1, watch less mobile phones and spend more time with relatives and children. The most obvious sign is that vision is always inseparable from mobile phones. If you expect to stay married, then when you get home, you need to abandon your mobile phone, do more housework with your relatives, watch more videos with them, and take them out for a walk when appropriate. Then you will also make a good impression in front of each other. 2. Turn over a new leaf, explain everything to the other party clearly, and think that the other party knows his personal behavior of having an affair, and find it difficult to let go. So I think even after swearing in front of each other, it is not easy, and I think it is impossible for the other party to surpass this point. The other Fang Yitian doesn't mention divorce, so you expect to keep each other's hearts. Then you will understand that every time you come home from work on time, you must explain what you did today, whether you broke a glass of water or lost a dime. In the case of going out to work, then you can't go out with friends of the opposite sex independently, so you can bring an extra gay friends, and it's best to bring the other person out, so that the other person can feel that you have really turned over a new leaf. 3. Take advantage of your advantages and keep them in mind: never give up your favorable terrain as a wife/husband, keep it as an attack, and finally keep each other and feelings. Compared with the third party, as a wife/husband, both emotionally, socially and logically, they occupy the best time and place. Under normal circumstances, if we can immediately grasp the favorable terrain, do not abandon the city to attack casually, and take defense as the attack, most of them can succeed. 4. Face the reality bravely. It is an objective fact that the other party is having an affair. You must face the reality yourself. Crying and quarreling, quarreling, abusing, telling each other's parents, relatives and friends, going to the immediate family, playing with a third party, self-abuse, etc. If you can't solve the difficulties, you will continue to complicate the problem and turn it into an unexpected direction. 5, rational thinking, it is useless to find problems and complain about each other. Why not calm down and find the crux? A man wants to marry a woman and go home. He loves everything and cherishes everything, but after being in love for a long time, he will inevitably be a little tired. Produce more small surprises, so that ordinary life is no longer boring, I firmly believe that married life will be happier. How to maintain a marriage 2 1 Don't divorce easily. Girls must keep their wives' positions. Only in this way, the extra person will be spurned forever and will not be recognized. More because of this position, there will be more opportunities to change boys' hearts and let boys make new choices. More because of this position, there will be more help from relatives and friends, which will play a great role in maintaining marriage. 2. change your attitude if you have been in a tough attitude in this marriage, you must make a change at this time. After all, my marriage has been hit hard like never before, so my attitude must be softened. Don't continue to be tough, put pressure on the other side, so that the other side will run faster. After all, everyone will not give up their family and love for no reason. There must be a reason to choose another one, so we must change our attitude in order that things will not get worse. 3. Face him frankly and express yourself naturally. The most common question that many students ask in the process of recovery is "What should I do?" This is because you are afraid of doing something wrong again and taking another wrong step. You will be nervous when you see him, and you will worry about what you have done or said wrong, which will make him more resistant to you. Even if I recite the prepared lines dozens of times, I will become incoherent in the face of him. . . . Note that you are completely bound by this fear, which won't help you at all. You should get rid of this psychological bondage as soon as possible, face him calmly and show your changes naturally. 4. Face your partner calmly. If the other party asks for a divorce, it is inevitable that you don't want to have close contact with you for the time being. At this time, you should control your emotions, avoid crying, and calmly agree to his departure. When your other half asks for a divorce, you accept it frankly, but he will feel that his decision is wrong and he is more likely to remarry in the future. If you cry at this time, you will only send him a message: he should leave you like this and get rid of you crazily. 5. Empathy Marriage is a matter for two people, and only * * * can run together for a long time. Since your partner filed for divorce, it must be that you have bad habits that he can't stand. At this time, we should think from each other's standpoint. Don't just think about your contribution to marriage. In fact, the other party is also very attentive. Any conflicts and contradictions are based on mutual incomprehension. How to understand each other and see each other's contribution in the relationship is often the first step to ease the relationship.