I came into this world with ten pains. Such a small person, so weak, was once very anxious about how to raise him. Now he has become a little man who can hold my hand and always declare to protect me. Friends who know me well always say that I have changed too much since I became a mother. Looking back on the past two years as a mother, there are tears and laughter, bitterness and sweetness. The biggest change can be summed up in two words: "growth". Actually, I'm a little resistant to growing up. For a woman, growing up always seems to mean getting old. We agreed to remain eighteen forever. But once I became a mother, I gradually understood that you can always keep the mentality of 18 years old, but you can't always keep the mentality of 18 years old. People should not resist growth. Just like the phoenix nirvana, turning a cocoon into a butterfly, growth means that you become stronger, take on more responsibilities and have more possibilities in life.
I couldn't unscrew the bottle cap before, but now I can hold a baby of 30 kg with one hand and walk like a fly. I never thought that I could play such a great potential as a mother. Mencius said: therefore, the day is about to drop to a great post, and people must first suffer their minds, work their bones and muscles, starve their bodies and empty their bodies ... it is really hard to be a mother. How bitter is it? There used to be a treasure mother around me: more bitter than migrant workers. Kobe once famously said, "Have you ever seen the sun at four o'clock in the morning in Los Angeles? I have seen it. " Seeing this famous saying after becoming a mother means yawning, four in the morning? I have seen all kinds of stars almost at night, no matter what time the sun and the moon are. Day and night, every day around the baby's eating, drinking and shitting. If the baby is sick, she will have to bear the inner anxiety and suffering besides taking care of it. However, after all this, I unconsciously no longer feel how hard it is to work like this, and I can bear more. Later, I felt that night milk was actually a very happy thing. Holding the baby in my arms in the quiet night, listening to his even breathing and smelling his faint milk fragrance seems to be like holding the whole world, full of satisfaction and happiness. Even after weaning, I feel a little lost. The embarrassment and anxiety of being a mother for the first time have gradually become the driving force for continuous progress and learning new knowledge. Arm your mind with all kinds of parenting books, parenting subscription numbers, parenting methods, and complementary food recipes for Chinese and Western children. Being a mother for the first time has no learning experience. Gradually, I can cultivate a calm mind, and I can also report the color of my tongue coating through blood items when I get sick again, and I will also give my baby food in a different way. The excellent treasure mothers around you are all eighteen kinds of martial arts, and many skills are not overwhelmed.
Besides developing your multiple potentials and adopting multiple skills, being a mother can definitely make your heart softer, but also stronger. Before I got married, I didn't like children very much. I think I can be cute with furry kittens and puppies, but I really can't like a baby who may have poor stool at any time. When I became a mother, my maternal love was completely aroused and reached the stage of blowout. No matter what kind of baby is full of cute spots in my eyes, minutes don't need to be cute. When I see another baby, I can't help but look at it and tease it twice, and then I will be in a good mood all day. I used to feel that I was a very insecure person. After becoming a mother, all kinds of blx and princess diseases have been cured. Are you embarrassed to say that you feel insecure when you are faced with a baby who needs your care and asks you to call mom? Great motherhood is instantly aroused. I can give myself a sense of security. Besides, I have to give my son a sense of security so that he doesn't have so much fear of the world. Besides, only by raising children can we know the kindness of parents. When I became a mother, I really understood the meaning of the word responsibility, and I realized how difficult it is for parents to raise themselves so much. I often feel that I have no time to begin to understand, and I hope that my growth rate can catch up with my parents' aging. A friend asked me, "Why has my heart changed so much since I became a mother?" I think it's because once I'm labeled as a mother, I always feel that there are a pair of clear eyes watching your words and deeds and every move. You will always remind yourself, "Oh, I'm mom." Confucius said that I save myself three times a day, and when I become a mother, I become N provinces. When I couldn't help yelling at her, she looked at you with innocent eyes and waved her little hand and said, "Mom is not angry, she is not angry." I lost my temper in an instant, and my heart began to reflect, blame myself and summarize myself. And the list goes on.
Some people say that when you become a mother, you have no time, no space and even no life. I want to say that there will be a short period of such a stage, but it is by no means normal. If you don't have time, try to improve efficiency and make time to do what you want. We all want to educate excellent children, so an important premise is that parents are the first role models for children. In fact, in a sense, children are parents' teachers. He came to this world, urging his parents to make up the courses they had neglected before and constantly improve their lives. Every child is an angel. It is precisely because of the difficulties in the process of raising children that we have the opportunity and motivation to explore and constantly reflect on our growth process and thinking mode. When I met my children, I met my better self. More importantly, I love this better self more and more. These changes were brought to me by my children.
Gratitude is at the end
Finally, today is Thanksgiving Day. I have to say something to thank you. First of all, thank my parents. They gave up their lives to help me take care of my children, let me work with peace of mind during the day, and gave me more time and space to wake up my own problems and realize my own growth; Thanks again to my husband, Brother Hamster, who has always supported me to be myself, fully supported me to do what I am interested in and want to do, and helped me to clear my mind with Virgo's calmness and rationality when I had many ideas; Finally, thank my son, Little White Horse, for giving me the best love in the world, giving me unreserved trust and attachment, and giving me the opportunity to grow up with you!