In fact, for rural families whose in-laws are not too old, young couples usually give their children to their in-laws for care, and then they go out to work together. Such rural families still account for the majority. Families that really leave their wives at home are generally too old, in poor health, and have no in-laws at home, but they have no choice. These left-behind women don't want to stay at home themselves.
Then the vast majority of women who stayed were very filial. They have to be busy at home and abroad during the day and take care of their children at night. They don't think much about things in their minds and energy. They will visit whenever they have time, and they will think about things there. Even if I miss something, I miss my husband and worry about his safety outside.
Of course, there are also a few left-behind women who don't want to spend a long night, can't help but feel lonely and yearn for those bizarre lifestyles, so they have some strange ideas in their minds and are caught by people with ulterior motives. This is the real "flies don't bite seamless eggs".
So I don't think we should look at left-behind women in rural areas with colored glasses. Most rural left-behind women can still achieve self-esteem, self-love and self-reliance!
The life of left-behind women is very tired and difficult. The society should give more understanding, support and tolerance to rural left-behind women. They stay at home and work like men and treat themselves as machines every day. Therefore, we should create a more relaxed living environment for rural left-behind women.
Left-behind women in rural areas should contact their husbands more at home. There are many kinds of social software nowadays, such as WeChat and qq, which are also very convenient. They can chat by SMS or make video calls, and they don't spend much money. Frequent communication can vent one's inner anguish and solve one's inner thoughts.
In addition, now that the rural land has been confirmed, the land can enter various forms of circulation, or it can be considered to transfer the land out, and both husband and wife go out to work;
If children can take them with them, go out with them as much as possible, which will not delay their studies, but also enable them to grow up smoothly in a healthy environment, which is conducive to their physical and mental development;
Of course, the best way is for the local government to give strength, fully develop the local economy and establish various local enterprises, so that migrant workers don't have to go out to work and earn money at home, which can avoid many social problems.