the Chen Dynasty

"People in my life is not easy. I have been independent since I was a child, and I am a good girl in the eyes of my parents. When I grow up, I get married and try my best to educate my children. Now my daughter is working abroad and married. My husband's job is also ideal. I helped my mother get rid of the disease. Now in October, she lives freely in a seaside apartment in Sanya, just like some elderly migratory birds in Northeast China. I thought for a moment. I've lived for these people for most of my life. Now I apply for retirement because I want to love myself for the rest of my life. "

"I especially cherish every warmth you have given me. I really love you! For the rest of my life, I will be strong and my inner sunshine will go on. I will remember your kindness! "

At the round table of a medical canteen, in the coldest weather this winter, at the node less than two weeks before the Spring Festival, in the fragrant heat of chicken soup curling up, my colleague for many years, beautiful A Juan, just said gratefully. ...

I said that every normal life is from infancy to old age, but everyone's life can't be copied casually.

Just after the Spring Festival in 20021year, A Juan told us that she wanted to go to Linzhi, Tibet to see peach blossoms alone. Several people were shocked when we heard her plan. The reason is simple: age, altitude sickness. However, A Juan still set off for Tibet without looking back. She flew to Lanzhou alone, took the train to Xining, then took the train to Lhasa, and then took the coach to Linzhi. From the video she sent back, we didn't see her fatigue and illness. On the contrary, the smile of a sunny woman in the same frame as the snow-capped mountain and the holy lake conquered us, and also touched those of us who always said we were going to Tibet but were slow to take steps. After coming out of Tibet, she went to Chengdu with a backpack. She went to the magical Jiuzhai along the high mountain valley next to the Minjiang River, and went to the place where she wanted to go but didn't have time to go in the land of abundance. She walked fearlessly, and she walked confidently and happily. ...

Before that, she and her husband went to northern Xinjiang to help Xinjiang and went to Bussel, and she immediately fell in love with the folk customs there. She felt that she didn't stay enough in northern Xinjiang and the people there. So, after completing the task of aiding Xinjiang with her husband, in the autumn of 20021,she set foot on the road back to northern Xinjiang alone. ...

Once upon a time, I only thought she was exquisite in appearance, but I didn't expect her to be so strong and independent in her bones.

When her mother was paralyzed in bed because of stromal tumor and lost consciousness, local hospitals, provincial hospitals and even famous hospitals in Beijing were helpless, she never gave up! She and her husband are always looking for anything that might save her mother. Finally, under the recommendation of a friend, she used the special peer-to-peer medication of the Navy General Hospital. Her mother miraculously stood up and regained all consciousness. She can fly to Hainan in late autumn every year to enjoy the life of coconut wind and sea rhyme. A Juan said that if I went with her, I would take her to the airport, and I would contact Hainan to pick her up on time. If I don't have a companion to go, I will go with her myself. She is familiar with many people in apartments for the elderly and on vacation, and she has lived well in recent years! A Juan said that as long as her mother can play for one more day, she will be happy. Because of my daughter, I made my mother very comfortable in her later years.

Usually we see A Juan talking about her daughter, and she is also smiling. A Juan has a daughter as independent as her. In my sophomore year, I insisted on going abroad, went to Canada, studied languages, went to high school, went to college, applied for a job, first went to the tax bureau, and then jumped to Puhua to go to Deloitte. My goal in life is very clear. I keep learning and working hard to create a life. I married myself abroad and married an Asian young talent my age. A Juan and her husband are very satisfied with this, as long as their daughter is happy. She said that her daughter has lived up to her efforts as a mother over the years. ...

Speaking of Mr. A Juan is also full of pride. She chose her own husband, so she has to be nice to people! She does this and that at home. She can make everything simple by herself, but for her husband, it must not be sloppy. She supported all his decisions, and she helped him stick to his ideals. She once made a menu map with all the labels in Zhang Hecheng. We didn't know that she could cook so many dazzling foods. In this way, people often invite Mr. Wang to get together in those special restaurants on weekends, and two people ...

A Juan's carefulness and thoughtfulness are appreciated by us more and more. Let's say that this winter lunch, she chose to go, first went to a tasting meeting, which was not as good as the legend imagined, and then came to this medicated diet, and she came to see the ingredients herself. She was satisfied and invited us to go. ...

In the story of time, every family has a different chapter. A Juan is trying to write her own story.

One night the other day, she sent me a WeChat message: Please take a bath and eat some food yourself.

I laughed myself after reading it. Isn't it common to take a bath and eat by yourself? A Juan used "please yourself" and suddenly found that the painting style was different from peacetime. There is a kind of respect, a kind of concern, a kind of concern and a kind of self-esteem. In short, my heart is full of joy. ...

Love yourself for the rest of your life.

Every day from now on. ...