There are always some parents in this world who regard their daughters as ATMs when they are unmarried and as commodities when they get married. Marrying a daughter is equivalent to selling it, which is particularly harsh on the issue of bride price. In the words of these mothers, you can't marry my daughter without a bride price. Many people joked: "If you want to get rich, you have to have more daughters, and if you marry a daughter, you will get rich."

This is a rather bad value. Although it is not easy for parents to bring up their daughters, it is too much to regard their daughters as commodities and marriage as an interest-oriented thing. Especially in rural areas, this phenomenon is particularly serious. They always retain the concept that "a married daughter is like spilled water". In fact, this era has long been different from the past. Although the married daughter can't stay with her all the time, she will keep close contact.

Marrying a daughter doesn't mean that you don't contact her. It's equivalent to finding someone who can take care of her, or someone who can take care of her, instead of selling her.

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Jing got married for the first time, and her mother asked others for a bride price of1.2000. At that time, only the man received the bride price money. After she got married, Jing also accompanied him to pay off the debt for several years, but her mother clearly knew that they were still paying off the bride price they borrowed at that time, and never mentioned that she would pay him back.

A few years later, they finally paid off their debts due to the bride price, but their relationship was not harmonious. At that time, the two men shared weal and woe together, and Qi Xin worked hard together. As soon as the days are easy, all kinds of contradictions begin to breed. They kept quarreling and quarreling, which was close to the bottom line of marriage. Finally, they ended in divorce.

After three years of divorce, Jing accidentally met a man who was also divorced. As soon as they hit it off, Jing planned to start her second marriage. But when I mentioned this problem to my mother, she didn't care about him, and she didn't worry about whether he really cared about him. The first thing my mother asked was, "Is he rich?"

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Although this is the second marriage, A Jing can still see her many years ago in her mother. When Jing got married for the first time, her mother said, "If you want to marry my daughter, you should first prepare a bride price of 6.5438+0.2 million." At that time, my mother kept saying that it was good for her. Later, Jing was in debt for several years because of this 1.2 million bride price.

Today, my mother is still the same. When I heard that they might get married, my mother's first sentence was: "If you want to marry you, you must prepare 80 thousand bride price first." Jing actually hates her mother's behavior. She couldn't help it when she got married for the first time, and now she is married for the second time. Mom is still like this, which is a bit too much. Maybe it will scare him away.

A Jing tried to convince her mother: "Mom, don't forget, this is not my first marriage. Is it too much for you to have such colorful gifts? " Mom said, "What happened to the second marriage? You are always worth so much! " Jing doesn't know what it's like to hear this. After all aspects of coordination, my mother finally made a little concession when negotiating the bride price. She only asked for 20 thousand bride price.

In fact, if two people love each other, the bride price is not particularly important. If it weren't for your love, this marriage would be meaningless. The bride price is acceptable, but not too much. If you accept too many colorful gifts, it is equivalent to selling your daughter in disguise, especially like Jing's mother. It's too much to ask for a bride price of 80 thousand after the second marriage