Many parents like to show off how good their children are in front of relatives and friends. This seems to be a tradition in China, and so should many parents. As for the intention, it must be to show off. Now that I am an adult, I also understand why parents should show off their children's advantages in front of relatives and friends, because not every parent is like this at first, or is brought down by some relatives and friends. I remember my former parents never showed me off in front of others. They have never said a good word about me, saying that I am rebellious, and I don't like learning very much if I can spend money. But as soon as my fifth uncle or my aunt came to our house, they said how excellent their daughter was. What was her name? She is good-looking, obedient and sensible, and then my mother must be somewhat unbalanced. She feels that her children are not as good as her own, and she feels uncomfortable. Sometimes it's not that her parents don't like us, or that their parents are belittled by others when they hear others praise her children. So when your children have some advantages, they will become like others, which is what I just said. Up to now, I am the only one of all my brothers and sisters who has been admitted to graduate school. This year, my sister, the daughter of my sister's family, was praised to the sky by my sister since she was a child. As a result, she was admitted to the university this year, only taking one subject. At that time, my mother often hurt me in front of relatives and friends, saying that I was disobedient. As a result, I was admitted to an undergraduate university and this year I was admitted to a master's degree. So, now my mother also begins to show off to them, often praising me in front of them. I think this is thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi. The reason why I like parents who need children in front of others must be because someone shows off their children in front of them.