Pay attention to the death of the elderly;
1. Complaint (funeral report): An old man died at home, and the person in charge asked the elders at home to arrange a funeral for a few days. One to three days in summer and autumn, three to seven days in winter and spring. If there are children waiting in the distance, it can't be more than five days in summer. The dutiful son went out to report, wearing mourning clothes and holding a funeral stick. A person familiar with the relatives of the deceased led him to report the case. Every time the dutiful son comes to the door, he kneels by the door, waiting for the invited person to meet him. The dutiful son kowtowed before leaving. Never come into the house.
Second, super recommendation. Dojo is divided into monk Dojo and Yin and Yang Dojo. Monks and Yin and Yang Dojo can recite scriptures in the same mourning hall, but monks should stop chanting and take turns chanting. Monks are strongly advised not to break the ground, not to go to the grave, and not to pay for fasting at the funeral, but it is not that the Buddha does not recite the scriptures. There are three forms of Yin-Yang Dojo: regular food, three-newspaper food and canned food. Those with few families, full children and grandchildren and poor families often hold the form of eating and mourning in the hall; The family economy is relatively rich. Before his death, he accumulated kindness, earned money justly, and managed his family diligently. The respected family held three mourning Dojo (report to the earth, report to the ancestors, report to the parents on their parenting). Few families are financially rich. There are several houses in the courtyard and several hectares of fields. He was an honest official and had a high prestige. He has passed Xi Shou (seventy years old), and everyone respects him. Future generations are officials in officialdom. After the old man died, his children and grandchildren ate canned food. The scene was spectacular and lively. There are three eminent monks and five Taoist priests chanting scriptures. )
Third, incense wax. The mourning hall needs incense, day and night. Never cut off the fragrance, nor do candles. Before eating every day, we should respect the deceased, put the rice on the table in front of the spirit, and put the chopsticks vertically, not horizontally.
Fourth, lying grass (kneeling grass). After the old man died, the deceased was parked in the mourning hall. During the mourning period, housewives (wives, daughters-in-law, married daughters) knelt on the straw outside Lingqianmen. When the mourners came, they cried intermittently until the guests left. A son woke up at night.
Fifth, transfer the spirit. In the process of moving spirits, relatives should not cry, and tears should not fall on the faces of the deceased. In the process of moving spirits, cover your head with an umbrella.
Sixth, burn the sedan chair. The night before going out, at 23:00- 1:00 (midnight), the clothes of the deceased, paper boys and girls, cornucopia, cash cow, modern electric appliances and so on were burned outside, which meant to see off and explore the road.
Seven, can't go back to the funeral, go and go back to choose different routes.
At the funeral, the dutiful son knelt down with a white flag every once in a while to thank the savior.
Nine, after going to the grave, you can't cry (grave), you have to turn around the cemetery three times.