Nowadays, the comparison in rural areas is getting worse and worse, especially during the Chinese New Year. It seems that all the people who return to the village are rich. My home is in the countryside. Let me talk about my experience first.

Smoking: I am in Xi 'an, with a monthly salary of more than 5,000 yuan. I usually smoke 14 yuan. I smoked 18 yuan when I came back for the Spring Festival, but obviously I couldn't get it. They all started with the 25-year-old Furong Wang, and soft China is very common.

Gambling: Casinos in rural areas are getting bigger and bigger, and they feel like rich people.

But in the end, what I know is that most of them are not good at hanging out. Many of them are credit cards. Many of them are funded. Then come back for the Spring Festival and pretend to be rich. This is the legacy of the former dignitaries. You know your own life, there is no need to go on like this.

I hope my answer can help you, thank you!

What do you think of the fake wealth in rural areas? In fact, this phenomenon is easy to interpret. In our hometown, fake wealth is just a swollen face and a fat man! People living in this society have several psychological manifestations. Hypocrisy, vanity and saving face are common phenomena. Nowadays, the atmosphere of keeping up with the joneses in rural areas is very heavy. Everyone is not at home at ordinary times, so there is no time to meet and get together. Only on holidays, especially during the Chinese New Year, will they go back to their hometown once. Luxury cars, good cigarettes and good wine are all on display. Everyone gets together to brag and compliment each other. Good cigarettes and good wine are indispensable. Don't shoot and smoke.

I am a true, casual and casual person. I remember one year when I went back to my hometown, I had ordinary 5 yuan Baisha cigarettes in my pocket, and others smoked Furong King. My brother also reminded me of this matter in particular. It's not so bad to smoke for people in the college when I come back. That is the reality. Actually, I'm just used to smoking old white sand cigarettes. I didn't think so much.

I am a careless person with no material concept, because some people really don't like this character. So I also understand these pseudo-rich. The ancients said, die without regret! It is best to be true and natural, not happy with things, not sad with things!

Come out of the countryside and work hard like me,

I only go home for the New Year once a year.

You can't avoid chatting with friends and relatives.

Often asked by seven aunts and eight aunts.

Xiao Liu, how much are your clothes?

I bought this dress in a big shopping mall.

It will cost 5.6 million yuan after the discount.

I just laughed and didn't talk,

Aunt next door asked me?

Xiao Liu,

When are you going to buy a car? What brand of car are you going to buy?

My son bought that car very well,

I got 0.2 million/200 thousand by installment,

It's too ostentatious to drive out and visit relatives,

I just laughed and didn't talk,

My friend Xiao Wang asked me?

Yo, Xiao Liu hasn't changed his mobile phone yet.

I changed my cell phone three times a year,

Just smile at the fake rich.

It's not bad to pack 10 thousand a year and 200 thousand in 20 years Doing something reliable will be too expensive.

I wore the same cotton-padded clothes for three consecutive years when I went home for the Spring Festival. 95 yuan bought a double happiness brand cigarette.

What do you think of the fake wealth in rural areas? I think they are too poor for the rich. You can't pretend to be rich by one or two clothes or renting a car, because you are the root of the countryside and you may have to live for decades. How can you pretend to be rich? If you have money to buy two good clothes for your parents, you can usually give them something to eat. For a lot of money, it is more worthwhile to give his parents two thousand dollars than to pretend to be rich.

Kaki wants to ask the questioner why he always mentions the countryside. Is there no "fake wealth" in the city?

Open your mouth, close your mouth, and take a bite of the peasant. Did rural people eat you or wear you? Buying a house is sprayed and buying a car is sprayed. Can't rural people buy a house and a car? Don't buy a house, don't buy a car, they say they can't afford it. Do rural people deserve to be poor?

Many people in the city are too poor to pretend, not just in the countryside. Don't you see that rural people have money? Let's meet the questioner now and formally return to this issue and talk about the "fake wealth" in rural areas.

Some people drive back to the countryside, just like their ancestral graves are full of smoke before they can afford a car. They can't wait to tie a tweeter to the roof and brag about it.

I think this is probably because I was afraid of being poor before. Once you succeed, you have the mentality of wanting to fly. In fact, this is the "pseudo-rich", and the real rich are very low-key.

In rural areas, really rich people tend to keep a low profile. Many people with millions of assets still smoke a pack of more than a dozen cigarettes after returning to their hometown in rural areas, dressed in ordinary clothes, for fear of being known as rich.

Because once relatives and friends know that they have money, someone may come to borrow money. If you don't borrow it, it seems that you owe someone a favor. If you borrow it, you may end up as an enemy. Therefore, the more low-key, so that no one will miss it and give people a better impression.

However, some migrant workers have saved tens of thousands of dollars all the year round, and their houses in their hometown and countryside have never been repaired. However, they always look like rich people, smoking China cigarettes, and the last time they were hard-shelled China people, they got a bunch of relatives and friends to borrow money from him from time to time.

Everyone has his own way of life and consumption. Since others can bear the pressure, why can't they enjoy a better material life in advance? Do I have to wait until I save enough money to buy it?

Everyone has his own standard of happiness. Rural people work hard outside and want to present their glamorous side to the villagers when they go home for the New Year.

This is human nature and understandable, as long as it is not too much. For example, people who deliberately make noise to show off after driving back to their rural hometown in the middle of the night should be criticized.

Buy a car of several hundred thousand yuan and wear expensive new clothes during the Spring Festival. As long as it is not high-profile, it has nothing to do with being rich or not.

When I returned to the countryside during the Spring Festival, many people in the village bought cars. Someone bought more than 200,000 cars and washed them clean every day. However, the house at home is still bare red bricks, tiles are not attached, and there is no decent furniture. It is not clear whether the family is really rich or fake.

It is said that people often use hard-earned money to buy cars, and they will not drive until they return to their hometown at the end of the year. After going to work in coastal areas, they ride a battery car to work, and the car stops at the roadside to seal the dust, only occasionally. I wonder if this is true.

On the sixth day of the Spring Festival last year, in front of a flower shop, two rows of twelve BMWs were decorating floats to marry the bride.

How awesome! What a rich man!

I asked an acquaintance quietly, what rich man? Just an ordinary family in the countryside. Look good on your face and be overbearing in the village. Ask your friends to help you!

Thank you, Mr. Wukong and Lessing's dead friends for inviting me to answer questions.

In recent thirty or forty years, especially in recent years, this trend has intensified!

It worked. It should have been a good thing to go home dressed. But even so, you should keep a low profile, and you are not afraid that your relatives and friends will borrow money to pressure your family when they think they have made a fortune.

The point is that this kind of person didn't make a fortune. Maybe he is totally embarassed outside. Maybe he still owes a lot of debts, but he has been fighting for his face!

Liu Ji, the founding hero of the Ming Dynasty, has a famous saying in his book "The Citrus Seller", which is full of treasures. Obviously, the family has enough food and clothing, but it is still not out of poverty. In the eyes of outsiders, it is a rich man and a rich boss. In fact, in this person's heart, it is also uncomfortable. Is this holding the lute to hide your face, trying to save face and suffer?

I remember that in the early days of reform and opening up, there was such a similar phenomenon. In the mid-1980s, all the people went to sea, and everyone went to sea. Wealth information is everywhere, gold is everywhere, and wealth can be created everywhere!

My company has an office in the city, and an employee told me that a large sum of money was coming to me. Here comes the big boss, with an old bag in his hand and polished shoes. It seems that he bought it at a stall. People haven't completely entered the door, so they shouted, do you want to do big business?

How can you not do business? What kind of big business? 80,000 tons of urea and100,000 cubic meters of wood are all on foreign freighters in the port! At that time, the port could not enter100,000-ton ships, and even this information was revealed by the business department of our company.

This is what the person in charge of the Beijing ministries we are familiar with told us. There are 30,000 to 40,000 tons of urea and 50,000 cubic meters of wood to enter the port from Lianyungang. You see, this word spread like this, and the duckling became an old hen!

Therefore, the phenomenon of "pseudo-wealth" in some rural areas also has its reasons. Everyone else is rich, but they don't mix, for fear that others will whisper behind their backs.

What should we do? In Lianyungang's words, put on leather clothes, not a sheep! Driving a luxury car, wearing a famous brand, and acting like a rich man. In fact, your neighbors all know. The house at home, the smallest clothes, people have long known that you are a "pseudo-rich", but they will only speak ill of you behind your back!

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It's still time to visit relatives in the country. I believe everyone has met many rich people when visiting relatives. They give you good cigarettes and generous red envelopes. They even drove their cars to visit relatives, looking like rich people. In fact, there are some pseudo-rich people among them. what do you think?

Speaking of pseudo-rich people, they are those who go back to the countryside to pretend to be rich instead of making money outside. I used to be reluctant to smoke a good cigarette in the city. When I go back to the countryside during the Spring Festival, I will buy some bags for others. At this time, others also look up to you and think that you have made a lot of money.

Compared with people who smoke well, some people even rent a car and go home to visit relatives. Because they haven't saved up money to buy a car, but now they have no car and no face when they go back to the countryside to visit relatives, so they can only rent one. In this way, others will respect you and be willing to talk to you more when eating, so that you can eat happily and won't get much respect.

It can be said that there are really many such pseudo-rich people now. You see, it can only be said that it is forced by the environment. Nowadays, the tendency of comparison in rural areas is becoming more and more serious. It used to be simple, but now everything is compared.

It is the comparison in rural areas that makes more and more pseudo-rich people. They don't want to pretend to be rich, but if they don't pretend to be rich, they will lose face in the countryside. When you are full, you can only speak silently, and it is also embarrassing to ask yourself and answer yourself.

Pretend to be rich, but people won't keep asking questions. You will think you are rich. If you smoke a good cigarette or drive back, it can avoid many problems, which is why more and more people will do so.

In short, although the fake wealth in rural areas is deceptive, it is not necessary to expose it if it is not too pretentious. After all, they also have their own difficulties, just let them get away with it. I don't know what you think, let's talk about it.

Real rich people should be the kind with more money. They all talk and do things with deep pockets. You can feel it when you do a stand-by dance. Are there really so many rich people in the countryside? Very few, so I personally understand that fake wealth in rural areas should be people who pretend to be rich without money.

So why are there pseudo-rich people? In fact, they all want to earn some face for themselves and let everyone envy them. The onlookers will not care so much, but they just think that so-and-so is not very reliable.

There are indeed many such pseudo-rich people in rural areas, probably because they are not satisfied with working outside, so they don't want the villagers to see that they are not doing well outside. They usually smoke at most 10 cigarettes outside, but when they get home, they have to pretend to be local tyrants and buy 30 or even 40 cigarettes. Their status and identity are very different.

Or empty all your savings for many years, or borrow money to buy a car of hundreds of thousands. After driving home, they will show their faces in front of the villagers from time to time, and with a set of bright clothes, few people can see that they are fake rich. However, the thought of each other's parents suffering in their hometown all the year round, having no money to decorate a new house for many years, or having no new house at all. Everyone knows that they are all fake rich.

Maybe it has something to do with a person's personality, but I just don't want people to look down on it. Even if some people really have no money, their families are poor, and when they eat and drink with others, they reveal their true nature through alcohol. In fact, everyone knows that blowing will make the wine table more lively, but many people just sound uncomfortable and will not hurt others' faces.

Real rich people tend to keep a low profile, and even many people with millions of assets still smoke cigarettes for more than ten yuan after returning home. The more low-key, the fewer people care about them, and at the same time give people a better impression. As for whether they are rich or not, they have proved themselves by actions, such as buying several houses outside and what they do. This information is actually no secret in their hometown, so the rich people all prove it with actions.

What do I think? I choose not to look, just ignore it, out of sight, out of mind.

As long as it doesn't affect my life and touch my interests, he can do whatever he likes. After all, everyone has the freedom and right to live the life he likes.

However, if it is really "false", then it will be exposed sooner or later. If he can accept the psychological burden brought by this gap, so be it.

Since he has this need to satisfy vanity and has not killed or set fire to it, I can only wish him to be such a "pseudo-rich man" for a long time.

However, I will not agree with this lifestyle and value orientation myself.

Although everyone has a part of vanity and face-saving self inside, this degree can still be controlled.

How far a person has gone, how many shoes he has, and how much ability he has to realize his desires, he enjoys the baptism of how many desires, which is healthier and more rational.

How to treat the "fake wealth" in some rural areas? Let's take a look at what "pseudo-rich" means first. "Pseudo-rich" refers to people who are short of money but look rich. In fact, such people are the scenery in front of people and the pain behind them. "Fake wealth" means showing off wealth.

Even so, the "pseudo-rich" like this lifestyle. I think the main reason is that they love face. He likes to satisfy his vanity by making others think that he is rich and successful.

1. I eat instant noodles in the dormitory, but I often bask in my circle of friends and eat with people in luxury hotels.

The salary is meager, only three or four thousand. But the whole body is famous brand goods.

3. When I go to dinner with friends, I don't want to pay the bill in my heart. On the surface, I have to rush to pay the bill, and then I have to say something like it doesn't matter.

4. I often drive all kinds of good cars, which are actually rented back.

5. Tell the folks about your scenery outside, how much money you earn a year, what business you have done, and so on.

6. The wallet is very clean, and you may not be able to eat, but you have to buy more than 100 yuan of cigarettes and distribute them to others.

7. Pay special attention to the price of everything you use.

8. I went shopping with my friends and thought it would be good to buy a bottle of water. But I told my friends that this brand is not delicious, and this one is so cheap that it must be fake. Buy whatever you want. Here's the list of marshals.

9. Always show off your wealth, but you are in debt everywhere.