At the end of February, my postdoctoral exit defense was successfully passed.

However, the doctor and senior sister who entered the station with me did not want to engage in scientific research because of "personal problems" during the station, which led to the fact that the outbound research report was not sent out, so they were postponed by the co-tutor and were repeatedly asked to talk.

However, the senior is a school teacher, and the delay in leaving the station actually has little impact on her career.

In addition, I call her "Senior" verbally, because we were the same tutor when we were studying for the PhD, but in fact she is younger than me. Whoever lets others enter school one year earlier than me can only "talk about seniority."

Needless to say, for most older female doctors, "personal problems" means worrying about love. Originally, the female doctor was jokingly listed as "the third kind of person", but now this female teacher and sister is standing as a postdoctoral fellow, which makes the average boy "flinch".

In fact, as an older single female doctor, my female teacher and sister are not alone. Looking around the school, there are more single female doctors than single male doctors.

To tell the truth, most of these single female doctors have a good face and a good figure, and they can see far and near even without makeup.

Besides scientific research, they also have a wide range of hobbies, such as practicing yoga, drinking herbal tea, eating pure lotus flowers, watching Paradise Cinema, Lawrence of Arabia and Blue? White? Red, watch impermanence and lotus, like Ian? McEwan, Zhang Ailing ...

However, as the saying goes, "Being is rationality", men in China have some male chauvinism in their bones, and they always like their wives to be inferior to themselves in all aspects, thus highlighting their lofty position in the relationship between men and women.

As far as education is concerned, doctor A likes to marry master B, and master B likes to marry undergraduate C. Doctor A becomes an older woman carelessly.

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In fact, during my doctoral and postdoctoral studies, the person who got along best was not my doctoral supervisor.

She is a strong woman from the northeast, with super scientific research ability, good personality and caring for all aspects of students. To describe the relationship between teachers and students in the words of our students is the kind of "being a teacher, being a mother and being a friend".

My tutor has been worried about my senior's personal problems for many years. He and his client helped introduce several doctors and masters, but the senior sister's eyes were too high and she was too old to choose.

No, because I'm leaving the station and my tutor is going to see me off, it's natural to invite the female doctor and my sister together. People say that "women" in Northeast China are all philosophers, so it is really theoretical, practical and interesting.

When the teacher saw that the teacher elder sister was a little depressed at the party, she naturally knew that it was because of historical problems, so she said to her half-jokingly first:

"In fact, you don't have to care too much about love. At present, there are many older female doctors in China, which basically have four endings: loneliness, stepmother, lesbian and becoming a monk. "

Everyone can't help laughing at the situation of older female doctors.

Suddenly, a single doctoral brother asked with a puzzled face, "Teacher, what is a lesbian? Why haven't you heard of it before? "

"Still a doctor, check it online yourself!"

It also attracted a burst of laughter.

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The tutor said that a joke is a joke. For an older female doctor like Shi Jie, in order to have a happier ending than the above four situations, she gave her six tips. But whether it works or not depends on personal nature.

First, the personal small universe should be strong.

There is no right or wrong world outlook, but there are differences; There is no difference between good and bad outlook on life, some are strong and some are weak.

Older female doctors belong to high-knowledge groups and have their own world outlook and outlook on life. As long as you don't trust others easily and stick to your own path, the world and life are yours.

Older female doctors have a powerful small universe, so they can be logical and well-founded. In the eyes of others, they can be lonely bastards or arrogant. In fact, they don't have to care too much about other people's opinions, whether they are in love or not, and who they are in love with, they have the final say.

Second, be economically independent.

Older female doctors may not all be rich women in the future, but they must have a job to support themselves. Have a house of your own, the environment should be relatively quiet, it is best to have some Woods or water next to it, and you can go for a walk when you are in a bad mood.

Be sure to save enough money to meet your own needs such as food, clothing, housing, eating, drinking and having fun. We must also have enough money to buy ourselves flowers and long skirts that will not be on the market next spring, without having to rely on the other half financially.

Because economic dependence means inequality between men and women.

Third, we should have a healthy body.

Older female doctors should keep exercising because they have to be alone all the time. They should not have stomachache after eating ice cream, feel dizzy when the air pressure is low, and feel sad when they see the moon at night.

Because girls tend to become fragile when they are in poor health, they are particularly eager to have a solid shoulder to rely on when they are fragile. They want to keep their heads from getting dizzy, and they want a man to hold their cold hands and let their stomachache pass early.

For this false desire, there are many Chinese New Year girls who often make outrageous stupid things.

Fourth, you should have a semi-professional hobby.

For female doctors, engaging in scientific research is naturally the right way.

But it's still work. Women must learn to enjoy life and cultivate personal hobbies. Even if they go to the Astrology Institute in London to study astrology, even if they are obsessed with social welfare undertakings, even if they love plants and zombies, they must never dedicate their time, energy, youth and life to their work.

Fifth, there should be three or five small universes similar to boudoir.

Similar small universes add up, and one plus one is far greater than two.

There are not a few older female doctors like the teacher elder sister in the school. You can find several people of similar age, similar personality and similar interests to get together and sometimes have a chat.

Spit out wonderful people or things, vent your dissatisfaction, and laugh together is better than hiding it in your heart alone, so as to jointly resist the evil spirits in life.

The sixth rule is to stay away from old people.

If older female doctors still want to get married, stay away from older male doctors. Old people who met at academic conferences or dinners, or who were introduced by others, are included.

Because these old men have been drinking Tsingtao brand beer since 20 years ago, watching spring flowers, holding guitars and girls, and holding "Selected Poems of Menglong".

They are like the old goblins in Journey to the West. Their sweet words from the heart can often smooth wrinkles and soothe the fragile hearts of older young women.

Compared with these mature old men, how can those unmarried boys get into the eyes of you older female doctors? As everyone knows, the harm of these old people is even more terrible.

In addition to the above six tips, the tutor's super tip for older female doctors is: If older female doctors really don't want to marry, then don't marry.

Because boys are a much lower species than girls. After menopause retirement, it is also an inexplicable pleasure to form a socialist mutual aid group with the remaining girlfriends and old men, to supplement calcium together, to drink together, to travel together, to take a bath together, and to eat together until death.

I personally feel that there is some truth in the clever planning of the tutor for older female doctors, but it is more like a joke from the Northeast.

In fact, the life of older female doctors is as full of pressure and helplessness as ordinary girls, but it is also more colorful and interesting.

They naturally have high standards for the other half, but they pay more attention to each other's personality and development potential, hoping to find someone with the same outlook on life and values.

The fact that the older female doctor is still single means that you haven't met the right person yet. Please keep looking, he will appear one day!

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