I learned later. At that time, I was really stupid. I only knew how to think and think, but I didn't know how to act at all.
In the middle of dinner at night, there is a primary school brother. He has only been at work for a few days, and he wants to go out and start a business. He said that if people want to do what they are most interested in, they must realize their dreams. Passionate, he asked me what my dream was.
I said, I don't even have a dream now. I will be happy when I go home to write an article after dinner and do things with my heart.
I really seem to see me from him. I am very simple, thoughtful and energetic.
Only now, I really don't know whether I am lazy or defeated by the world. Now I can only do things well.
It suddenly occurred to me that I really wanted to be a world-class enterprise, and sometimes I wanted to be a listed company. When I saw someone else setting up a stall, I wanted to set it up. When I saw someone else opening a barber shop, I even wanted to learn.
When I saw someone else's roadside restaurant, I also analyzed how to open it. I remember buying a cookbook to go home at that time.
it's ridiculous to think of the past now, but I was really like that at that time.
It's just that when we look around us now, many of them are like that. How many artists, how many code writers, how many business people, who don't want to be their own bosses and who are not looking for projects?
But many of them have really been done. Just like me at the beginning, I just wanted to waste my one acre and three points.
many people are doing customer service originally, but they are thinking about how to secretly open a Taobao shop.
of course, what they mean is that customer service is very idle, but it's not idle. It's that we are lazy and greedy.
We always think that we can do almost everything, and then we can do what we want. Just like those people who set up stalls in college, I once did. Reading was always in the top few, but it was not the first. This is also my biggest regret.
If I could have studied well when I was studying, I am definitely different now.
of course, as everyone knows, I fell behind.
I often walk back and forth with Fuda in the dormitory after falling down, because of the great pressure.
I have been thinking for several times why there are so many cars, so many buildings, so many houses and so many beautiful women on the road, but it has nothing to do with us. What's the problem? Why are they so powerful that we are down and out?
I thought about it for a long time, and once I saw an aunt sweeping the street there, I finally understood.
that is, we can only think, but we can't do it. Although they can't think, they can do it, and the result is much better than ours.
Now it seems that this is the most basic, but when I didn't come up with it, I was really depressed. Because I really can't stand reading books for so many years, but the result is so lonely, even more confused than anyone else.
I got it later, and I finally let it go.
Because I understand why aunts who sweep the floor can live naturally, because they have something to do and try their best to do it well. So is the taxi driver, the bus driver and the car driver.
although they seem to come and go, in fact, they are all trying to do things.
They also get things done one by one, so they get a lot of rewards.
The sweeper cleaned the floor, and his boss was satisfied and paid.
The driver delivered people to their destination safely, and as a result, he also made money.
those who drive cars, maybe they drive cars to run business, because they worked hard before, helped their bosses make a lot of money, and got dividends themselves, so they can afford cars.
but when we think of us at that time, we think about it seven times and eight times, sometimes it's called interest, and sometimes it's called a dream.
Later, I was chatting with some friends. I know, in fact, everyone has dreams.
Those who take their children to the park every day also have dreams, so do those aunts who sweep the floor, and those uncles and aunts who are security guards. And their dreams are bigger than ours and much more realistic than ours.
Speaking of dreams, my primary school brother and I chatted in the evening. Maybe he didn't believe it, and some people didn't believe it either.
but it's really my dream.
In the past, my dream was how many things to do, but now I think I can do things well every day. Because I know that doing things well every day, as long as they are done well and accumulated, can really do great things.
It seems that Boss Ma said that he used to think about how to change the world, and as a result, he was very painful. Later, he thought about how to change China, and the pain was a little less. Later, he thought about how to change his province, his home and his children. In the end, he only thought about changing himself, and as a result, he could live comfortably every day.
So I think that dreams should not be very big and far away. What we should do most is to do what we are doing now.
For example, if I were my primary school brother, I would definitely not think about it at all. I would do my job well after graduation. Don't change jobs, and don't worry about starting a business. Just do it slowly, gradually.
if you persist for a few years, many things will definitely be different.
Then, in the process of persistence, think slowly, think gradually, and think about what you really want.
Maybe many people will say, what I want is simple, and my dream is 123.
If this is a child, really, only after many hardships and years of washing, will we really understand what we really want and what we really should want. Our dream may not really be to change the world.
maybe it's just for the warmth of our own small family.
when I thought of my previous depression, I thought at that time that I would either run a business or maybe I could do it myself.
because I didn't have a job at that time, I really think it would be great to have a job.
I just think about it now. Fortunately, it was like that at that time, with that fall. Now I will cherish it so much.
Many people always want to change their jobs, and always want to change their projects.
actually, it's really unnecessary. Every industry is the same, some people do well, some people do badly, and there is no way to gain anything until one thing can be done thoroughly. On the contrary, if you do a good job in an industry, you can gain something.
When it comes to the beginning, we must stick to it. What I want to express is the above sentence.
a lot of things, a lot of reasons, what we really want in our hearts, we really didn't understand it at the beginning. That's what God gave us on the way of doing things, insisting on one thing, and doing things thoroughly.
So at the beginning, we can only cherish it, besides doing things well, we can only do things well. When things are done, a lot of things that belong to us will come. Such as real opportunities, such as our real dreams.