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On June 3rd, the theme of Li's new video was "The Life of Potato". She planted potatoes, collected potatoes, and finally made them into braised pork ribs, mashed potatoes, potato chips and hot and sour potato powder. The food across the screen is mouth-watering.

In the video, she also made an ordinary dish, a plate of hot and sour potato shreds. Li gave grandma chopsticks and shredded potatoes. Grandma said, "Your old man also likes this shredded potato." Li sighed.

Seeing this, I was poked in tears. "Old man" means "father" in Sichuan dialect. Li lost her father when she was very young. When she was four, her father left.

On June 20th, 20 16, on Father's Day, she cried and made a dish of shredded potatoes, which was her father's favorite.

That day, she wrote a few tearful words in Weibo:

"I heard from my grandmother that you like this, so I worked temporarily for 22 years ... I miss you very much ..."

This shredded potato is called "Missing shredded potato". A plate of simple shredded potatoes is filled with deep thoughts for my father. At the moment, she is just a little girl who misses her father.

There is a saying in the biography of Lin:

A person's life has to experience too much where you will go, and those sudden departures often make people unprepared.

When your parents leave, no matter where you are, no matter how successful you are, the pain of missing will accompany you all your life and become an unavoidable regret. Every time you touch it, there will be ripples and it will hurt your heart.

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Bi Shumin said in the article "Filial piety is priceless":

"I believe that every sincere and upright child has made a big wish to be filial to his parents from the bottom of his heart. I believe that there will be a long time, it will come naturally, and there will be a day when he will be successful in his career, return home with clothes on, and be filial.

It's a pity that people forget, forget the cruelty of time, forget the shortness of life, forget the fragility of life itself. "

2065438+In September 2008, 63-year-old singer Yu-Ching Fei announced her retirement from the entertainment circle. She lost control and cried on the stage. He wrote a personal letter. In this farewell letter, he expressed his gratitude and became more homesick.

He once said on the show that his parents loved him deeply:

"I think being a parent is life imprisonment ..."

After his mother died, Yu-Ching Fei was depressed for a long time and stayed at home. When his father died, it was his greatest regret that Yu-Ching Fei couldn't see his father for the last time because he was doing a program in the Mainland.

His agent mentioned to the media,

"Whenever it comes to the anniversary of his parents' death, his mood is always very low. I can see that he is particularly quiet. "

He wrote in the letter:

"Over the years, I have been striding forward for by going up one flight of stairs, but I have also neglected to appreciate the scenery along the way;

When my parents died, I lost my place in life. Without their attention and sharing, the gorgeous stage makes me more lonely, and applause can't fill my loss. Going to any performance venue makes me feel hurt.

I know it's time for me to stop, so that I can enjoy life in peace. "

Even if it succeeds, there will be more flowers and applause around, so what? ! After all, the closest parents are gone, as if the child's heart has been hollowed out, and any flashy name is full of dissatisfaction.

Parents are there, and life is still there;

With parents gone, there is only one way home in life.

Have you heard the story of the dutiful son Han? This story, after I finished reading it at that time, touched a lot and had a clear memory:

There was a dutiful son named Han in the Han Dynasty. Han's tutor is very strict. Every time Han makes a mistake, his mother always hits him with a cane. Even when Han grew up, he never complained when he was sent to his knees.

Who knows that one day when his mother taught him a lesson, he burst into tears.

Mother was surprised:

"I didn't see you cry when I hit you before. What is this for today? "

Korea said to:

"From small to large, my mother hit me, and I felt very painful, but I knew that my mother was healthy and strong, so I accepted it frankly; But today my mother hit me, and I didn't feel any pain. I think my mother is getting weaker and weaker, and the time I can support you is getting shorter and shorter. "

Yes, when most people understand this truth, their parents are old or even gone.

Who makes dusk for you, who cooks porridge for you to keep warm? We really should think about it. How long can we stay with our parents?

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A piece of A4 paper from CCTV once poked the hearts of thousands of netizens and exploded the network.

Life is only 900 months. Draw a 30×30 table, and a piece of A4 paper is enough. If you erase it in a grid every month, your whole life will be on this paper. ...

Suppose our parents are fifty years old on average, and their life is like this:

If you meet twice a month, the time you can spend with them is like this:

If we meet once a year, it will be like this:

There's only one square left! Sometimes painting can directly poke people's nerves more than words. Digital life is so short that you can spend only one time with your parents. You think you still have plenty of time to spend with your parents, but in fact they are slowly withdrawing from your life.

Hunan Satellite TV once broadcast a family style program-"Children Walking on Wan Li Road". In the program, the audience put a sign on their chest, and the number on it is their distance from home.

Wang Tingdong was 944 kilometers away from home, and one day he received a phone call from his father. Father suddenly spoke:

"I miss you."

To his surprise, the next sentence:

"I also want you to know that I love you."

They seldom communicate. Later, he learned that his father was drunk that day and had the courage to say what he usually dared not say.

If it weren't for the encouragement of the host, maybe he would never say this to his father in his life: I love you, too!

Liu Hexing from Shandong, when he saw the program group visiting his parents, tears came down:

The father in the photo said alone:

"He was in a bad mood when he was away on holiday."

My mother endured tears, smiled at the camera and repeatedly asked:

"Have a good meal."

Yan Bangchuan, who didn't go home for eight years, said with childlike longing:

"Nana Ogawa, I haven't seen you for years. I will miss you when you come back. "

"Nana Ogawa, that was our original land, do you remember?"

You see them crying on the show, but you don't want to cry.

Confucius said:

"Parents are here, don't travel far."

Life is like a piece of A4 paper. Where has all the time gone? When you slow down, slow down again. ...

Gao Yalin said in the program "My Daughter":

Parents are a wall between us and death.

Guest Junyan Jiao didn't understand and asked, "What do you mean?

Gao Yalin explained:

Because, when your parents are around, whether you are a 30-year-old youth or a 60-year-old man. You feel that death is still far away, and you always feel that there is a wall between you and death.

But without parents, you will face death directly at once, understand the fragility and shortness of life at once, and become a person without parents at once.

Instantly poked the tears of countless people.

"The son wants to be filial, and the relatives are not there. The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop. "

Go home often, warm a pot of wine, add a cup to my father, and listen to my parents' nagging. Being with parents is the longest confession.