It is not that I don't want to get involved in their affairs, but that I know I can't dissuade them. We are used to their quarrel these days.
"I know that I go out to drink all day, regardless of me and my children. Do you still know to come back now? " A woman was about to explode from the opposite side.
"Do you think I want to come back? Your temper annoys me. " Men are not to be outdone.
"Well, you can't stand my temper now. You are fine all day, will I lose my temper with you? "
"You can say what you like, I'm leaving? ! "
The man slammed the door and left, and our world was finally clean.
But I was tossing and turning in bed and couldn't sleep.
When my husband and I moved here a few years ago, this community was not like this.
At that time, men's careers had just started. Although he has no money and is busy, I can always see the couple go for a walk together after dinner. He hugged her, spoiled her to the extreme, and didn't care about other people's eyes. I only see sweetness and tenderness in her eyes.
She greets me softly every time she sees me, and occasionally invites me and my husband to their house for dinner.
When cooking, he tied her apron and helped her. She smiled softly. At that time, I felt that this kind of love was so good that others envied it.
I turned to look at my husband. He looked at me with spoiled eyes. I think he and I will be happy.
I smirked at him, and he touched my head and said, "Fool, I'm not in the mood to eat if you laugh again." Hearing him say this, I laughed even more happily.
But now lying in bed listening to the quarrel and slamming the door, the happiness in the past seems to have never been there.
Probably she knows how to cherish and accompany from the beginning, and any tiny emotion can be found in time. Nowadays, men are getting better and better in business and communicating more and more, but they no longer pay attention to women's small emotions.
Emotions will always erupt when they accumulate. Men feel that women are no longer as gentle as before, and women also feel that men are no longer coquetry. Instead of timely remedy, they chose to blame each other. They complain that life is getting worse.
I can't help asking my husband, "Will we be like this in the future?"
"Fool, how did that happen? You will always be my little princess. " Mr. Wang rubbed my hair and said to me gently.
I put his hand on my six-month-old belly and asked him, "Would you like to be a boy or a girl?"
He whispered in my ear, "I like them all." If it's a boy, we cannot father to protect you. If it is a girl, I will protect you both. "
I smiled at him, but I was moved to cry.
It suddenly occurred to me that a few days ago, my friend Xiaoying, who I haven't seen for a long time, came to my city on business and thought of stopping by to play with me. I readily agreed. However, my husband was worried that I was pregnant and road-crazy, so he changed the law to persuade me to agree to accompany him as a driver.
I'm thinking about the date between two girls. He's a little embarrassed to be around, but he always promised me that he wouldn't disturb our date. I couldn't stand his indecision, but I promised to accompany him after all.
The next day, he took a day off to take Xiaoying and me to play. In addition to driving to lead the way, he obediently followed us, taking charge of the bag and paying the bill.
Xiaoying smiled and said to me, "I think you are much gentler than before." Sure enough, spoiled girls are different. "
I thought about it, and it seems to be true.
I lived alone before I met my husband. I have to carry water, change the light bulb and repair the water pipe myself. I can only be a woman so that I won't be crushed by life and have no time to be gentle.
But then I met him.
He will remind me to eat on time, pick me up from work, cook me brown sugar water during my period, and be willing to try something I don't like. After I was with him, he never asked me to do heavy work, and he also did housework with me. He said that this is the fun between husband and wife.
Although he is very busy, he will study recipes with me in the kitchen when he has leisure on weekdays. The small kitchen is full of fireworks. He put his arm around my waist from behind and I took a deep breath. His smell is mixed with fireworks. It smells good.
I often laugh at him. After he married me, he wouldn't let me work. Just like raising a daughter, it's really a great loss.
But he said, "I married you as a pet. As long as you are by my side, I feel that I am the happiest person in the world, so I actually got a big bargain. "
At that time, I was thinking how lucky I was to meet him who was so kind to me.
Also because I met him, I became gentle inadvertently.
I used to be careless and never cared about details. But because he is going on a business trip, I will help him pack his bags, prepare the documents and list all the things he wants to bring in advance, for fear that something is missing.
I didn't know how to cook before, and I felt that I didn't have any talent for cooking. But now I can prepare a table for him after work and wait for him to come back.
However, he held an umbrella for me, sheltered me from the wind and rain, and protected my inner softness. I gave him all the softness. I always feel that love is mutual. He is your gentleman, doting on you, loving you, and you are his girl, loving him and understanding him.
Perhaps, as Zhang Ailing said, "Emotion is fragile enough to stand the wind and rain, but it can't stand the ordinary; Through thick and thin, sunny days will come to an end. "
However, life will be dull after all, and no matter how warm the feelings are, there will be a cold period. What we should do is not to let life be washed away, but to keep looking forward to life and lovers in such days. Maybe it's just a hug, maybe it's just a sentence that I miss you every day.
You know, a woman's best dowry is a considerate and warm heart, and a man's best dowry is a lifetime of accommodation and love.
There is no natural gentleness like water in this world. If you meet the person who makes you unconsciously gentle, then he is probably the right person.
May you be strong enough to be loved and hurt, but lucky enough to be loved and hurt.