Children living in a harmonious family are happy and confident, and they can easily face difficulties and challenges. However, no matter how harmonious the family is, there will be contradictions. At this time, parents should solve the problems between husband and wife, and don't quarrel or even fight in front of their children. Although children are young, they are psychologically sensitive, vulnerable to this kind of domestic violence, and even make them feel afraid of marriage and family, which is extremely unfavorable for their healthy growth in the future. In this critical period before the mid-term exam, "shelving disputes" is the best way, or if it is really unbearable, go out and find a place to solve it. Don't perform "all martial arts" in front of children. What is the child's sin? I believe that most families are harmonious. I hope what I said before is a hypothetical situation.

Precautions for parents before the middle school entrance examination: ensure the health of children.

First of all, we must ensure that children get enough nutrition. During this period, students' physical consumption is particularly large, and they are exhausted in summer. As parents, we should make a menu for next week, combining meat and vegetables, and fruits and vegetables must be essential for every meal. Here, I want to remind the children of the importance of breakfast, and don't let them eat instant noodles at school! I saw a classmate secretly stuffing instant noodles into his mouth during recess! It takes about six hours from morning to lunch. During these six hours, the students have been in a high degree of tension and busyness. You can imagine how serious the consequences of skipping breakfast are. Parents can have a rest, buy some bean juice, cut some ham, warm milk, take a bread, boil an egg and peel a fruit. It's very simple. If you want to cultivate children's self-reliance, you can buy these things and let them do them after getting up. They are simple and nutritious. Students can eat properly after finishing their homework at night, but don't drink too much water to avoid getting up often at night and affecting their sleep.

Precautions for parents before the middle school entrance examination: avoid creating tension.

In order to help their children supervise the war, some parents deliberately create a pre-test state of "first-level combat readiness", such as taking time off to do "full-time logistics" at home and never turning on TV at night. In fact, doing so will make children feel depressed, bored and "suffocated". It is wise for parents to do their best, and at the same time try to avoid incidents that have a negative impact on children's psychology, such as husband and wife quarrels and neighborhood conflicts, and create a warm and relaxed family atmosphere.

Precautions for parents before the middle school entrance examination: avoid showing too high expectations.

Many parents have unrealistic expectations for their children, and love to say "get at least 500 points in the exam" and "be sure to get on' 479'", but they don't know that this will not only inspire their children, but will make them more pessimistic and anxious, causing unnecessary psychological pressure on them. In fact, by this time, children's knowledge level and ability are basically a foregone conclusion, and there can be no "qualitative leap" in a short time. Therefore, for parents, the first task is to correctly understand their children's situation and accept their current situation. Not to mention unrealistic demands, it is better to tell your child: "Just try your best!"

Precautions for parents before the middle school entrance examination: avoid nagging.

Some parents always say, "You have to work harder!" In front of their children. "You must do well in the exam!" Wait, it is easy for children to have rebellious psychology and increase their ideological burden. You have this nagging ability, you might as well tell your child a joke to relax his nerves.

Precautions for parents before the middle school entrance examination: don't hurt children's self-confidence.

Self-confidence can enable candidates to play their existing level to the best extent. In the pre-test stage, parents should encourage and affirm their children, and don't criticize and accuse them easily. When a child fails in a pre-test test, blindly scolding will only make the child more insecure and even give up on himself. At this time, it is best for parents to communicate with teachers and children to find out the reasons for the failure and help children get out of the shadow of failure as soon as possible.

Precautions for parents before the middle school entrance examination: stabilize students' emotions.

Students are under great pressure, from schools and teachers, from families, and from students themselves. It is natural and normal for our parents to be anxious, because this is the first important exam their children have experienced. However, our parents should be careful not to infect students with this emotion, especially in this period, and now we should decompress students. As we all know, students' grades have almost stabilized at this stage (it is not excluded that some students have made great efforts in the final stage), especially after the formal mock exam, the actual level of students has basically been reflected. What our parents have to do is to analyze the gains and losses of students' exams, start with students' knowledge defects, get in touch with teachers in time, and urge students to work hard in these aspects. When analyzing problems, you should be sincere. Don't get angry easily, because getting angry can't solve any problems, but it will make children rebellious (children at this stage are most likely to have rebellious psychology). Discuss these issues with children in a peaceful tone, so that children can concentrate on their studies, and they don't have to worry about coping with parents' accusations, complaints or even reprimands. Think about our childhood psychology, and you will know how children think now. Don't always use the rich experience of adults to ask how a child is. Children need our understanding and care more. Sometimes we have to put ourselves in others' shoes.

Precautions for parents before the middle school entrance examination: other matters.

1. Help children adjust their biological clocks, work and rest on time, and never "burn the midnight oil"; During the senior high school entrance examination, someone should wake up the children on time in the morning and at noon to prevent delay.

2. Help children adjust their test-taking psychology. Before the exam, we should enlighten the children to put down their burdens and go into battle lightly; Don't rush to ask about the exam, but comfort, guide and encourage the children to meet in the next room.

3. Pay attention to prevent children from catching cold when sleeping at night, and guide candidates to relax before going to bed. Once you have insomnia, don't be nervous, lie quietly in bed and meet the test requirements for the next day.

4. Pay attention to children's food hygiene. It's better to be gentle in hot weather. Don't let children eat cold, greasy and irritating food, and beware of diseases such as gastrointestinal discomfort, cold and heatstroke.

5. Remind children to bring all test supplies, heatstroke prevention supplies, watches, glasses, etc. Before going out, let the children check whether the admission ticket is in the pencil box and whether the stationery is brought.

6. Parents of children who can't go home at noon must find a hostel or hotel nearby and arrange their children's diet and rest.

7. Conditional parents can send their children to the initial test.