Chest development

Generally, at the age of 8- 1 1, the girl's chest begins to develop, the areola becomes darker, the nipple begins to protrude, and there may be slight bumps when wearing clothes.

However, many girls are shy when they are just developing, and dare not tell adults directly that they need to wear underwear for their development. Therefore, as a mother, it is necessary to pay more attention to the development of their daughters and prepare underwear for their daughters in advance.

menarche

Menstruation usually comes at the age of 1 1- 15, so you can teach your daughter about menstruation in advance.

Menstrual cycle, menstrual blood volume, use of sanitary napkins, etc., can also help her put some sanitary napkins in her schoolbag for later use. In addition, menstruation means having the ability to conceive, so we should pay special attention to improving our daughter's self-protection awareness ~

hair (on the human body and head)

During adolescence, because of the changes in hormone levels, some hair will begin to grow under the armpits and private parts.

This may make them feel strange, anxious and embarrassed to tell their families because of their privacy. As a mother, they can buy some relevant books for their daughters.

Help her prepare for the knowledge and understand the correct treatment, and don't be ashamed of this normal physiological phenomenon.

acne

Similarly, because of hormonal changes in the body, many adolescent girls will develop acne.

Those who are particularly concerned about their appearance may feel inferior in the face of red acne. If they want to relieve it, they can refer to these suggestions: stay up late less in daily life, pay attention to cleanliness, and minimize the intake of milk and sugar in sunscreen food. If it is too serious, it is recommended to consult a doctor first.

Prepare items

Many adolescent girls are embarrassed to talk about their needs in the face of physical changes.

Because everyone develops at different ages, if they develop, they can actually wear small vests, which are necessary for menstruation, sanitary napkins, physiological underwear and other basic skin care products.

Such as facial cleanser, sunscreen, etc., mothers should not think that they are still young. They don't need these things. In fact, they can listen more and respect their needs to help them spend this stage more comfortably ~

Timely guidance

Adolescence, because the mind is not mature enough, is often difficult to distinguish between right and wrong on the Internet, and lacks the vigilance of self-information protection. You may release some information out of curiosity.

Or easily establish contact with strangers on the network, it is more important to give them correct guidance in time and let them learn to protect themselves in the network than to scold them.

Understanding and companionship

Because the development is faster/slower than others, parents don't understand, friends ignore, study pressure is high, and so on.

Adolescent girls are also prone to emotional instability, and sometimes even cry for no reason, which may be somewhat incomprehensible to adults.

But many factors are beyond their control, so they might as well understand and accompany them more.