to consume her friendship.

Once I bought something from her, she gave me an extra bag. Later, she kept asking me, "Is it delicious?" She was relieved when I said it was delicious.

02

She told me that only one person in the family earns money, and her husband's income is average, the mortgage is pressing, and the expenses are also high. I finally got the idea because I had to.

As a wife, she also wants to share some.

If someone told her to sell things in a circle of friends before marriage, she would definitely refuse without hesitation.

After marriage, why do many women do WeChat business like Xiao Yu?

Because of marriage, I have a lot of pressure and responsibility.

These things, compared with face, are just small things.

In this world, what each of us ultimately pursues is actually the most ordinary life. Living safely and smoothly is a gift from heaven.

The recently released "20 19 White Paper on Family Farming in China" shows that:

The proportion of young parents staying at home full-time in China is increasing year by year, accounting for 58.6%. After 95, the proportion of full-time mothers has reached 82%, and more concentrated in low-tier cities. 60% stay-at-home mothers have a "sideline dream", hoping to balance career and family, realize self-worth and improve their right to speak. However, due to various constraints such as environment and energy, most of them are still in the conception stage, and only 35% people put them into action.

Therefore, the WeChat business has gradually entered the field of vision.

Arvin has two jobs. She usually works in a glove factory and sells things in a circle of friends in her spare time.

I asked her about her income.

She said that sometimes it can be ignored, and it is not fixed every month, but if you can earn more money, you will earn more, so the pressure will be less.

Arvin has been married for almost seven years and has two children, a son and a daughter. The original life was not good, but it was not bad either.

At least there is hope for the future.

Two years ago, my mother-in-law fell ill and spent all their savings.

My father-in-law died early, and it is not easy for my mother-in-law to take care of her husband alone. She said that although her mother-in-law didn't talk much, she was very nice and had been helping her with her children before.

Therefore, she can't be saved from destruction.

Disease, sometimes a bottomless pit, quietly takes away all hope.

Her mother-in-law is in poor health now, and the medicine can't be broken. The pressure of life is all passed on to her and her husband.

Neither of them studied much, and the work they could do was limited. Later, she saw from a colleague that she could sell things in a circle of friends and began to do it.

I asked, "Do you mind being blocked?"

She said: "It doesn't matter, shielding is normal, but I will continue to do it."

03

Xiaoyu and Awen are both sellers in my circle of friends. At present, Xiaoyu has not sold them.

She persuaded her mother-in-law to help her take care of the walking child, re-submitted her resume and returned to the workplace, and now she is at work.

She smiled and said that she was not the material and was embarrassed to send a circle of friends. Once she made one more, she quickly deleted it, and she was embarrassed to take the initiative to promote it.

So apart from selling some things to her good friends at first, everyone took care of them for mutual affection, and then she hardly opened the card.

Fortunately, life is getting better now, and there are no worries.

There is another WeChat business in my circle of friends. She is a single mother. Her child is 2 years old and sells cosmetics and so on. She can see her updates every day.

She told me that this was her best job.

While taking care of the children, she also wants to earn some money and subsidize her life every month. Her ex-husband often doesn't give her living expenses, otherwise she won't last long with her original savings.

She doesn't earn much every month, but talking is better than nothing.

Speaking of WeChat business, many people are not very impressed, mainly because there are too many three products, and some people have unlimited screens, which is easy to arouse people's resentment.

I asked other friends around me, what do you think of doing WeChat business?

Some people say that they don't have the habit of shopping in a circle of friends. In order to have a better reading experience, they generally choose to block.

However, some people said, "Although it is blocked, I will still look for her as a trustworthy friend if I want to buy something, provided that the product quality is up to standard."

There are also many people who have bought things under the recommendation of their circle of friends.

Generally speaking, there are two reasons, either the quality is really guaranteed or the business is taken care of for the sake of friends' face.

Therefore, from this perspective, it is true that others say that doing WeChat business is consuming each other's feelings. After all, most people are just acquaintances.

04

I don't think it is a problem for many women to do WeChat business in the circle of friends, and you can't ask others to ruin your job.

If you can't get used to shielding, you can even delete it, and it won't affect anything.

However, "it is ok to do WeChat business, but it is necessary to do ethical WeChat business."

Xiao Yu said.

"You just need to sell your own things quietly. Don't always lobby friends around you to buy products as agents, saying that the lifestyle of others not doing WeChat business is a kind of enjoyment. That's what you're fighting for. This is even more annoying. "

"There is also the kind of person who advertises to the chat window every day, which is really unpleasant."

Anything that imposes one's will on others is bound to be offensive.

As a mother, I believe everyone wants to make as much money as possible and reduce the burden on the family without missing the growth of their children.

However, you should not be too eager for success. In the end, you will be thankless and dissatisfied with your friends. You should also be wary of falling into traps and scams. You should make a good choice and polish your eyes before you do it.