The friend was surprised and said, "How do you know? My husband travels a lot, and he also has many recreational activities. He often goes home at night 10 or even early in the morning. He was still sleeping when I went to work in the morning, so we had less time to chat. He always refuses to let me in case of contradiction. Hey! If it weren't for the baby in my belly, I would want to divorce him. Is this life! "
Hearing this, I was sad for a while. Pregnancy should be a happy thing. Husband should take care of his wife more, but now it has become the point of intensification of contradictions. On the day of living in her house, we can see from several details whether her husband loves her or not. Obviously, come to learn and see if your husband is "biological".
1, don't let your wife wash clothes and clean up.
When I first went to their house, as soon as I went to the bathroom, I saw some wet dirty clothes in the basin, and some in the washing machine were just about to dry. My best friend took me home and said to hang up my clothes first without a few words.
I wondered at that time: she was pregnant, so capable, why did her husband go? Moreover, the first three months are unstable and prone to miscarriage. I didn't ask for fear of causing unnecessary trouble.
If the husband really loves you, he will take the initiative to help his wife wash clothes or even close-fitting clothes after pregnancy, clean the family hygiene and prevent her from overworking. If he uses a good man, he will never let his wife interfere except having children.
Don't let your wife cook.
Cooking is actually a laborious task. The liquefied gas (natural gas) in the kitchen will produce harmful substances after burning, which will be discharged into the air. A pregnant mother in the kitchen will certainly do some harm.
However, when I went to my best friend's house that day, my best friend called my husband in advance, so I came back early. I didn't want to cook at all after I came back, so I chatted with my girlfriend in the living room. My girlfriend is cooking. I couldn't stand it, so I cooked in the kitchen with my girlfriend.
For the husband who really loves you, even if he is a "novice in the kitchen", he is willing to learn recipes for you, and cook your favorite meals in different ways every day, not to mention, just to avoid making you tired.
3. Restrain sexual life and actively learn maternity knowledge.
Many men, after their wives are pregnant, can't live a married life for the first three months because of their unstable children, and they are still tough and even derailed. Xiaole just wants to say how far this love rat is!
After dinner in the evening, Xiaole's best friend husband said that he was too tired during the day and went back to the bedroom to sleep first. Although there is no excessive behavior, he obviously can't learn maternity knowledge with his wife. His girlfriend said that he had a stomachache a few days ago, and her husband didn't care. He just said it was normal and left it alone.
If you are pregnant, your husband can try to control his sexual desire and even take care of your feelings when the child has sex after stability. And often accompany you to learn the knowledge of pregnancy, tell you what not to eat and what to pay attention to, then you can have fun!
Of course, a good husband can be seen not only after you are pregnant, but also from the above three points. Details can best reflect his love for you.