First, direct opening is always the best way.
Because it is direct, you can directly screen out girls who are interested in you! I usually start like this:
"Hi, hello, please wait a moment."
Keep smiling, don't giggle, don't show too many teeth, stand up straight and don't look timid!
"I just saw you over there and thought you were special. I want to meet you. "
You can play here alone. For example, I would ask:
Are you a student? . . .
Depending on the scene, you can also start receiving numbers directly.
"Well, my friend is still waiting for me over there, and we can exchange WeChat! I hope to see you again next time. "
I basically drive this!
Second, we must slow down.
What you say is always more important than what you say. Your eyes, actions and clothes directly determine the success rate of your conversation.
I wear short-sleeved pants and slippers and I wear a formal suit to strike up a conversation, and the success rate will be obviously different, so the important factors for a successful conversation are dressing up and your personal image.
Third, it is very normal to be rejected for being photographed.
Today, even if I go out to chat up a great god who looks like a dancer, he will be rejected like that, and there will be a situation where a woman shakes hands like a salesman and doesn't open her mouth.
This will happen as long as you strike up a conversation. Like anything, failure is the only way to success!
This kind of rejection is to sharpen yourself, so be careful to share it. Every time you strike up a conversation, you will imagine today's shopping malls and lots as replicas. Lao tze today brush copy upgrade! Shop assistants and salespeople are NPC! ! It's normal to come here to fight monsters to upgrade. When you fight monsters, you will inevitably get hurt. How can the world succeed once? Yes!
In fact, chatting up is, in the final analysis, a game that dares to abandon face and go forward bravely! The technical difficulty is not great.
Fourth, the higher the score, the higher the acceptance rate of girls chatting up.
From my own conversation and observation of dance steps, it is not that girls with low scores are more likely to talk, but that girls with high scores are more likely to accept conversation, just think about it.
Girls with high scores are often accosted and approached by men for various purposes. Naturally, I became acquainted. On the contrary, it is a low-scoring girl, because there are fewer boys in life and fewer girls are accosted.
Fifth, the sister's reaction
You will encounter these common types of compliments 2:
1. Ignore you directly, with a proud and indifferent expression on his face. Never mind, let's turn away with a smile.
Shake hands before you speak. In this case, you have to reflect on your dress. Do you want to be a salesman because you are too obscene, or do you have a bad environment for chatting up? People are too noisy and not open enough.
Don't laugh all the way, there is no feeling of surprise. This kind of girl is generally more rational, and it will be a little difficult to chat after receiving the number.
4. Laughing while covering your mouth, being accosted by you is a bit scary and unexpected.
Generally, girls are more likely to receive numbers, which also shows that girls are more emotional!
6. Wechat is more effective than phone number.
Compared with the telephone number, the advantage of WeChat is that your friends can let your sister know who you are more easily, and your sister can know you more easily, so now I always receive micro-signals.
One thing to know when chatting up is that no one can succeed casually. Stand the test of failure, and you will succeed once as long as you work hard. Come on!