My mother's house and my husband's house are about the same distance from where I want to live now. Not far, not close!
Before the Spring Festival last year, we agreed in advance when to go back to my husband's house, and then when to go back to my house, which is my mother's house.
Because my partner's job is in the service industry, we can't have a holiday during the Spring Festival, New Year's Eve, the first day and the second day. On the 27th of the twelfth lunar month, we went back to our parents' house and had a New Year's Eve dinner in advance. On the evening of the 29th, he went back to work.
Because my holiday was longer than one month, I didn't follow him back, so I stayed at my home. Help to entertain relatives and friends who come to visit, continue to worship ancestors with mom and dad, visit relatives and friends, and pay New Year greetings everywhere.
On the fifteenth day of the first month, I bought something to go to my husband's house one day in advance, and it passed early in the morning. I stayed for two or three days when I went back, and then I left.
Parents on both sides are also very happy, because they can understand that whenever they are together, they just need to go back. There is no need to talk about making a New Year's Eve dinner.
Just after the Mid-Autumn Festival this year, the Chinese New Year will be celebrated in half a year. Actually, I haven't planned who I will go to for the Spring Festival, but I don't think it's a problem, no matter who I go to first. What matters is filial piety to parents.
In married life, you must never allow these trivial things to affect your husband and wife life. It is a very happy thing to go home for the New Year. When things get stiff, it's boring to really go back to your hometown! It is better not to go back, the adults in the province are upset.