I don’t know where I have read this sentence: Life is like a swing swinging between happiness and sadness. When we are on the downhill slope of sadness, we begin to march towards the uphill slope of happiness.
When we watch short videos, we often see people who are working hard recording their daily lives. Everything looks so beautiful, and we can’t help but sigh in our hearts: "This is the life I long for." . ”
As everyone knows, sometimes they use this method to encourage themselves who are occasionally in a bad mood, talk to themselves, and effectively explore their souls.
Why can those bloggers who share their life, food and daily life on Weibo and Douyin show beauty? Internet traffic aside, from a psychological perspective, this is a "positive thinking effect."
What is the "positive thinking effect"?
This is actually an effect that everyone is familiar with. For example, if there is a glass half filled with water in front of you, do you see the half glass of water, or the half empty glass? There is a donut in front of you. Do you see the existing donut or the empty circle?
Those who record daily life let the things that really exist be recorded and don’t think too much about things that don’t exist. They are guiding themselves to live more actively and less pessimistically. My thoughts became optimistic.
People who watch the video are naturally infected by the positive attitude towards life.
People who frequently browse Weibo or Douyin should have seen videos of @嗗嗗叽叽. Every time I watch her videos, I will envy her "Mr. Lin", and she has become The “dream chef” of many netizens.
She is a Libra girl born in 1996 and currently lives in Xiamen. She majored in architecture in college. After graduation, she cooked for her husband at home and made various kinds of lunch boxes for him at work.
Her kitchen is like Doraemon's pocket, with everything you need. Simple ingredients can be transformed into many ways in her hands. She knows all kinds of snacks and meals, and has become a veritable food blogger.
Putting aside those Internet interests, in terms of life alone, the spirit of being willing to spend time cooking "good food" for people around you is worthy of appreciation.
In any case, this attitude towards life is worth appreciating, and watching videos is a kind of enjoyment.
When I see these videos, I will have the desire to try homemade food, I will become interested in things that I was not interested in before, and I will have positive thoughts about the future. ....
When there is such a pyrotechnic person by your side, not to mention how warm it is.
I also met a blogger who records life seriously @爱生活的MONkey. Although she doesn’t have that many fans, she is 30 years old and lives a very disciplined life.
In her daily vlog videos, I saw optimism, health and happiness, without hypocrisy, much like a real person around me, and it is also the personal lifestyle I yearn for.
There are many people who record their lives seriously. I will only briefly introduce two here. I also like to share the beautiful aspects of life on social platforms. I hope that all friends who like to share will not care about other people's opinions and just do what you like.
Although product promotion will gradually find bloggers who have a fan base, they are worth being seen. As long as they are good products that have been truly evaluated, what about making some advertising money?
There is no need to explain to others the rewards you get from your own efforts, just accept them calmly.
Nowadays, many food bloggers, life bloggers, etc. have been hatched on Weibo and Douyin. They will always change some people and themselves.
In any case, the Internet should indeed have more positive thinking effects and less evil and noisy voices.
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