1, empathy. My mother-in-law came from your age. After all, you will be a mother-in-law in the future. Know how to put yourself in others' shoes. When there is a contradiction, think about how this contradiction is formed, what it is because of, how would you handle it if you were your mother-in-law, whether it is unreasonable to your mother-in-law, and whether it is really your own fault.

Of course, when you are angry, you will think, everyone knows this truth. You can also tell your friend about it and let him analyze who is right and who is wrong. Never pull your mother-in-law in front of your husband and let him comment on whose right and wrong it is, because no matter who your husband comments, it will aggravate the tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and will not play a role in alleviating it.

2. Pay attention to the emotional communication between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. As a daughter-in-law, if you want to have a good relationship with your mother-in-law, you need not only material care, but also emotional care. Having a good holiday every New Year may change the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It is also essential to care and be considerate every day. Whenever you are helped, you should thank your mother-in-law. Mother-in-law needs more careful care and psychological comfort when she is sick.

3, give her husband a certain dignity, let her mother-in-law feel that her son has found a daughter-in-law who hurts herself. Many people say that a mother-in-law loves her son regardless of her feelings. This is actually normal, just like our parents love themselves, just like you love your children.

Therefore, when the mother-in-law is around, try not to let her husband do housework. As long as she is a sensible mother-in-law, she will feel that her son has found a wife who loves her. Will say to the outside world: You see how much my son loves his wife. In fact, mother-in-law is like this. If you are kind to her son, she will be kind to you.

In fact, living with my mother-in-law is not very difficult. One thing is very important, that is, men A man is a bridge between two women. If there is any contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you can let your husband adjust. Try not to contradict your mother-in-law to her face. First, your mother-in-law will lose face, and your contradiction will deepen again. Let your husband explain, after all, he is a son, and he will lose face anyway. As soon as he got angry, the family was in harmony again.