The third anniversary of the old man's death is an important reason for his death. On the third anniversary, there are usually two activities: holding a memorial tablet for the dead and offering sacrifices to the grave. The former comes from the folk custom that the memorial tablet of the deceased can't spend three winters at home, so on the third anniversary, the memorial tablet of the deceased should be held in the ancestral hall.

Pay attention to the following points in the third anniversary:

1. According to traditional etiquette, it is usually on the third anniversary, and it cannot be advanced or postponed (if there are relatives, it should be done to show their respect).

2. Children and family members (or brothers, sisters and family members) of the deceased should attend Memorial Day. In general, relatives and friends will not be informed of the memorial service for the deceased. Relatives and friends can ask about the activities by informing the schedule and inviting them.

In order to highlight the importance of the third anniversary and the family's memory of the deceased, the deceased should be decorated with flowers. At the same time, according to the personal preferences, personality, occupation and work style of the deceased, and according to the actual situation of the park layout.

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The process of the third anniversary:

On the day of the ceremony, relatives and elders in the family should be called together so that the ceremony can begin. The memorial ceremony began with soft music, and then the host read a passage according to the specific situation of the deceased.

After the eulogy is finished, according to the folk saying, the eldest son (or) of the first deceased in the family is given three cups of green tea, and then according to the intimate relationship and degree of the family, it is followed by festivals, wine, food (fruit, snacks, food, etc. ), flowers, salute (worship ceremony), and finally the host announced the end of the commemoration.