In today's competitive society, anyone who doesn't struggle under pressure will fall into the reality of anxiety every day when he blinks. Gradually, letting go of everything, accompanying children and enjoying the fun of children's childhood growth have quietly become a luxury and a value choice.
The most direct reaction to children is to wait. When mom and dad are rich, take you to travel freely; When mom and dad are free, I will accompany you to the place you want to go most and have enough fun. In this way, time slips away quietly. When we really feel that we have the conditions, we find that our children have already grown up and no longer need their parents' childhood companionship. Childhood passed, and you missed it.
Psychoanalytic psychology believes that the parent-child relationship in childhood will internalize the internal relationship model of children, thus determining the personality destiny of children throughout their lives.
Which is more important, work or career? Or is it important for children's childhood companionship? It is worth pondering by every parent. After all, children can't wait to grow up.
Good parent-child relationship is established and repaired in companionship, yes, as long as you are willing to stop and listen to the footsteps of children's growth; As long as you are willing to spend time with your child's growth, it is the best gift for your child.
"Mom, I am really happy today, thank you!"
Hearing this sentence, I felt the child's happiness today, and linked with her cheerful mood, my heart began to warm up instantly. It turns out that happiness is so simple.
Today, the school is closed due to the sports meeting, and the class organizes activities by itself. This is the first class self-organized activity since Diandian entered primary school. I believe that parents hope that their children can participate, enhance their feelings, improve their relations and establish good friendship with new students through group activities.
Fortunately, 16 students also participated in this activity. We will meet at that place around nine o'clock and start a cheerful and meaningful group activity.
In the first game, we played with real CS for the first time. Under the guidance of professionals, the children had a good time and kept laughing.
However, I also carefully observed the teamwork of children. At first, everyone only cared about running separately, and the two teams played two different colors and equipment. In the third game, everyone had a sense of collective honor, and began to stop to help the besieged teammates, and also learned to ask for help.
In short, in more than two hours, everyone's face was filled with smiles. See the picture above for details. Seeing the children so happy, our parents also showed happy smiles.
In the second scene, the children are arranged to ride horses. The children happily ran to the racecourse and opened a long line, waiting. The taste in their hearts is like an overturned subway bottle, with joy, expectation and anxiety.
In the end, everyone ended with a smile, which can be said to be wonderful, exciting, fun and beautiful.
Even our three-year-old sweetheart's state is amazing. Seeing that everyone is waiting in line, she is anxious and looking forward to it, and wants to experience it quickly.
When I got on the horse, it was an exciting and strong request to ride again. Finally, I couldn't bear to make her regret it, so I queued up to ride again. Who knows, the little guy realized the fun of riding, but also intoxicated with it and asked to continue riding.
In the third scene, barbecue and free activities are arranged. I am very grateful to a classmate's mother. She gave everyone delicious food and worked by the oven for more than seven hours until four o'clock in the afternoon. Great parents contributed a lot to the team. Two skilled mothers stayed up late and got up early to prepare exquisite desserts and reassuring yogurt for everyone.
During more than four hours of free activities, all the children were full of energy and enthusiasm, and they were free to form a team, playing "the eagle catches the chicken", "reciting Tang poems" and "playing poker". You ran after me excitedly all afternoon, which made our parents deeply realize it. The venue is not important, but the existence of each other.
In this way, with the laughter of the children, time passed quickly. Finally, the children reluctantly said goodbye to each other and began to look forward to the next party.
Children come into this world only through us, and none of us can control their lives. What we can do is to accompany them quietly and protect the happiness and happiness at that moment together. We don't need anxiety, let alone comparison, so we just observe them quietly.
Companionship is a kind of happiness, and children's smiles are parents' greatest motivation!
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