With the addition of many representative works, Li Youbin has become a rare old drama bone in the entertainment circle.
He can rise to the top in his career, but emotionally, he has experienced many ups and downs.
Li Youbin had been married for 22 years before she became popular. Li Youbin divorced his ex-wife and remarried, marrying Shi Lanya, an actor 13 years younger than himself.
Li Youbin spent a lot of time and energy to please his stepson.
But for his son, Li Youbin could do nothing. Even his own son was unwilling to enter the marriage because of what Li Youbin had done. Even if he is in love, his own son has no intention of touching him.
Now 63-year-old Li Youbin can't sleep every night, and the marriage problem of his own son has become his heart disease.
0 1.
1958 February 15, a family in Changchun, Jilin gave birth to a boy doll, and his parents named him Li Youbin.
At home, Li Youbin is the second child, with his sister above and his younger brother and sister below.
Li Youbin's mother is a watchmaker and his father is a senior mechanic. The couple's monthly salary is around 90 yuan.
And why Li Youbin will become an actor when he grows up, it all starts from his childhood. At that time, none of the elders in Li Youbin's family were engaged in the film and television industry.
Changchun, Jilin is the city of movies.
Shortly after Li Youbin was five years old, the film "The General's Son" produced by changchun film studio was about to start shooting. It happened that Li Youbin was chosen by the film studio to play one of the roles.
However, due to various reasons, the film was not broadcast, and Li Youbin lost the opportunity to be a child star.
However, from then on, in Li Youbin's young mind, the seeds of actors began to sprout.
So in school, as long as there are literary and artistic activities, Li Youbin will take an active part. When studying in Changchun No.11 Middle School, Li Youbin also became a member of the school drama troupe.
02.
However, at the age of 16, Li Youbin's fate was changed by a performance.
1974, Li Youbin staged a life drama "Mao Fenghua Zheng" on the campus stage. His superb performance infected the audience and made Li Youbin take a fancy to the leaders of Changchun Municipal Bureau of Culture and Education.
So at the end of 1974, Li Youbin entered the Bureau of Culture and Education and became a drama actor.
Li Youbin officially started working on February 28th, 65438, but in February, 65438, Li Youbin only worked for three days, but got half a month's salary 1 1 yuan.
The hardest part is actually in the beginning When she first entered the troupe, Li Youbin also started with the most basic things. When there is a play, he rehearses every day. When there is no program, he is responsible for moving props, installing lights and arranging scenes.
One step at a time, Li Youbin's acting skills have been further improved after several years in the drama troupe.
By the end of 1970s, Li Youbin's plays had become an important part of the troupe. After becoming the leading role, Li Youbin had many opportunities. Li Youbin has appeared in dramas such as Save Her and The End of New Beijing.
03.
It is said that when people are lucky, everything goes smoothly. Just when Li Youbin's career improved, his love arrived.
In the troupe, Li Youbin met Zhang Ruiqi, and Zhang Ruiqi was the pillar of the troupe. He comes from Shandong. He is beautiful and his acting skills are not bad.
Li Youbin recognized this beautiful young girl at a glance.
At that time, Li Youbin, a tall and handsome man, naturally won Zhang Ruiqi's heart, and when they met, they fell in love.
Soon, 26-year-old Li Youbin married Zhang Ruiqi and returned to China. After they got married for a year, they had a son named Li Xiaoke.
In order to let the children grow up healthily, Zhang Ruiqi chose to be a full-time mother and return to the family completely. Without the fetters of his career, Zhang Ruiqi put all his thoughts on taking care of his family and children.
It was also in this year that Li Youbin made new progress in performing arts. He entered changchun film studio and began to take part in movies.
Li Youbin, 27, was asked to play a teacher in her forties for the first time, which was a great challenge.
In the following years, Li Youbin took on several film and television works, such as Ancient Days, She was my wife, She was born, and The ebb and flow.
There are more filming times, but Li Youbin is still not popular in the entertainment circle, just a little transparent.
04.
Li Youbin, 37, couldn't stand such a quiet day after nearly ten years. In order to find more opportunities in Beijing, he made a major decision and left his job without pay.
Because she is going to Beijing, her wife Zhang Ruiqi is not worried about her husband drifting alone. In order to take better care of Li Youbin, Zhang Ruiqi packed the luggage of the whole family, and the three of them got on the train to Beijing together.
However, no one thought that under the bright future prospect, it was a moment when a marriage went to the abyss.
At that time, housing prices in Beijing were not as high as they are now. In order to develop smoothly in Beijing, Li Youbin discussed with his wife, took out all his savings, bought a house for three people, and had his own home in Beijing.
After settling down, Li Youbin runs around every day, while his wife takes care of his son's daily life and urges him to study.
In order to save living expenses, Zhang Ruiqi is never willing to spend money on himself. The clothes he wears are always very cheap.
When buying fruits and vegetables, you often have to wait until the vegetable market is about to close before you can buy the cheapest fruits and vegetables.
Sometimes, in order to supplement nutrition, Zhang Ruiqi will buy stewed chicken, but opening the refrigerator consumes electricity, so Zhang Ruiqi will hang the chicken on the balcony with a rope and keep it by air conditioning.
In order to prevent the chicken from being eaten by wild cats, Zhang Ruiqi didn't dare to fall asleep all night. He gets up every few hours to watch, for fear that the chicken will be gone.
In a family of three, only one person earns money outside, so Li Youbin is under great pressure.
There are expenses at home every day, and the living expenses are not as good as those in Changchun, so Li Youbin never dares to rest 365 days a year.
This family is supported by the income from filming. Once there is no filming, Li Youbin will be very anxious. At one time, Li Youbin even fell in love with work, and it would be hard not to work.
Even on vacation, Li Youbin can only sleep soundly if he gets a new script.
Fortunately, Li Youbin is very diligent. He didn't want to save face. Every day when he goes to work, he steps on his broken bike. He will get up early and set off at dawn when he meets a cast with a long journey.
His wife, Zhang Ruiqi, is considerate of Li Youbin and gets up early every day to make breakfast for him.
Sandstorms have always been a nuisance in this city. Every time Li Youbin goes to the crew, his hands and face freeze, and he has to clean up the dust in his hair and ears.
05.
Much trouble and Li Youbin's efforts have not been disappointed. In 2004, Li Youbin played Zhang Ziming in the film The Waves, which was very important to Li Youbin and won him the nomination of Best Actor in the 9th China Watch and Hundred Flowers.
Although it didn't win the prize, it was already an opportunity for Li Youbin.
In 2005, Li Youbin ushered in his highlight moment in the entertainment circle. He once collaborated with, He, Zhang and others in the TV series "Bright Sword".
The explosion in the corner of Li Yunlong pushed Li Youbin to the public and was well known to the audience.
However, Li Youbin used to be an old actor, but he never got a chance to be known. But after Liang Jian, everyone knows about Li Youbin.
A TV series, a role, let Li Youbin from an unknown unknown actor, suddenly become a popular male star.
When the fire broke out, Li Youbin's play was naturally uninterrupted. You can master Li See's acting skills in films and TV dramas such as Braving the Guandong, Earth-shattering, Invincible Benevolence and Red Sun.
After becoming famous, Li Youbin entered Bayi Film Studio.
06.
The career has been brilliant all the way, but back to his family, Li Youbin is a little rusty.
Li Youbin was hardly at home during those days when he was busy filming.
Once out of the house, at least a few months, a long time, away from home for a year, even in 2005-06, two years, Li Youbin's days at home did not exceed 90 days.
It is easy for couples to get together less and leave more, and Li Youbin is an actor in the entertainment circle, which often makes Zhang Ruiqi uneasy. Over time, the trust value between husband and wife is getting lower and lower.
Cracks appeared, and the next days were spent in bits and pieces.
2006 is the 22nd year of Li Youbin's marriage with his wife Zhang Ruiqi, but these 20 years of married life can't match the triviality of life.
This year, Li Youbin and Zhang Ruiqi divorced. Externally, Li Youbin claimed that gathering less and leaving more led to the weakening of feelings.
Their son Li Xiaoke doesn't want his parents to divorce, because Li Xiaoke is already a 2 1 year-old college student.
When Li Xiaoke learned that his parents were going to divorce, he went to see his father. Decades of ups and downs have passed, and the most rare time has passed. Life is getting better and better, but why can't life go on?
Li Xiaoke asked his father, "You and your mother have been married for more than 20 years. Is it really irreparable now?"
Li Youbin reluctantly shook his head and said nothing. Seeing his father's refusal, Li Xiaoke couldn't help crying.
But Li Xiaoke didn't give up. He went to his mother and asked the same question. Her mother didn't say anything, and tears kept coming out.
Li Xiaoke knew that her mother didn't want the family to be separated at all, and she didn't want a divorce in her heart.
Because for my mother, no career, a happy family and a stable marriage are my greatest pursuits in my life.
But because my father wanted to divorce, my mother's sense of security collapsed immediately.
Li Xiaoke looked at her mother's helplessness, but there was nothing she could do.
In the end, Li Youbin and Zhang Ruiqi went through the divorce formalities and ended their 22-year marriage.
After the divorce, Li Youbin chose to leave the house and car to her mother and son, while renting a house in Beijing.
Zhang Ruiqi didn't show up the day Li Youbin moved out of the house. She can't give away the man she has loved for 22 years. Li Xiaoke helped her father pack, and finally watched him leave.
Li Xiaoke felt very sad that the once sweet family of three fell apart before his eyes.
For parents' divorce, Li Xiaoke felt even more sorry for her mother, because her mother gave up her career and took care of her family wholeheartedly, but in the end she got nothing, but suffered the most.
After all, my mother used to be an actress. If she keeps working hard, she may not be worse than her father.
It's just that now my father's career is booming, and they can share the joys and sorrows but not the joys and sorrows.
Every night, Li Xiaoke will accompany her mother, who will tell her son that she will be strong.
07.
20 10 in March, Li Youbin had a new love affair, this time with the actor Shi Lanya.
Shi Lanya is younger than Li Youbin 13 years old and is a little wife.
In May of the same year, Li Youbin and Shi Lanya got married in Beijing, and a new family was established.
Shi Lanya is not simple. He has a history of marriage. When he married Li Youbin, he already had an eight-year-old son.
After meeting Shi Lanya, Li Youbin wanted to marry him, but Shi Lanya was very worried because she still had a son, John.
But Li Youbin is very patient. He told Shi Lanya that he had been through everything and that children were not a big problem.
With the guarantee of Li Youbin, Shi Lanya was relieved. After they got married, Li Youbin was very patient with her children, just as she said before marriage.
John John is young and naughty every day. Every morning when Li Youbin gets up to shave, he will find that the shaving cream is gone, and it is all squeezed into the washbasin by John John.
When going out, there are always peanut shells in Li Youbin's shoes, which are all caused by John's pranks.
Often when Li Youbin is quietly reading the script at home, John won't let Li Youbin read it. He will suddenly take the pen in Li Youbin's hand. Li Youbin had no choice but to play with John.
Li Youbin, 52, often has to chase energetic children, which is beyond her power.
When Shi Lanya sees that John likes to make trouble so much, he will teach his children a lesson, but Li Youbin won't let John be punished. He bluntly said, "Children, being naughty is nature, so don't care too much."
Li Youbin knows very well that the gap between himself and Shi Lanya is his son John. As long as he gets along well with John, his future life will be happier.
In order to have more opportunities to get close to the children, Li Youbin sends John to school every day. Every time John comes home from school, the first thing he sees is Li Youbin.
At home, Shi Lanya cooks and Li Youbin plays chess with John. They often have a good time. On weekends, Li Youbin will take John out, visit parks and visit zoos.
John was very happy when it snowed once. He ran into the snow and made a snowman. After Li Youbin saw it, he quickly went to interact with John. After the snowman piled up, he had to put on his eyes and nose, so Li Youbin found three big red dates and put them on the snowman's face. John jumped for joy.
The child is innocent, whoever plays with him will be close to him, and he will be close to him. Day after day, with Li Youbin's efforts, John accepted the stepfather.
Six months later, Han Han even called him "Li Dad" directly.
Shi Lanya felt very warm in his heart. The son accepted the man he loved, and his inner anxiety was greatly reduced.
Li Youbin is very kind to his stepson and spends a lot of time and energy. Fortunately, it worked in the end, and the result was as he hoped.
08.
Li Youbin didn't neglect his ex-wife and his own son. Li Xiaoke is clever and capable. After graduating from college, she entered an IT company. On weekdays, besides going to work, she stays at home with her mother.
During Li Xiaoke's rest days, Li Youbin will ask him out to meet him and often ask him if he has any difficulties in life and needs help.
Knowing that his ex-wife has high blood pressure, Li Youbin will deliberately buy antihypertensive drugs for his son to bring to his mother.
On holidays, Li Youbin will buy many gifts for his son to take home, but Li Youbin will ask his son not to tell his mother that he bought them, only that he bought them himself.
In Li Xiaoke's eyes, his father is still very kind to his mother, but why they live separately is nerve-racking.
By 20 16, Li Xiaoke has been 3 1 year old, but his life events have not been settled at all, and even his girlfriend has not talked about it.
Seeing his son's situation, Li Youbin was very anxious. Li Youbin often tells his son that as long as you don't get married, you don't have to worry about the house and car. I'll prepare it for you.
Behind the seemingly beautiful scenery, Li Youbin didn't know that his divorce had deeply affected his son's growth.
The breakdown of parents' marriage made Li Xiaoke afraid to look forward to love. He didn't believe that love and marriage could last a lifetime.
Even during his decades in Li Xiaoke, he was always afraid of getting married.
20 18, 33-year-old Li Xiaoke was pursued by a girl. Li Xiaoke first tried to fall in love.
But in the process of dating, she ran away with the girl.
Li Xiaoke looks good, and his own conditions are not bad. To outsiders, he is perfect.
But when he met a girl, he became very slow. Even on a date, girls always look for him. He never takes the initiative. After a long time, the girl lost patience. Soon, this relationship fell through.
Seeing that his son is getting older every year, Li Youbin's inner anxiety is getting bigger every day.
For the sake of his son's life, Li Youbin specially contacted Zhang Ruiqi, hoping that they could jointly guide his son into the marriage hall.
In fact, in normal times, Zhang Ruiqi had discussed life events with his son, but for Li Xiaoke, love is not the only thing. Even in love, he can't find passion
At the end of 20021,during the Spring Festival, Li Youbin talked with his son, hoping that he could find a girlfriend to get married as soon as possible. Li Xiaoke was puzzled, but he had no choice but to agree.
It's just that the year is approaching and there is still no news from Li Xiaoke, which makes 63-year-old Li Youbin sleepless all night.
Because for Li Youbin, his career has been stable, what he is looking forward to most is that his son will get married and have children as soon as possible and have his own family.
Li Youbin tried many methods to eliminate his son fear of marriage's psychology. He often takes Li Xiaoke out to see how other families are happy and harmonious. When colleagues or relatives get married, Li Youbin will take Li Xiaoke with him to let his son feel the happiness of marriage.
Just use a lot of methods, Li Xiaoke still didn't act.
However, Li Youbin's heart is full of expectations for his son's marriage. He just wants to arrange his son's wedding in person and watch his family set up one day in the future. Only in this way can Li Can spend his old age with peace of mind.
It is true that when people reach a certain age, what they want most is that their children can find the other half to rely on and live a happy life.
The same is true of actor Li Youbin, except that Li Xiaoke lost her original confidence in love because of her parents' marriage.
I have to say that there are many single-parent children with the mentality like Li Xiaoke.
But life is your own. As long as you have a good attitude and confidence in marriage and are sincere and patient with the other half, children who grew up in single-parent families can still have a happy marriage and a complete life.
Now 63-year-old Li Youbin has been looking forward to his son's family, and he doesn't know when this day will come.