There are many reasons for not having an opinion.
Low level of thinking is also a kind of,
Analysis of most problems without opinions is that there is too much desire.
Is a greedy character,
People who are too selfish often seem to have no opinions.
Actually, I don't want to hurt myself,
Of course, this is my personal opinion.
I think there are many reasons for not having an opinion, not necessarily because of the low level of understanding!
I think I have no opinion, mainly for the following reasons:
1. He grew up in a strong family, which did not allow him to have his own opinions. A person, when he was a child, was forced to do everything, and he was used to resignation. When he grew up, you longed for his advice, which was unrealistic!
Maybe he had a good idea before, but something may happen. Later, he reflected that if he put forward his own ideas in that industry, no matter right or wrong, there would always be opposition and suppression. In order to survive, he gradually learned that it is better to do more than less, and he gradually became the so-called-smooth operator!
There are still some people who are "good people" if they don't violate his interests. It's not that they don't have opinions, they just divide things!
There are still some, which may be lack of cognition, but it is not his fault. Think about his family background and life background!
So I think he has no opinion, not because of his logical level, but more because of his family environment and life background!
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No viewpoint has nothing to do with the level of thinking, one is congenital deficiency, and the other is related to family education. Parents teach their children to use repression, which is no good, and that is no good. Children will hesitate when they grow up!
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Personally, the formation of personality is more due to the growth experience of minors, and it is relatively stable after formation, so a person who has no opinion may have various reasons. From the perspective of developmental psychology, I think it is the reason of family education.
There are two main reasons for the lack of autonomy:
1. Parents do not give their children the power and space to make decisions.
Parents usually do this out of "good intentions". They are always afraid of wronged their children, so they blindly arrange, replace or interfere too much in their affairs. This will naturally make the child indecisive. Moreover, children have no experience in doing things independently, and once they are asked to make up their minds, they will inevitably be at a loss and have no way to start.
Parents always want to find fault with their children's behavior.
Now parents are eager to see their children become rich and their daughters become the norm. They often expect too much from their children and are always dissatisfied with their performance, with less praise and more criticism. Some parents also let their children do things they can't do, but they don't help him. In this way, children will become more and more frustrated and lose confidence. They are afraid of being criticized by their parents after doing something wrong, but they don't know how to do it well, so they become indecisive and unable to make a decision.
Therefore, the key to children's lack of autonomy lies in their parents' "not letting go" and "one size fits all". The psychological development of preschool children is extremely fast. As parents, if they can't observe their children's inner world, don't pay attention to respecting their independent requirements, and blindly set their children's learning and life patterns according to their own ideas, their dependence will become stronger and stronger, and eventually they will gradually lose their independent ability, which will continue into adulthood.
Hello, I'm a mind reader and a psychological counselor.
First of all, we must understand what it is like to have no opinion. No opinion is relative, not absolute, because some people trust others too much in some things and affect their decision-making attitude.
Opinions are the main opinions that people give to make decisions according to the size and relevance of things.
Therefore, everyone has their own opinions, but at some point, for many reasons, they follow other people's ideas.
Why do you obey others? Analysis of the reasons, the specific possible situation is because:
First, the family is too spoiled, and parents do everything for them, resulting in no opinion. Because parents dote on their children, they are afraid that their children will be wronged, afraid that they can't stand it, and completely ignore their feelings. Their parents are in charge of everything, and they are not at ease when they get married, but it also has a dependence on their children. They don't think about anything, do nothing, ask whenever there is something, and don't understand or want to understand, which leads to their lack of decision-making and laziness.
Second, in the relationship between husband and wife, one party is strong and the other is weak. In real life, when couples live together, one of them will take the lead, and the other will reduce the chance of being the master. After a long time, they won't think about it, and they won't bother to think about it. They do whatever you say, avoid quarreling, one party has the final say, and finally they are at leisure.
Third, feel inferior and doubt your own opinions. Everyone with low self-esteem feels whether his idea is feasible, doubts himself and believes in authority. Long-term disbelief will lead to poor independence, seriously affect their independent ability, and also change their active attitude, making them unable to make up their minds and be passive.
Therefore, whether you have an opinion has nothing to do with your level of thinking.
Without an opinion, you don't know what you need. What you lack is the basis for making decisions, so you can't express your opinions. This is not a very good thing. You can only follow other people's decisions, but you can't tell the direction you want to go.
Let's see how to establish an independent determination strategy. When you need to make a decision, you don't need to think twice, just check it in your mind first.
For example, when you are having dinner with someone in a restaurant, you tell yourself, "When it's my turn, I must order a dish." . Then go back to your heart and find your feelings. What others have ordered cannot be repeated with others. When you look at the menu, you can see "boiled meat slices". The price is reasonable. You should taste the taste in your heart first, and then check if you feel great. Then watch kung pao chicken, eat it in your heart and remember whether you like it or not. Then tell me your decision.
When you feel in your heart whether your decision is what you need, say your decision. Start with simple things, and soon, before you know it, you can make a decision on everything in your life.
People hesitate because they don't know or are afraid to make the wrong decision. They first make a decision in their minds, then check whether they need it, make a positive decision if they need it, make a negative decision if they don't need it, and make a decision immediately without hesitation.
Because it's just a decision, there is no difference between good and bad. Exclude the good and the bad from making decisions and make decisions according to your own needs. Good and bad belong to the category of philosophy and do not exist in reality. The reality is cruel, everything is legal, you just need to consider the rules of the law.
The third miracle answers for you.
I have no opinion, I think it's because I don't have a clear goal and don't know what I want. I don't know how to choose and judge. This also shows that without in-depth thinking, without in-depth thinking, how can there be a basis for judgment?
First of all, such people don't have to criticize themselves for this, because this is the "inner nature" of most people.
No one really has no opinion. Everyone has his own ideas and a label system for understanding the world, no matter how "incompetent" a person looks.
If you really don't have a mind of your own, then listen to what others say, that is, most people have become very good "managers", but this is not the case.
Usually, the hidden information of people who have no opinions is "afraid to take responsibility" or "unwilling to take responsibility", because once they express their inner opinions, they will inevitably take responsibility for it, but the subconscious performance is timidity or escape.
This is why there are many people who follow popular thinking in life, and few people who dare to take the lead in independent thinking. Because most people hide this "feature" in their hearts, but some people clearly show it.
Seeing the root of the problem clearly, there is nothing to struggle with. You can choose to accept this feature of yourself or improve it.
I don't know,
All thinking is just the level of spiritual consciousness,
What really determines people is the subconscious.
No problem,
The real reason,
I was unconsciously influenced by the environment,
The deeper reason,
When I was a child, I was not treated equally by my parents and did not get equal communication and exchange.
Even many independent experiences are interrupted and taught.
Therefore, the ultimate reason for not having an opinion is that there is no subject and no true self.