When you were in kindergarten, your father bought you clothes, and your grandmother even accused him of coveting his own territory. What style do you wear? I think your mother and I should have the final say, without too many people interfering.
I think you are my own child, the poorest child in the world. Seeing that you have made a little progress, I am very happy every day. I hope that a better tomorrow will come unexpectedly. Beyond the love for children, love without regrets.
Nothing in this world is better than loving and being loved. And this love is happiness, hope and expectation.
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Many young parents, because of their busy work, often ask their parents to help take care of their children, so there is a kind of spoil called "surrogate parents". They are relatives of the next generation, grandparents, grandparents.
Mom and dad don't understand why there was no such treatment when they were children. Their attitude towards their grandchildren is a hundred times better than when they were children, and they are infinitely spoiled.
In order to let you eat pollution-free vegetables, grandpa often goes back and forth for a long distance to farm in his hometown and gives you everything he can!
Every time grandpa picks you up from school, it's like completing a sacred mission. In the storm, he enjoyed it.
Grandma's big meal every weekend is according to your taste. From birth to now, grandma has been designing nutrition recipes, and caring is never absent.
There is a kind of cold that makes grandma think you are cold and forget the truth that spring covers you and autumn freezes. Too many clothes will actually cause you to get angry often.
Seeing this, I remember that I have never had a grandmother since I was a child, so I envy you. How happy I am to be spoiled by my grandparents!
Never consider the return, just pay. Constantly spoil children. As long as she needs it, we will be invincible, always affectionate and passionate.
No matter how old you are, your grandparents love you in their unique way. Too many, countless, countless examples.
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Children are the continuation of life, the spiritual sustenance and the link between themselves and the future. They also thank their children. They are sincerely happy that they have children trying to entertain their grandchildren.
Grandparents are the second echelon of their parents, and even want to take their place, deprive their parents of their rights, and take care of their grandchildren as their most important thing.
This year's college entrance examination season, a couple over 80 years old in Shanghai drove their granddaughter to take the college entrance examination, which attracted attention. Grandma said that she began to take care of her granddaughter from primary school, and from accompanying her to finishing high school, the tuition cost was 6.5438+0 million. I want my granddaughter to take the Tsinghua exam and accompany her to do the questions to 1 am every day.
Grandparents themselves are sparkling high flyers, both of whom are undergraduates in the 1960s. When the children's mothers are in poor health, they undertake the task of children's education, do their best and have no complaints.
Whether you are healthy or disabled, whether you are smart or stupid, whether your academic performance is good or bad, they will never give up, love you forever, support you and do their best to protect you, as long as you are happy.
Once a news that "grandma went to school with her granddaughter who was gradually frozen 10 years" touched netizens. The little girl Liu Xuannuo suffered from "gradual freezing" since she was a child.
In order not to delay the parents' work, grandma has been accompanying Xuannuo to school from kindergarten to junior high school. Grandma said:
"Her IQ is not disabled, why don't I let her live a normal life? I want to be her leg and I want to take her with me. "
"I won't let any child grow up."
"What I say most is: Grandma loves you and I will tell her every day."
Grandma also thinks that when studying in thousands of books, you should also take Wan Li Road and often take your granddaughter out for a trip to broaden your horizons and see the beautiful scenery outside.
Accompanied by grandma, now Xuannuo has a cheerful personality and excellent grades, and has also won three excellent students at the city and county levels!
But grandma has accumulated a lot of problems in the process of taking care of her granddaughter all the year round. I am 64 years old and have had two operations. The right arm can't be straightened, and there is often pain in the wrist and elbow.
The top comment of this news is: "It's good to have someone who won't give up on you anyway."
This is a deep love and unconditional love for the next generation. Grandparents use their limited everything to create unlimited possibilities for their children. The love of the next generation is no less than that of parents.
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The love of grandparents is the supplement of parents' love, and life is indispensable.
However, because of different ages, different ways of thinking, different life experiences, different personal hobbies, different living habits, different social conditions and different educational methods, it is necessary to supplement children's love, and * * * bears the heavy responsibility of educating children.
Cousin's house is the apple of her eye. Because my cousin likes singing, her beloved granddaughter was moved and fell in love with music. Cousin insists on the shuttle bus regardless of wind, frost, rain and snow. She was admitted to the Conservatory of Music this year and spent nine years with her, looking forward to blooming. Granddaughter realized her dream, and cousin finally got what she wanted.
Willing to spend money on children, even if you are thrifty, you are willing to spend money on children and love them as much as possible. Willing to spend time with children. When disciplining children, don't miss every opportunity, teach them the truth of growth and educate them to form good habits.
Today's hot search, an old man in Dongying, Shandong Province took a bus for 7 hours, carrying a bag of plush dolls to visit his granddaughter in the city, including Doraemon, Mickey, Winnie the Pooh, Teletubby ... hundreds of various plush dolls.
As a teacher's grandfather, he doesn't laugh at school, but whenever he sees a plush doll, he will buy it for his granddaughter whether he is on a business trip or going to the market. I've been saving for a long time and I've saved a big bag. I hope my granddaughter will be overjoyed to see so many plush dolls.
I miss my granddaughter everywhere. Such a grandfather is so enthusiastic. Many netizens said that crying and thinking of grandpa is also so kind and gentle. Some netizens lamented: The baby is so happy! Tears are the most precious thing.
The people who love their children more than their parents in this world are their parents. They may not be good at words, but they explain what "step-parents" are with restrained and deep love.
The intimate relationship between grandparents and grandchildren, as Japanese psychologist Kazuo Kawa said: Because children come from another world and old people are going to another world soon, they are all close to another world.
Being a qualified grandparent and playing every role in life is the mission of being a human being and their persistent pursuit in their later years. They follow a principle, that is, no matter who takes care of the children, they should respect them and recognize them as independent people. Grandparents know that they can neither dote on their children, blindly protect them, nor abuse or treat them rudely.
Love is an affectionate interpretation. Love is a kind of responsibility, and it is a kind of paying and paying with no strings attached.
Children surrounded by the warm love of grandparents have a lifetime of armor, and children spoiled by grandparents are doubly happy children.
When children grow up slowly, when they grow old slowly, the love of grandparents is also rewarded: I will patiently accompany you to finish this life path slowly. Take care of you as you take care of us.
Ni Ping once said: Sunflowers bloom to the sun, and grandma is the sun in my heart. Ni Ping grew up with grandma, you grew up with me, and I supported you.
Han Hong could not accept her grandmother's departure, accepted the cruel fact of illness and death, and was almost depressed. Later, she came out of her sadness and gave her kindness to others according to her grandmother's wishes.
Actor Jing Bo Ran grew up with his grandparents. Looking back on his childhood, he said: In this life, the most grateful person is grandma. Her love gave me infinite strength, helped me overcome difficulties and realized my beautiful youth dream.
Seeing crying, a girl took more than 200 photos and recorded the last seven years of grandpa's life.
A netizen in Zhihu summed it up like this: Grandma, I will love you as much as chocolate! I have no grandmother, and today my grandmother has no minister, and the rest of my life is endless. Mothers and grandchildren are more interdependent.
The world often praises the greatness of a father's love for a mother's love, and grandparents' love for their children is really unreserved.