The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very good. For families, this situation is conducive to maintaining family harmony. As netizens pay close attention to this matter, there are many different voices in the comment area. Some netizens also think that the mother-in-law's company is more conducive to the daughter-in-law to complete the confinement, and the material reward is only the mother-in-law's mind. Some netizens also think that it is helpless for her mother-in-law not to accompany her daughter-in-law to complete confinement. It turned her distress and concern into four pounds of gold bars, greatly reducing the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Reward and compensation are feasible, but we should pay attention to the daughter-in-law's mood. Although most young people still maintain a good psychological state after giving birth, there will be no postpartum depression. However, it does not rule out that a small number of newborn mothers suffer from loss and gain due to insufficient family care, which is prone to postpartum depression. In fact, pregnant women hope to get more attention from relatives and friends after giving birth. There is always a gap between reality and ideal. Some relatives only care about the newborn, but ignore the mother who just gave birth.
Leaving pregnant women unloved for a long time will only increase their indifference. Mother-in-law is depressed and daughter-in-law is unhappy. Since the mother-in-law can't take care of her daughter-in-law, necessary compensation can ease the atmosphere between herself and her daughter-in-law. The price of four pounds of gold bars is not cheap, which reflects the good money of her mother-in-law and her mother-in-law's care for her daughter-in-law. The reason why netizens have different voices is nothing more than the different starting points.
To sum up, under special circumstances, rewards and compensation can reassure the daughter-in-law. But this is not the way most families get along. In most families, mother-in-law and mother-in-law take care of their daughters after giving birth together. There are few rewards. They use companionship to make up for the vacancy of reward, and their daughter-in-law can also be taken care of.