I always think that the girl who can't unscrew the bottle cap is really a princess disease, which is really too melodramatic. I can't unscrew it, but I have no strength. Someone likes you to spoil, someone dotes on you, dotes on you and is willing to do these things for you.
If nobody cares about you, nobody will do these things for you. Not to mention screwing the bottle cap, even the fire hydrant can be opened.
If we are spoiled and loved, someone will do these things for us because they love you.
All your years are peaceful, but someone is carrying a heavy load for you. This sentence is absolutely correct.
In love and marriage. People who often don't cook will say to others: I won't. And cooking has become another person's regular job. And how hard is it to cook? Is it more difficult than studying the atomic bomb? There's nothing wrong with your head, just look at the menu. If you are in the worst case, if you watch your family do this, you won't know nothing.
In fact, many times we think about it. No one is born with everything, but can't. I am willing to learn for you.
And I don't know what you said, but I'm expressing my heart: I don't want to.
Aunt Zhang is a good mother-in-law.
Since the daughter-in-law married into the house, she has been spoiled like her own daughter. Never let the daughter-in-law into the kitchen, do housework and wash clothes, and the children are all watched by Aunt Zhang alone. A son receives the same treatment as his wife. I just go out to work, and everything at home doesn't need to be taken care of.
Aunt Zhang washed the clothes of her son, daughter-in-law and children. Aunt Zhang always criticizes her son when the young couple have conflicts.
On one occasion, Aunt Zhang was ill in hospital. The young couple came home, cleaned the pot and cooled the stove, leaving the children unattended. The adults made the child cry and it was a mess. Why does the husband accuse his wife of not being able to cook? My wife said I wouldn't. The wife accused her husband of not picking up the children. The husband said there was no time.
In this family, the mother-in-law dotes on her daughter-in-law. But neither husband nor wife is aware of their responsibilities. I haven't grown up since I got married. I always use the excuse that I don't know how to hide that I don't want to do or learn at all. Everything depends on my mother. I'm still like a child, regardless.
How many people, like when they are single, don't do anything by themselves, either give it to their parents or blame each other. Getting married means taking responsibility. Even if you can't take care of yourself, what can you do to fulfill your promise?
Independence is really an indispensable ability for young people nowadays.
Xiao Chen's wife is a housewife.
Every morning, Xiao Chen's daughter-in-law gets up the earliest at home. Get up to prepare breakfast. After the food is served, Xiao Chen and his son will get up. After dinner, those who should go to work should go to work and those who should go to school should go to school.
Xiao Chen's daughter-in-law, to tidy up the dishes, tidy up the housework, wash clothes, buy food, pick up the children, help with homework, take care of in-laws. After all these things, I still have to read in between.
But in this family, I have never heard a word of thanks. Everyone in the Chen family thinks that this is what wives should do.
Xiao Chen has been married for ten years and has never done housework. Every day when I go home, I will complain that my wife is doing nothing at home and crying tired every day.
Colleagues all envy him for having a good wife. Three meals a day, a porridge and a meal are all prepared for him. He doesn't have to worry about big and small things at home. Daughters-in-law at home and abroad are well managed.
What about Xiao Chen? He is not satisfied at all. He hates that his wife can't make money, can't dress up, and is always nagging.
Every woman who enters marriage is not quarreling with her husband. Every girl in the family is also the baby of her parents. I seldom go to the kitchen, but mostly after I became a woman, I began to learn to cook.
Prepare three meals a day and think about your husband. Does the child like it? Which meal is nutritious, but not grateful. Cold words will hurt your wife's heart, and over time, it will also cool your feelings.
It is often said that I never cook at home because I can't.
In fact, where you can't, you just don't want to.
No one is born with everything and can't learn slowly. If you can't do it once, you can do it twice. Do it a few more times and you can do it well.
We should learn to cherish the person who knows everything around us. He is not born with everything, but is willing to learn for you. Let you have more freedom and convenience.
Don't take others' efforts for granted. No one should give, but they are willing because they love you.
Don't use "I won't" as an excuse to hide "I don't want to" in your heart. You know, in feelings, the most hurtful words are not: I don't love you, but: I don't want to.
Someone is willing to pay for you. We should learn to cherish the blessings and know how to cherish them. Also want to learn more skills, worthy, this willingly.
May every relationship have a home, and every family will be happier because of understanding.
Let's have less excuses that I can't do and more actions that I am willing to take.