If it's just because her boyfriend's emotional intelligence is low and she doesn't know how to choose a gift, her girlfriend can give some reference advice before meeting her parents next time to avoid the recurrence of the mistake. After all, in the minds of China people, giving gifts has always been a very important thing.
From choosing the real knife gift in hand to the appropriate price range of the gift, every step requires us to take time to consider and choose. Gift-giving is not only a human relationship, but also a kind of sincerity and intention to give gifts with each other's hearts.
Seeing parents is a very important occasion for both parties in love, and it seems a bit inappropriate to choose cabbage as a gift. So when this happens, I hope that the woman can think about the purpose of the man before making such behavior. Then carefully consider the relationship between the two sides.
After all, it is very impolite and careless to choose to send cabbage on such an important formal occasion as meeting parents, and it seems to be a cheap gift. It is impossible to judge whether the person who made this behavior has no respect for this relationship and this meeting or simply has low emotional intelligence.
The reason behind this is that both sides need to communicate and draw a conclusion, which is an important basis for judging whether this relationship should continue. After all, it is not a normal and reasonable choice to meet parents to send cabbage.