Directly pull black, no negotiation.
First of all, let's look at cold violence nomenclature explanation: cold violence, a kind of violence, its manifestation is mostly through coldness, contempt, indulgence, estrangement and indifference, resulting in other people's mental and psychological infringement and injury. There are two main types of cold violence, one is the family cold violence, the second is the workplace cold violence, in fact, are a kind of mental abuse.
The love quarrel between men and women is really very normal, sometimes even can not be divided into right and wrong, standing in their respective positions are reasonable, so the cold violence is really very, very annoying, hateful, which has been a great harm. Below, let's analyze.
The first point, like cold violence, lack of responsibility. Two people encounter problems, cold violence to deal with very low-level, and hurt people. Whether it is life or work, we all know that encounter problems, solve the problem, how to the relationship has changed. Nothing more than want to escape, do not want to face, such a person is a bit no bear.
The second point, in fact, he has not so like you. Quarrel cold war is inevitable, but if the other side is very very like you, during the quarrel will be very difficult, bad mood, can not insist on a month. The other side can be 1 month later still calmly ask you "do you know wrong", visible already not so like you, only after the fight desire to win.
The third point, according to a male friend, boys this way, in fact, is to force you to say break up. In fact, regardless of men and women, some people just deal with problems this way. When encountering difficult things, do not want to take the initiative to do anything, with action to force the other party to make a decision, so that the other party to know the difficulties of the retreat, a little responsibility do not want to carry. Feelings fade, less contact, no words, in the fast food love today, some words do not need to say out loud, everyone understands. However, this approach is really selfish and ruthless enough. This kind of no sense of responsibility of people, met or away from the better.
Re-read the title, encountered cold violence has given people a great deal of harm, actually asked to know not know wrong, is nothing more than to insert a knife. Therefore, meet such a person, should break up, let him become a former, happy to live their own days.