Although Hongye has written two articles about women before, she always feels that the writing is superficial, and the light of a good woman is beyond my humble pen. Because in the eyes of red leaves, a good woman is as deep as the sea, as pure as ice and snow, and as beautiful as flowers. They are not only personal nannies who can only do laundry and cook in men's lives, but also mentors and permanent spiritual harbors in men's careers.
If women hold up half the sky in the outside world, then women hold up half the sky at home. Think about whether women are dominant in our family in China, because they are often the core of a family. If a man walks in a family for a year or even ten years, the family is still like home. No matter how painful a woman is and how many bitter tears she contains, her children will not be wronged at all. But if a woman walks for a week or even a month, her home may not become a pigsty. Is it strange? I'm not alarmist, I have a factual basis. Because many times men only care about working hard outside, and women do all the chores at home. This is not because men are lazy and stupid, but because good women are used to men. A good woman wants her man to be indomitable and she will take the initiative to take care of everything at home. Good women don't like men entering the kitchen because they don't want men to be contaminated with rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, and want to use their kindness and vinegar. Therefore, no matter how busy and tired a good woman is, she will keep her home in good order, fresh and clean, and make men feel warm and happy as soon as they get home every day.
A good woman is often the core of a family. They have strong cohesion, and she will create a warm and harmonious atmosphere for the whole family. They will run to their men and do anything for their husband's family. Although she has suffered a lot, she will still protect everyone in her family with a smile and hard work, because she knows that only in this way can a man be happy and a family have a happy wife. So whether she likes it or not, many times she will do it silently, because she knows in her heart that affection and talent are everything, so she has suffered a little loss. What can she do if she is tired? Bitterness and tiredness are not a problem for women. The most important thing is a man's attitude. No matter how wronged she is, as long as you say a warm word, a gentle hug and a pair of loving eyes, it will be enough for her to bury the hatchet. Even if the tears in the corner of her eyes are still wet, she will do housework, serve the elderly and manage the children for you. A good woman is so kind, and the happiness she wants is so simple.
A good woman can often affect a man's life, so if you have a good woman, you will have the warmth and happiness of your life. A good woman is like a ray of sunshine. She will light up your career with kindness and generosity all her life. So, if one day you accidentally slide to the edge of the cliff, she will pull you back at all costs and will never help you fall to the bottom. Look at those high-ranking officials, how many people have not been jailed because of their wives' excessive greed and selfishness, so a good woman is not only your wife at home, but also a caring person in your heart, and a stepping stone to your career.
A good woman not only has her own career, but also is a good hand at running a family. No matter how hard life is, she will manage her family frugally. Her rich connotation is not only an inexhaustible treasure house for men, but also a model for the next generation.
If men create the world, then women whitewash the world, and the world will be better because of women. Therefore, beauty is not only a god, but also a masterpiece of human beings, which is why so many people praise you. Painters carve your immortal image of Yongxin with pen and ink, poets weave a net for you with metaphorical gold thread, the sea presents pearls for you, the mountains present minerals for you, and the summer garden covers you with the most beautiful flowers, making you more beautiful. Ah! Good woman! I will always praise you! (This article is March 8 Women's Day. I wish all women in the world a happy holiday! )
Second, women should respond to the excitement of live high and their own happiness.
Once a woman enters a besieged city, she has made a qualitative leap, from a simple girlhood to a housewife, and her role has risen from a simple daughter to a wife, mother and mother-in-law. Under the pressure of multiple roles, they often feel at a loss, especially those women with economic productivity, and the pressure is particularly prominent in the face of the entanglement of career and family. Although there is no lack of love and support from relatives and friends around, there are very few people who can really read a woman's heart. Beneath their glamorous appearance, there is a fragile and lonely heart. Therefore, women should learn to be kind to themselves whenever and wherever they are. Only a woman who knows how to be kind to herself will live a wonderful life.
Happiness is not given by others, but created by ourselves.
A person's life is a process of continuous learning, creation, renewal and improvement. Friend! Don't always say that you are too tired and busy, and I don't have time. What matters is whether your heart is there or not. As long as the most important things are done well and the time is arranged reasonably, then work, study, housework and entertainment are not problems.
I am a medical worker, and time is precious. I have to get up early six days a week to cook for my son in grade two, and I have to go to work. My home and work need to walk for 20 minutes, but whether it's cold or summer, or it's ice and snow, I never take a car and always walk, so that I can exercise and think. On the way to work, you can browse the scenery while thinking about the work flow of the day, so that you can devote yourself to your work quickly and orderly after coming to work. On the way home, I will make a plan in my mind for the recipe of three meals a day, and then I can prepare nutritious meals for my father and son in the shortest time when I get home. I like to jump pots, bowls, spoons, pots and clean the kitchen with a rag. Like to wave a mop in cheerful music; Like to conceive articles in the stirring sound of washing machine; I like playing chess with beautiful melody. I don't care about winning or losing. The most important thing is to have a happy mood. I like reading in a cup of tea. When I am physically and mentally exhausted, I also like to spend half a day in the beauty salon, without expecting to give me beauty care, in order to give myself a psychological treatment in that elegant environment. Call my father every day, buy some delicious food every once in a while to see my father and chat with the old people for a while. Sometimes I invite a few girls for a drink occasionally. As long as you make happiness with your heart, you will be able to extract happiness from ordinary monotonous life.
Happiness is cherished.
Happiness is a pleasant feeling that flows naturally in people's hearts. Not for others to see, nor for others to comment on, but to cherish. My greatest happiness is that when I am nearly half a century old, I have an 80-year-old father to honor. I cherish my parents for giving me fresh life and opportunities for glory. I will cook my favorite dishes for my parents when they can move, hold their hands for a walk when they can move, and pee on their backs when they are sick in bed. I will cherish every moment with them.
I cherish the shelter my husband gave me. Whenever I have a rest, I always clean my home. I never expect my husband to make me much money, be an official or make a fortune. I just hope my husband can live a healthy and happy life. Cherish my son's right to be a mother, cherish my healthy body, cherish all my friends who care about me, and cherish my favorite job.
Therefore, as long as you know how to cherish every scenery in your life journey and cherish every acquaintance around you, then your happiness will be incredible.
The trouble doesn't stop there.
If you are always willing to compare with others, then you are treating everything with a normal heart, looking at the world with a normal heart, knowing how to cherish people and things around you, and knowing how to create happiness, then you are adding trouble to yourself. Then you will live a wonderful and beautiful life!
Maybe we will sleep with a tired body tonight, but when the sun rises tomorrow morning and we hear the first bird song, we will meet the new challenge with a happy heart!