Sex is the source of human life and an indispensable part of the whole life. Everyone is the product of sex practice, and everyone is the practitioner of sex. Whether we actively participate or not, sexual desire is a part of our thoughts and emotions. It is rooted in our feelings, yearning, motivation, longing, joy, dreams, fears, anxieties and frustrations. Although we can't deny that the influence of sex is reflected in the subconscious mind everywhere in the interaction between men and women, the existence of this subconscious mind does not mean that sex has a decisive influence and role at all times.
Sex, for most people, attractiveness depends on their inner needs and changes in objective conditions. At every stage of life, the manifestations of sex are different. For children, sex is a game; For adolescents. Sex is the source of longing; For adults, sex is the glue of love; For the elderly. Sex is the psychological compatibility of emotional harmony. Sex, for human beings, is the way of racial reproduction.
Sex is the foundation of marriage. We must emphasize that the harmonious and colorful sexual activities of husband and wife constitute the cornerstone of marriage. The meaning of cornerstone includes: sexual intercourse, sexual behavior and sexual activity. We should understand its meaning and content, and fill the foundation of the cornerstone. Only a solid and exquisite cornerstone can withstand the ups and downs of a long marriage, and husband and wife can build a happy building together. However, in many cases, people don't know much about the truth and function of this cornerstone, and even ignore the function of this cornerstone to a great extent. They only care about possession and don't give it, making this cornerstone always crumbling, broken and full of crises. How can we build a whole life building on it?
Sex, a natural ability and physiological function, exists in the form of energy. But it is not only the natural instinct of living things, but also the natural instinct gradually alienated by human society. That is to say, human sexuality includes biological, spiritual, humanistic and ethical factors.
"Instinct" is an internal force that forces people to act in a certain way, and it is just an indispensable annotation of sex. It is an unscientific attitude to deny and arbitrarily exaggerate it, and its consequences are equally absurd and wrong.
Sex can give people satisfaction, joy, happiness and pursuit, and make people feel excited and uplifting; Noble sex and spiritual pursuit can make people constantly pursue happiness and reveal the beauty of the world, thus stimulating positive creative enthusiasm and strength, and offering everything wholeheartedly for it. Sex has the function of happiness.
Sex is a higher level of spiritual and emotional enjoyment beyond physical feelings. Although some people have experienced the whole process of sexual response, including orgasm, they still feel dissatisfied subjectively, which shows that sexual intercourse is only one of the means of sex, and it is not an end. Sex requires complete and thorough physical and mental communication between the two sides, while simple sexual intercourse without emotion can only be a routine in a hurry. The connotation of love is deep and wide, which means commitment, reliability, consideration, care, understanding, exclusion, loyalty, dedication, and desire beyond emotion-sex. Therefore, sex should only happen among lovers who love each other, and it is impossible to enjoy such a high level of interest in the exchange of meeting by chance and buying and selling money. Harmonious sex has included feelings, understanding and cooperation between both sides. On these bases, harmonious sex is a kind of enjoyment for human beings.
People, if happiness is divided into levels, then the low level is sensory happiness, and the high level is spiritual happiness. People will find that any sensory happiness will rise to spiritual happiness, and any spiritual happiness can not be separated from sensory happiness. And high-level happiness and low-level happiness can be experienced in people's sexual life. Because the happiness brought by sexual behavior is not only physical and sensory, but also includes spiritual pleasure and emotional satisfaction. The happiness of husband and wife's life is the result of spiritual and sexual harmony, which can overcome endless difficulties in the struggle of both. Therefore, a harmonious sex life is the cornerstone of marriage.
Long live understanding!