Fan Wenyi
Boyfriend:
Hello!
On second thought, I don't know how to start this letter. So let's start by saying why we wrote such a letter.
I'm not a person who doesn't like thinking. I just like to run away sometimes. In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with escaping, even if it is bad, I don't want to face it. But these days with you, you have re-inspired my thinking and made me think positively. I think it's good. Although I also know that a girl's greatest happiness is to be with the person she loves and think nothing. But I dare not expect, in the life that I have gained so many beautiful and touching things from my life, whether I am lucky enough to be a woman favored by life. Therefore, in my opinion, it is necessary to be a woman who can think independently and live independently. When I am with you, I can be willful and think together. In my opinion, it is already a great happiness.
Maybe I slept too much yesterday afternoon, which led to insomnia at night. Or maybe the neurons in the cerebral cortex were too excited and produced a series of ideas that led God to laugh at me. But it doesn't matter to me. The important thing is that I really thought about it. I do have something to say to you. So there was such a letter.
In short, I want to ask you a few questions. The first one is about soul mates. All along, I have been labeled as demanding of my boyfriend. Although I never thought of it that way. But now, I have to admit, it is. Spiritual resonance is an aspect that is more difficult to reach a tacit understanding than material or life. But in my opinion, it is a very important aspect. I'm not just saying, I have a basis. In my opinion, whether it is love or marriage, every individual will collide in the process of blending, but it is not necessarily a spark or a hard injury. Material life is the lowest living guarantee and the easiest part to achieve harmony. As long as they have similar family circumstances, we can establish a consistent consumption concept in a running-in period. It is not difficult to establish a new harmonious mechanism, either with a little restraint or complementary consumption. It really takes some time to get used to getting along in life. This is a combination of habit and habit. But fortunately, we have the same goal in life, that is, a healthy life, which is rare. With this major premise and goal, many living habits will soon overlap and get along easily, which I think is very rare. But I am a child with poor self-control and need your constant encouragement, so I leave this big problem to you and you are not allowed to escape.
Secondly, the spiritual aspect that I value most. The so-called high demand aspect. There is no doubt that I am a person with rich spiritual life. Sensitive, affectionate and fond of thinking, although the most useless, but I also enjoy it every day. I like to arouse my feelings about life from a book, learn my attitude towards life from a movie, feel the happiness in life from a piece of music, follow the author's brush strokes around the world, experience anxiety from a plot, and arouse memories and imagination from a lyric. I am a child who loves to dream, although I am past the age of dreaming.
You said we were a couple with complementary advantages. I agree with this statement. But in my opinion, there is no such spiritual paradise in your life. You have told me many times that you long for your family, because you can walk in, tear off your mask and drop your guard. Very real, very self. This is your desire for family. I quite understand. Although I am not a man, I know it is not easy for men to work hard outside. They long for a lamp, a cup of tea, a hug, a kiss, a breakfast and a simple walk. But in my opinion, these external spiritual comforts are far less pleasant than my own spiritual paradise. It is here that we complement each other. You can teach me a lot about being a man in the workplace, and I can also take you into my spiritual world. You teach me to grow up, and I make you feel relaxed. That's good. But I know that I must learn to face difficulties alone, just as I expect you to have your own spiritual paradise. I won't disturb your spiritual world when you need space. I will only look at you silently and peel an apple and an orange for you.
But through this time, I found a problem. I also told you this problem, that is, your life is so pure and simple. Maybe you need too much thinking at work to make your life so black and white. In my opinion, simplicity is good. But simplicity does not mean that you are not rich. In your life, there are only two parts: stress and tension. I don't think this is good. Because, even if you expect family life to be the source of happiness in your life, I have to say that sometimes, family is also the source of difficulties and stress. I'm worried. What should you do at this time? Therefore, I encourage you very much, and I really want you to have a spiritual paradise. This is not to watch movies for learning English, nor to swim for exercising, but to make you feel happy and relaxed, that's all. Even if you don't want me to bother you, I can accept it Because when you fully enjoy happiness, I also feel happy. So, cultivate this kind of love more. Make models, play with cars and go outdoors. Of course, I wish I could be with you, even when you miss someone, I just want to look at you from a distance.
The second point I want to say is sweetness. I think sweet is a particularly good word. Warm, sweet and considerate. Is what everyone wants to feel from life. Men need it more. Because men themselves lack this ability of self-regulation, especially in experiencing small happiness and small happiness. Here I talk about my understanding of sweetness. Through my two little things, although I don't want to show off myself and feel how sweet I am, I really can't find such a case through you, and it is not convenient for others to give examples, so I can only praise it. Please don't laugh at me. There will be a concert in Joe Hisaishi on the 25th. I wanted to go to one as early as last year. This opportunity comes once in a blue moon. The fare is reasonable and there is plenty of time. But I know you won't go this day. I also thought about making up an excuse to make you feel at home, and then I went happily, but after thinking about it, I simply didn't tell you. So as not to embarrass you. I gave up and chose to stay. If you need me to show up that day, I will definitely stand by and watch. This is one of them. Another thing is that I don't know whether to tell you earlier or wait until it really happens. I choose to remain silent. Silently bear this thing that seems to me to be already very stressful. I didn't tell you because neither you nor I can change this reality. Even if I tell you, it will only add to your troubles, affect your sleep and your work, so I will avoid talking about it. But sooner or later, the problem will be faced. I believe that at that time, you can stand in front of me and think in front of me. In fact, I also have many wayward and overbearing places, but these are the ways I express my love. I hope you can accept it happily. We should all learn how to love each other.
The person a girl wants to marry is very simple, just one, as long as she is good. But there are many advantages. Some people think it's good for her to buy her good clothes. The more expensive the better. Some people think that if you can make her happy, you are good to her, take her to interesting places and take her to eat delicious food; Some people think that it is good for her to give her a stable home and let her enjoy ordinary happiness. But in my opinion, there are more requirements for me to be good. I want more because I want the same from myself. So you don't have to worry, you just have to pay and get nothing in return. This doesn't fit my definition of love fairness.
Be good to me, be good to my body, worry about my body, and love my body.
Be good to me, be good to my family, love them and care about them.
Be good to me, be good to my friends and get along well with them.
Be nice to me and make me feel warm. A phone call, a text message, a greeting, will do.
Being nice to me makes me feel at ease. A hug, a conversation, and an oath will do.
Being good to me means not letting me be wronged, but trying to bear more for myself, lest I think too much and feel uncomfortable.
Being good to me is to pay attention to my inner world, the twitching of my mouth, the confusion of my eyes and the melancholy of my heart. If you observe them carefully, you will always know me best.
It's not a few tears and love letters, it's not a mysterious gift for Christmas, it's not a new dress in the window, and it's not a romance at a birthday dinner. Winter is foot washing water, summer is cool and white, autumn is purple grapes, and spring is lotion. It is a thin quilt for me in early winter, a mosquito net for me in summer, corn cooked for me in autumn and a hot breakfast in winter. Too many, integrated into life, but inexhaustible, inexhaustible happiness. This is good for me!
This was all I could think about last night. Other details are not worth mentioning. In fact, I can influence you subtly and let you adapt slowly, but I can't wait to say it, because time doesn't allow us to digest each other so slowly. We must take a direct attitude. In my opinion, communication is the best way. You often elaborate your views and attitudes on the phone at length, which makes me blindly worship as if I were brainwashed. But fortunately, I also have my own thinking and thinking. I just don't know where to start at the moment.
I hope we can love deeply, far and long.
Your girlfriend
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Fan wener
Dear:
I am sorry to write this letter to you with tears in my eyes.
A lot has happened between us for such a long time, and the most unforgettable thing is the happy days together. But it seems too short. Of course, there are times when I am unhappy, but I regret it very much after every quarrel, really. Only then did I realize how much I care about you. ...
Because I love you, I choose to give you up. You once said let me turn a blind eye. I tried for a long time and many times, but it didn't work. Because I love you, women are selfish. If a woman doesn't care what you do, then you are not important to her. My requirements are not high, treat me as before. but ...
I'm really fragile. I usually like to say harsh words, but the real me is as weak as a lamb. I am a person who has been hurt by love. I don't want to hurt myself so badly for an impossible love. I'm so scared, I don't know how long this wound will heal ... now I just feel like a hedgehog full of holes. For you, my thorn seems to have been pulled out. For you, I can change myself, my personality, my job and even everything. Now every step I take, my body hurts and my heart hurts more.
What kind of girl am I in your heart? I am very concerned about this problem. You said I was far from Xiao Gansu. Do you know how much this hurts me? My heart hurts like a needle, even my blood is dripping, but I still smile and say to you, it doesn't matter, I don't care ...
If you love someone, you should make him happy. You should be with the woman you like. Don't be afraid of face. You are not husband and wife, but you can still be lovers. And I will be an angel without feathers all my life. I don't even have the conditions for my own survival. What love can I talk about?
I really don't want to leave you, but I can't stand the lukewarm attitude of a man who doesn't love me I'd rather leave loneliness, at least you can be happy. I wrote this letter as painful as cutting my own flesh with a knife, but I wrote it anyway. The only thing I don't understand is, what happened to us? What's all this for? Can you tell me now? Let me calm down. ...
XXX
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Fan Wensan
Dear boyfriend:
Today is the 39th day of our love. Write down my first love letter and give it to my favorite idiot.
Fate is a wonderful thing. Among thousands of people, why did I meet you? Buddha said that it took 500 times to return to the past life, in exchange for the passing of this life.
How long did it take us to meet at that glance in our last life!
Although I call you glib, glib and sweet, I still like your rambling jokes sometimes, your narcissism when you tell me that I am handsome in the mirror from time to time, your tone of calling your aunt like a friend, and your bad smile when you occasionally' hit' me.
On Valentine's Day, you came back halfway, which was a surprise. Although you had an unforgettable Valentine's Day with me the day before, you were still a little sad when you set foot on 390. Considering how bleak it would be to go to the hospital alone, I still can't believe your message. It's a bit like a movie plot. Dear, thank you for your happiness.
Walking hand in hand through the bustling streets and shopping malls, on the stairs, I can only kiss you if I stand a step higher than you. Walk through unfamiliar places, drag you around and obey. When I am tired, I will hold your hand tightly and not resist obedience. It is very warm and happy to think of these. I used to see those close couples and thought the beautiful picture was an unreachable dream, but now I have the feeling of such a dream.
I once had a dream, that is, holding the hand of the person I love, going shopping, traveling and walking through the long boulevard. I hope I can hold someone's hand for a lifetime, hold your hand, and live with my son for a lifetime.
Of course, maybe I'm not a good wife. I don't have superb cooking skills, gentle as water, only a stupid brain that is often confused and occasionally savage, but I will study hard and learn to serve the dishes on the menu first, and I will find the most suitable taste for you.
Dear you, what you need to know is that what I want is someone who loves me wholeheartedly, and what you have is someone who loves you wholeheartedly.
For the last time, honey, I love you.
XXX
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