This idea should not exist in the first place. This is an extremely biased and unfounded idea.
In our society, there is definitely a gap between the rich and the poor among families. When a boy and a girl fall in love, this gap between the rich and the poor sometimes affects their feelings. Better families sometimes look down on each other.
Sometimes two people love each other very much and don't care about the gap between the rich and the poor in this family. However, one parent sometimes treats the other proudly.
In the same way, two people in love or marriage should be equal, and should not despise each other because of the good or bad family conditions.
Xiaoyan was born in an ordinary family. Although her family is ordinary, she feels happy to live in it. She has felt the meticulous love of her parents since she was a child.
When Xiaoyan was in primary school, a boy in her class often bullied her. Xiaoyan's parents tried their best to prevent Xiaoyan from being bullied. They talked to the boy's parents and warned him.
They often look for Xiaoyan's class teacher, hoping that Xiaoyan's class teacher will pay more attention to that boy in the future and don't let that boy bully his children often. They paid too much to prevent Xiaoyan from being bullied. With their efforts, that boy won't bully Xiaoyan any more.
Xiaoyan was especially envious when she saw other students in her class traveling. She also clamored for her parents to take her to travel.
Xiaoyan's parents spent a month's salary to satisfy Xiaoyan's wish. At that moment, Xiaoyan felt that her parents really loved her. She thinks she is too ignorant. Later, she never asked her parents to be too unreasonable.
Time passed quickly and Xiaoyan grew up in a blink of an eye. She is old enough to find a boyfriend. Xiaoyan's good friend asked Xiaoyan, "Xiaoyan, what kind of boyfriend are you going to find?" What are the requirements for family conditions? " .
Xiaoyan thought for a moment and said, "I really don't have any requirements for family conditions. I don't even want to find a boyfriend who is very rich. I think that in that case, he will look down on me, and his parents may look down on my parents. "
Actually, girls don't have this idea. Boys with particularly good conditions don't necessarily look down on their girlfriends, and their parents don't necessarily look down on yours. It has nothing to do with wealth, but mainly with character.
Later, under the introduction of relatives, Xiaoyan really met a boy with particularly good conditions. The boy's name is Xiao Kai, and their family has a big factory that produces machinery. Xiao Kai's parents' factory has been open for twenty or thirty years, so their family is very rich.
Xiaoyan originally refused to meet her boyfriend with such good conditions, but Xiao Kai was really nice to Xiaoyan. He said to Xiaoyan, "We really love each other. What does it have to do with each other's family conditions?" .
Xiao Yang thinks what Xiao Kai said makes sense. Later, she and Xiao Kai fell in love and fell in love deeply.
When Xiaoyan followed Xiao Kai to their home, Xiao Kai's parents really looked down on Xiaoyan. "It is definitely her blessing for a child from an ordinary family to marry into our family. She must be respectful to us in the future." Xiaoyan was very unhappy, but she put up with it.
Xiao Kai's parents not only look down on Xiaoyan, but also look down on her parents. When their parents met, Xiao Kai's parents were also arrogant. "You can form in-laws with us, which is a blessing that you have repaired in this life. Our little Kay can marry a girl with a rich family. "
Xiao Kai's parents later did something even more outrageous. When Xiao Kai and Xiaoyan held a wedding, when Xiaoyan's parents toasted them, they even pretended not to see it, as if nothing had happened.
Xiaoyan is angry. She broke the glass angrily. "We're not that cheap. If you really look down on us, this wedding will not be held, and I will not marry into your home. "
When Xiao Kai's parents saw that things were getting bigger and bigger, they quickly apologized to Xiaoyan. Under Xiao Kai's persuasion, Xiaoyan completed the wedding as planned, but she still felt very angry.
Be friendly to your in-laws even if the conditions are good.
This kind of situation, like Xiaoyan's, is often encountered in our lives. Both men and women are in love, and the parents of the one with particularly good conditions will look down on his future in-laws.
Stimulate each other with particularly ugly words everywhere, even at some particularly critical moments, and don't give each other face, making each other embarrassed and disappointing.
Such consequences will lead to fierce resistance from parents-in-law and children, and they will be ashamed.
The gap between the rich and the poor should not affect the feelings of two people, nor should it affect the attitude of one parent to the other, so that love and humanity can return to the essence of innocence.