Learning to make up your own mind is not a willful, arrogant and bumpy life. Many times we have to make up our own minds.
On the Mid-Autumn Festival, the head of the gang will be too busy to cook alone, and then the head of the gang will let me mix a cold dish. "Millet is spicy and spicy." To tell the truth, I really haven't mixed cold dishes, but I probably know that cold dishes are nothing more than mixing them with some seasoning. Although I usually cook by myself, I either stir-fry or boil water, and I have never eaten my own cold dishes.
There's a chance. If you can't get along, ask the colonel. Then put the millet spicy, chopped green onion, garlic, coriander, salt, chicken essence and soy sauce into a big bowl full of broken ears. Do you want to put some old vinegar and sesame oil? Then, I asked the colonel if he wanted to let them go. The head of the regiment said, let them all go.
Later, after mixing, the person in charge said that although you are mixing cold dishes now, it is not a big deal. However, you should learn to make your own decisions. You can learn from life, make more decisions and make more decisions. This will form a habit. In the future, you can arrange and control many things yourself, instead of listening to others' arrangements. For example, mix a cold dish and try it yourself. Then, this dish is cooked by you, and others will eat it if you cook it.
Yesterday, I went to the office to help the colonel. Yesterday, only the colonel and I were cooking in the kitchen. Two people cooked more than a dozen dishes, quite a lot. However, I learned some hometown dishes from the head of the delegation yesterday. It is worth mentioning that I can cook beef griddle.
This time, we still have to mix cold dishes and three dishes. Before mixing, I confirmed with the head of the delegation which three dishes to mix, and then I rolled up my sleeves and mixed them quickly. This time, I made up my mind and didn't ask the person in charge again. I mixed it myself and tasted it to see if there was enough salt. If it wasn't enough, I added a little more, and the taste was ok. After the guests left, I saw that three cold dishes were almost finished.
You can make up your own mind about some small things you do. If it is a big deal, you can consult your elders or related professionals.
If you hesitate when you encounter something, it is equivalent to giving the decision to others. Once others make a bad decision, they will regret it. So, don't let others make decisions for you.
Before, Mr. Shunshan always taught himself to learn to make his own decisions, but he didn't forget that he learned to get rid of dependence on others and began to make his own decisions according to his own ideas.
I used to like to listen to other people's conclusions and help me make decisions. I thought it was a sign that I trusted others, but I didn't realize that I had to make big and small decisions myself along the way. I think it is right to follow other people's conclusions.
Later, I found that I didn't know after taking a lot of detours. I don't know how to think. I'm too lazy to think. I think that would be because I didn't see the world with my own eyes. I didn't really take responsibility for myself. I was just a child who avoided making mistakes.
Make your own decisions, make your own decisions. Only by making your own judgment can you be truly responsible for yourself. Through my own experience, I can draw a lesson: if I can't think independently and make my own decisions, even ordinary people can't do well, let alone be an independent person.