The fame of the title of "partition man" will inevitably reflect the frequent popularity of short plays by parents. But more importantly, in order to mediate between family members, the "partition man" often gives people the impression of a vent bucket and a well-meaning peacemaker. This makes women admire, but men feel entangled.
In fact, as early as the peacock flew southeast, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was a thorn in a man's heart. Today, many men are even put in a position like "If both wife and mother fall into the river at the same time, who will you save first?" Before the problem, I was constantly tortured by family or love. In many families where mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are fighting endlessly, men are caught in the middle, looking for balance in a dilemma.
When the family "undercurrent" surges and the marriage stumbles in one way or another, there must be a "splint man" like in the TV series to deal with it skillfully, so that the voice of life can remain.
People often say that art comes from life. The popularity of Happy Life in Kintaro once again proves the social attention and audience recognition rate of the topic "People with Splints". Everyone has his own understanding of "splint man". Some people say that "splint man" is a humble man, who is obsessed with family red tape every day, worrying about pots and pans, losing his innate impassioned, and making men feel humiliated; Some people say that "clapboard man" is a model man, and it is his tireless advice that leads to family harmony.
Come to think of it carefully, the role of "splint man" is hard, but life is happy. He learned to live in the middle of compromise, but Nuo Nuo continued to have a harmonious family. He is more like a needle, mending his family day and night and connecting his life all night. A man's left hand carries his parents' affection, knowing that a tree wants to be quiet but the wind will not stop, and a son wants to raise it but can't get close. A man's right hand holds up his wife's love, his partner regardless of the wind and rain, and his child at the beginning of his life. This is a man's eternal concern. A "splint man" is a person who is responsible for family responsibilities. Although a man's shoulders are not enough to support a family, and Qi Xin, parents and wife need to work together, men will always do it regardless of gains and losses and do it dutifully. Although the heavy responsibility makes men breathless, they never give up.
"Clapboard Man" is a title that makes men feel sour, and it is also an honor that makes men turn swords into spears. In society and family, many people may or may not be willing to play the role of "splint people". Although they are tired, they are always happy …
The splint man who is not alone in "fighting"
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies, which is a universally recognized truth and has been proved by countless practices. The most difficult thing for a woman and a daughter-in-law is that a man is a son and a husband, and both sides are pleasing, and both sides are not people. Sandwich man is not easy to do, but with sincerity and a little wisdom, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can still be handled calmly.
Screen name: Laozhi has been married for 6 years.
In the "battle" between her daughter-in-law and her mother, she gradually formed her own set of "tactics" to deal with these crises.
One day, I was reading a newspaper, and suddenly I cut off a hand and took it away from me. I looked up and saw the angry face of my panting wife. ...
"I kindly cooked spicy chicken for your mother, and she actually said that she didn't eat any chicken." My wife crossed her waist and said to me.
It turned out to be such a trivial matter. I comforted my wife. My mother is such a straightforward person. There is no other meaning in her words. But my wife was even more dissatisfied and questioned me: "I turned over the menu and sent it all the way, just to be filial, but what your mother said was too heartless." After that, she held up a red finger and demonstrated that she was scalded by the oil of spicy chicken. Seeing this, I quickly got up and found a medicine box to help her deal with it, and said that I would do this kind of manual work in the future. What can I say except a wry smile? Even if my mother is wrong, I can't pay the debt. To tell the truth, my wife's cooking is really not that authentic. So I calmly asked my wife for a newspaper. Who knows, she was so angry that she tore up the newspaper and said angrily, "I don't care, your mother must apologize." In desperation, I dialed my mother's phone and told her gently. My mother doesn't care about my feelings at all. She said unhappily, "I don't taste like chicken." I'm not lying. I told the truth and can't apologize to your wife. " I put the phone down and felt very wronged. A man who has no fault is sandwiched between two women and dare not offend them. However, life always has to pass. After I was fed up with the cold war with my wife, I made a painful decision and tried my best to please two women. During that time, I did a lot of work and bought all kinds of gadgets to please my wife's smiling face. On my mother's side, I put on a look of despair. My son is suffering misfortune, and a mother will not ignore it. Finally, two women decided to meet at my house.
When they met, they looked like warring parties who had a long truce but still had a gap, and their faces were serious. My mother said, "I just caught a cold that day, and my mouth didn't smell, so …" My wife's face suddenly lit up and said, "Mom, it's my fault. I care too much. " Isn't this a comedy? Two stubborn women are arguing that they are wrong. If I know this, why should I suffer? I was secretly unhappy when I heard my mother say, "I tasted your spicy chicken later." The wife changed a pair of embarrassed expressions and said, "Mom, it's really my fault. I rummaged through the refrigerator yesterday and found that I was a spicy chicken made of sliced duck. You know, I can't say anything clearly after freezing for a long time. "