Many people think that this is a book about love and friendship. Three small animals get along like a close small group. Through division of labor and cooperation, the small partners of the team cook a delicious "pumpkin soup". But the life logic of ordinary families is hidden in a small pot of soup.

1, the growth of children will bring constant conflicts and contradictions to the family.

2. Generous love is the most touching force to resolve conflicts.

Double enlightenment of picture books to parents and children;

1, for children: the process of growth is accompanied by painful transformation.

First, don't be selfish: don't be self-centered and ignore the feelings of others. We are where we are today because of the care and help of our families and small partners, so we should also pay our own corresponding strength.

Second, we should not indulge our willfulness: people come into the world with a mission and responsibility. You can't do anything out of line at will, because inappropriate behavior will have many bad consequences, and you must be responsible for your own behavior and bear the due responsibility.

2, for parents: love can not be blind, to help children resist temptation.

First, we should guide children with reasonable and clear rules: let them know what to do, what not to do, what you can do and what you can't touch;

Second, accept children's emotions and reject their unreasonable demands: let children understand that we love you very much, but love is conditional; Similarly, what you want is conditional. If you don't want it, you can have it right away. If you want to do it, you can do it at once, and you can't wait for a moment; We can discuss and communicate, but we can't be rogues.