To tell the truth, at the age of 73, I can call him grandpa, but the company has regulations that no one is allowed to call others grandpa, only uncles and aunts. When I get used to it, I always call them uncle. Fortunately, the dialect in my hometown is different, so I am embarrassed to death. )
Although he is 73 years old, Uncle Zhou is in good health, and there is nothing wrong with him. So is his aunt. It looks like a happy old couple, but it's not the case. Uncle Zhou is unhappy.
Uncle Zhou used to work in a state-owned enterprise and retired at the age of 65. When I retired, my daughter and granddaughter were just born. The old couple surround their granddaughter all day. Although it's hard, at least they can have fun and live a full life.
But as the granddaughter grows up and reaches the school age, there is nothing wrong with the two old people. The couple decided to spend another year outside while their bodies were still moving. When they come back, they can only live on a retirement salary of 2000 yuan per month. But it was from this time that the troubles began, because after retirement, I never contacted my former colleagues again and slowly lost contact. Only then did I find out how lonely a person is.
Different from menstruation, menstruation is better with several menstruation of the same age. Usually, they can chat, play mahjong and dance square dance together, so life is not boring.
But Zhou Shu's life in a day is like this:
When I got up at six o'clock in the morning, my wife had followed her neighbors to the square dance. I don't know where I can go because I haven't contacted his old friend for a long time. I always feel uncomfortable when I want to go to the park alone. I want to play Tai Chi with other people, but I don't think I can do anything. I don't know how others teach you. I have no choice but to stay at home, but I don't know what to do.
Finally, I waited until my wife came back for breakfast after dancing in the square dance. My wife began to do housework by herself. I never do housework, because I didn't do it at work before. I want to go shopping with my wife. It was fine at first, but at the back, my wife thought he was bored, so I left him alone. Uncle Zhou himself was embarrassed to pull his face down and ask for a wife, and then he stayed at home all morning.
After lunch at noon, I have no habit of taking a lunch break. In the past, when I was in the company, I was always used to busy with my work and took my granddaughter to play. I never thought about what I need to do in the afternoon. But this time it will be different. I have retired, my granddaughter is not around, and I don't know what to do at once. There is always a faint sense of loneliness in my heart, and I feel that my old age is coming at once.
Uncle Zhou is going out for a walk. He first came to the park and found a chair to lie down and rest, but he looked at others with strange eyes. Sorry, he is walking in the park. I saw several old people about my age playing chess in front of me and wanted to join in the fun, only to find that they didn't know each other and people didn't take him seriously at all. At this moment, Zhou Shu not only thought about the time when he used to work in the unit, because he had a certain number of years, and others always took the initiative to curry favor with him. Then he went to find someone else, but he retired himself, and others no longer took him seriously. Thought of here, his heart lost for no reason.
I didn't think I could stay in the park, so I went to the supermarket. I came here and got a lot of beautiful service and asked him what he wanted. At first, Uncle Zhou felt very happy and thought that he had finally come to the right place. But when the waiter introduced the product to him, his face turned red again. Although one of them has a retirement salary of 2000 yuan, it is left to his wife. Moreover, when my granddaughter comes to see her, she has to buy some gifts or something, and life is already very tense. Obviously it was impossible to buy anything else, so she had to leave in despair. Plus people come and go in the supermarket. In less than an hour, I can't stand it. I have no choice but to go home and stay at home for another day.
Compared with morning and afternoon, it is evening now. When Uncle Zhou went to work, it was already 7 o'clock when he got home at night. Now he has finished his meal at 5 o'clock and goes to bed at 9 o'clock. I don't know what to do for these four hours. I want to watch TV, but I find that they are all youth idol dramas or advertisements. I can't find the program I want to watch, and I don't know what to watch. I want to read some books, but I feel uneasy. As for talking with his wife, it is even more impossible, because his wife and neighbors are out again, leaving Uncle Zhou alone at home, facing only a cold wall, and life goes on day after day.
In fact, although Zhou Shu was lucky in his later years, compared with Zhou Shu, many elderly people were even worse than Zhou Shu. They can't play mobile phones, dance in square dance, surf the Internet and so on. They can't do anything but live in their own hut day after day. What's more, I worked hard to raise my children, but in the end I was kicked out of the house by my children, and even my life could not be guaranteed. This is the saddest thing.
To tell the truth, I seldom pay attention to the life of the elderly, but after reading Junichi Watanabe's Lonely Boat, I found that compared with people of other ages, the talents of the elderly are the most worthy of our attention.
China has always had a tradition of respecting the old and caring for the young, so please do something for them when you can!
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