Well, for this time, the discerning person can understand at a glance, half a year ~ ~
The little girl said, it's not what you think He loves me, but his family disagrees and is very determined. He is the only child in the family and will inherit his father's career in the future, so he is also very embarrassed, but we have been in private for the past six months.
How to get here and go?
That is, he usually doesn't take the initiative to call me on WeChat, and then I usually give him WeChat and he doesn't reply. Someone will answer the phone, but his tone is cold and polite. He will take the initiative to find me every ten days and a half months, and then make a date to check in.
Yes, the main content of the date is to get a room. I asked why I didn't contact him at ordinary times, saying that my family still couldn't let go of my prejudice and needed to give him time to convince him slowly. Some people say that a marriage without parents' blessing cannot be a long-term marriage, so I need patience and perseverance to wait slowly.
I asked you if you had seen his friends and other family members in the past six months. The little girl's reaction is very slow this time, and there is no ~ ~ ~
Actually, I think she knows everything, but she just doesn't want to face it.
What boyfriend! It's just that after breaking up, others regard you as a booty call. For a man, even if he doesn't love you, sleeping with his ex-girlfriend is like going back to the door. They think it's not useless for a woman who has been in contact to send her home automatically. In this case, a man only took the kidney.
However, the woman has already left, thinking that maintaining a physical relationship with her ex-boyfriend means breaking contact. If she can meet again, there will be a turn for the better.
Some people are reluctant to leave a relationship for a long time, and even this relationship has deteriorated badly and is still persistent. This is not love, but an obsession.
You stay where you are, others have gone a long way.
Some people have gone, not all of them are worth saving, so let's say goodbye and feel at ease!
As for how my ex is doing after separation, there is really no need to know!
Among a large group of friends, there will always be one or two who will make everyone want to take care of them, because they are smart and don't compete with the world, but because they don't compete, they are often bullied, which always makes people feel distressed.
Xiaowen said weakly in the group, why are friends alienated now?
Because what she said was casual, and the people who listened to it were casual, only I thought what she said was because she was writing code words now, so she didn't have time to maintain real friendship, so I told her not to mind, because sooner or later she would be alienated, and if she didn't write, she would be alienated if she got married and had children. People will still alienate you if you don't get married.
No one in this world has exactly the same frequency as others. Energy is flowing. Even if you want to be consistent with your friends all the time, you can't communicate with them because of the different energy levels of the transition.
But I was wrong. Xiaowen is her high school classmate and best friend. After graduation, the two shared a house in the imperial city. "Near is not far, but complaining." After a long time, various problems began to appear. At the high end, it is a disagreement between the three views. Xiaowen's friend is an enterprising person who likes to manage money and calculate economic accounts. He thinks that Xiaowen's lack of money to write is a waste of time.
The key lies in all kinds of slander, saying that Xiaowen's article is not good enough, and that people who reward Xiaowen's official WeChat account are stupid.
Hearing this, I can't help it. I said what such a friend is doing. There's no shame in losing it.
There will always be people coming and going around us. I welcome you when you are willing to stay with me. If you don't think you can get along, I won't stay, and if you don't leave, you will slander me. This is already a question of being a man.
I once had a friend who, like Xiaowen's friend, publicly criticized my poor writing in various circles of friends and classmates on the first day I started writing articles on the official WeChat account, and she couldn't stand it anymore. She also said that I am not as good as my coke chicken wings and Sichuan-style pork, which is my specialty.
I'm angry that you can't talk about it. I was very angry at that time, but I only withdrew a small group and pulled it back. Of course, a few months have passed, and we have basically no communication now. The vitality of the group without actual content and reality will be three months to six months, and the private WeChat contact is basically gone.
Today, I regret what I did. I really shouldn't let the seven aunts and eight aunts pay attention. Just write articles for people who want to read them. If no one is reading it, just write it yourself. Why is it so radical and utilitarian? Do I have to attribute the motivation for writing an article to others?
People who really care about you will always pay attention to you, and people who have no thoughts with you are not your people.
Some people, walking, don't be forced, don't feel bad!
After all, the road is your own. Some people are not lonely when they walk together, and no one is lonely. Where they are at ease, fate will meet.
As the old saying goes: "The bald head is as good as new, and the cover is as good as ever!"
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When I just graduated, I was assigned to the administrative office. At that time, I was a little stupid. I was what others said.
There are three girls in the office. It is said that men are very competitive when they are brothers, and it is easy for women to gossip together, but there will always be people who know the world in advance.
Lily, who graduated from this unit with me, is plump and has the feeling of a young version of Rosamund Kwan. The only drawback is that acne will grow on my face if I am not careful, so she envies my smooth face.
Because Lily is good at dealing with people, she quickly won the favor from top to bottom, including me.
She always pays attention to others when they need it, and then sincerely makes everyone feel what a good person she is. And I, not considerate, will only work hard. I always do the assigned tasks and the needs of others silently, and rarely announce them to my mouth. I am a teenager, and I always think that it is a shameless act to show off my achievements to do things well or publicize them everywhere.
Until there is a major meeting preparation, both of us are in charge. Yes, I am in charge of copywriting planning, PPT leader's speech preparation and meeting seating arrangement, and she is in charge of smiling like a flower in China.
The meeting is finally over. At the summary meeting, when the leader praised me, Lily immediately answered what I had done. When the leader put forward what needs to be improved next time, Lily turned to me and said, Look, you should remember!
Some people, when you are not near her, will feel that she seems omnipotent, perfect and has her own aura. Only after being together for a long time and having a dispute over interests will she discover her humanity.
It turns out that some people are really good at covering up their inner desires with superficial hypocrisy, job title evaluation, advanced selection at the end of the year, and even accounting for overtime allowance. There will always be people who use their brains in these seemingly necessary struggles.
People with different courses cannot make plans for each other.
So I offered to leave the administrative office and go to the front line. On the day I left, Lily smiled like a flower, but said some kind words to keep her.
After another year, I heard that Lily was going to Hong Kong to get married, and her fiance was sent to a branch in Hong Kong.
So one day Lily suddenly added me to WeChat, and I didn't even realize it was her. She is very enthusiastic and still speaks flawless. Finally, she revealed the purpose of adding me. Lily is doing purchasing in Hong Kong now, and she wants me to go shopping there and help her introduce her friends to buy some.
I just needed something, so I entrusted it to her. She is very happy. She started chatting with me and kept asking me about my recent situation. She also asked to see a picture of my big bear.
I wonder, is it the Lily I fought with before, or am I too narrow-minded? I don't want to get too close to her after all.
A few months later, a friend of mine said on WeChat that there was something wrong with the lipstick I bought from Lily last time, and asked me not to buy it from her again.
I didn't question Lily. Some people, some things, just know what kind of person they are. You should never expect others to have the same idea as you. Some people will attach great importance to their conscience and morality, while others, as long as they can make money.
A person with shame can never beat a shameless person.
Fortunately, she is no longer in my world. Finally, I am glad that the world can choose. You don't have to be fixed somewhere, you have to face some people.
Let's not meet again. Okay, never!