Tofu is an ordinary food. Why do people call it "eating tofu" to take advantage of women? There is a historical allusion behind this. According to records, this kind of food, tofu, was unintentionally invented by Liu An, the king of Huainan in the Han Dynasty, in the process of refining Dan medicine. As a result, it unexpectedly became popular in China and became a healthy food loved by everyone. Tofu is a very delicious food, and it has gradually integrated into our lives. For example, some people say, "You can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient", "Women's 40 tofu dregs" and "tofu dregs project", etc. Why do men, taking advantage of women, want to eat tofu? This should start with the ancient funeral customs.
In ancient times, if someone in the family died and needed a funeral, many people must be invited to help. In ancient times, burial required a lot of manpower, and the main family usually prepared meals, mainly meat and tofu, commonly known as "tofu rice", so now in rural areas, some people call condolences "tofu rice" to express their subtle expressions. Among the guests, there are idlers who will come to eat and drink. Over time, this kind of people who eat and drink are dubbed "tofu eaters".
Then, according to legend, the proprietress of a tofu shop is very beautiful, and her skin can be blown to pieces, which attracts many customers. Among the customers, some people buy tofu, but more people come for the proprietress's beauty. Some people flirt with the proprietress and even touch her, which can be said to have ulterior motives. People call this cheap behavior "eating tofu", which is tantamount to sexual harassment. This is a tradition left over by ancient customs and culture.
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Legend has it that during the period of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, there was a couple tofu shop in Luoyang, and the business was very good. Every day, people came and went in an endless stream, opening in the morning and closing at night.
Their tofu shop is located at the intersection of Central Street, with the storefront in front and the processing room and people's residence behind, which is also very convenient. Since the opening of the tofu shop, the boss has invited four guys to help make tofu in the backyard. The boss is in charge of the key processes such as formula.
The proprietress's real name is Dou, and her name is Dou Huaniang. She sells tofu at the store full time. This proprietress is no ordinary person. She is short, plump and slim, with white and tender skin like water, graceful and graceful, and everyone loves her and sees bloom. She has two dimples, and everyone smiles, which makes people want to see it. After a long time, the proprietress was forgotten her real name and called tofu beauty.
The biggest feature is that the boss's voice is very beautiful, like the cry of an oriole, crisp and loud, with a unique magnetism. Whenever a man listens to her voice, he usually feels weak and numb.
Their tofu shop is on the street itself, and it is a fork in the road from south to north, with a lot of people flowing. Plus, with such a charming proprietress, business is getting more and more popular. Some people, who don't buy tofu, have to walk around the store twice, say hello to the proprietress and say a few words.
It is said that there was a man in the north of the city who was kicked out after quarreling with his wife and was wronged. He originally wanted to throw himself into the river. At the thought of the charming style of the bean curd shop owner, I have to take a look and commit suicide. However, when he met the boss's wife and said a few words with her, he bought a few pieces of tofu and went home, forgetting the suicide, and apologized to his wife. The couple also made up.
There is such a beautiful proprietress in the tofu shop that it will naturally attract some people with ulterior motives. There is a ruffian in the street who often comes to rub hot spots. He doesn't buy tofu, but visits several times a day. Not only talking to the proprietress, but also touching her hands.
Later, the ruffian married a tigress as his wife, and was kept under strict control, and he no longer ran amok like in the past. However, he can never forget the proprietress of the tofu shop, and he can't sleep until he takes a look.
Worried that his wife knows his mind, she always makes excuses, and she has to come to the tofu shop owner to chat up a few words before going home. After a long time, the tigress found out that something was wrong.
One day, the ruffian told his wife that he had to go out to do something, and the tigress secretly followed him.
When the ruffian went to the tofu shop, chatted with the proprietress, and took the opportunity to touch the proprietress's hand, the tigress jumped out from the side and pointed at the ruffian's nose and scolded him: You lied to me all day, told me to do things, and everything I told you to do came to no avail. Originally, you ran to the tofu shop to flirt, and you didn't buy tofu to eat. You were being frivolous with the proprietress. You are eating a bowl and thinking about the bad blank in the pot, so I won't kill you!
The onlookers listened to the tigress's scolding and thought that she was right. Indeed, many people did not come to sell tofu. Since then, "eating tofu" has become synonymous with men and frivolous women.
The word "eating tofu" is a metaphor for taking advantage of the opposite sex, and it is often used in the aspect of men flirting with women, and it is widely used in the north and south.
Tofu, as a dish, has no taboo religious groups and no regional incompatibility.
So, there are so many words that can be used to describe flirting with the opposite sex. Why do you just use tofu to describe it? Some people say that tofu is white, tender, fresh and soft, which is a metaphor for women's popularity. Some people say that women selling tofu are beautiful, which attracts buyers. Therefore, there is a saying that "tofu is beautiful", and there are black sheep in the crowd. It is because they love women's beauty that they are a tofu buyer. If they don't take the opportunity to hijack, their hearts will inevitably be difficult to balance. Therefore, they will say some mixed words in their mouths, or touch and rub them to balance. Others say that tofu is always indispensable in the dishes given to those who help in funerals in the south, and some people who take the opportunity to eat rice are mixed in for free. Eating tofu is derived from taking advantage here and becomes another kind of taking advantage. All these statements are reasonable, and there is no way to prove right or wrong. I talk nonsense and listen to it. There are many well-known metaphorical words in life, which are probably said by someone because of something. Everyone thinks it's funny, and they spread slowly. Now it's very difficult to investigate the whole story.
In my opinion, the appearance of tofu is white, tender and lovely. Some people use it as a metaphor for women. Eating tofu is a metaphor for standing on the cheap side of women. On the one hand, there is another aspect that has been ignored by everyone, that is, the softness of tofu, because it is soft, you dare to "eat". In other words, eating tofu is a bullying behavior and a despicable rogue behavior.
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Taking advantage of women is "eating tofu", and in today's fashionable words, it is sexual harassment. There are allusions and sources for making tofu. This is about the King of Huainan in Han Liu An. Tofu is said to have been invented by Liu An. Today, tofu has been made in a variety of ways. Tofu is made of soybeans, and peanuts can also be added, but in the past, it was necessary to make tofu with a certain amount of plaster of Paris. In my life, I have also sold tofu, and I know how to make tofu, but I don't sell tofu directly, but I buy tofu after deep processing, which makes better profits.
Onion with tofu, clear and white. Tofu is white and tender, easy to eat and delicious. Who doesn't want to? It is metaphorical to say that men eat tofu, but it actually means that women are beautiful, sexy and weak, and they are as easy to eat as tofu by men. Eating tofu has also become synonymous with men bullying women. To tell the truth, all men who have sex want eat woman tofu. Especially beautiful women like "Tofu Beauty" make wild men drool. Ancient poetry, my fair lady, a gentleman. Who doesn't want to have a bite after seeing the beauty of tofu?
It's not the sake of drunkenness. Many service industries and service posts are dominated by beautiful women, which attracts many men's attention and makes them extremely efficient. There is skill in it. Who doesn't love beauty and bully? Those who sell and buy can understand the tricks of tofu beauty, and they are colorful and colorful, so they can attract customers and win popularity and business. Women eat by youth, when not? Women are forty bean curd dregs. I don't like it much when I become tofu residue. But then again, you can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient. Men should be patient when they want to eat tofu, and haste makes waste, which will backfire.
To say "eat tofu" generally means that men want to take advantage of women. Here's an allusion:
Once upon a time, there was a beautiful woman selling tofu in the street, and a male bachelor in the village exchanged soybeans for tofu. The beauty who sells tofu uses a scale to weigh it. After calculation, she should give two Jin of tofu. The beauty is cut into two and a half pounds of tofu across the board, so let the male bachelor go home and get some soybeans. But that's all the soybeans in the bachelor's house. What should I do if I can't get them out and want money and no money? The beauty selling tofu said, "I'll break the tofu and sell it. You can't take advantage of me?" Seeing that the beautiful woman is beautiful, the male bachelor wants to eat half a catty of tofu, so he doesn't agree to break the tofu again and says, "Let me eat half a catty of tofu, so I can take advantage of you, ok?" The beauty had no choice but to obey, so she gave him half a catty of tofu at a loss.
Later, people interpreted "eating tofu" as "eating tofu" because men take advantage of women. Tofu is white and soft, much like steamed bread. It is more appropriate for men to take advantage of women and say "eat tofu", so this statement has been handed down. As for stress, it is very simple, that is, men can't say "I want to eat your tofu" to women. Otherwise, women will get angry, or they will be beaten.
During the reign of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty. There is a family who runs a tofu shop. The hostess is as beautiful as a fairy and beautiful as a flower. The skin is like powder, fragrant snow and light gauze. A lot of men at that time. Everyone rushed here to buy tofu, just to see her. Many people envy her youth. Over time. Knowing her customers well can't help touching her. In order to take care of the business of her tofu shop. Every time guests flirt with her, her face seems to have two hongxia. It looks even more charming. Provoked those customers and came to her frequently to buy tofu. Many customers have a somewhat impure purpose, just to eat her tofu.
In the past, men molested women. Generally harmless. It's like two men and women playing. Simple hands and feet. It's just a release of the spice of life. Ancient people. We all know that they don't wear clothes like we do now. In ancient times, people wore clothes with three layers inside and three layers outside, usually long clothes and wide sleeves. Eat woman tofu in public. It is a playful joke between people at ordinary times.
People now. Due to the change of lifestyle. Women's clothes have changed a lot from before. Women often wear very little to be sexy. So in today's society, there are often some salty pig hands. These salty pig hands are confused by women's hue, which causes their impulse. So that all kinds of illegal acts have been made. This behavior was also called eating tofu in ancient times. But in our society ruled by law, it is a kind of sexual harassment to women. This is an illegal and criminal act. So people nowadays hate this kind of salty pig hand very much. This kind of person is also like a mouse crossing the street, and everyone shouts and beats. Moreover, after being caught, legal education will be carried out. So advise these hooligans. Nowadays, women can't eat tofu casually. There's a price to pay.
The phrase "eating tofu" is frequently used among the people in the south, and it is still a idiom in some places in the south. There are two kinds of meanings, one is a formal statement, saying that after the death of an old man from another family, he went to mourn and do human feelings, calling it "eating tofu." The other is a kind of banter, saying that taking advantage of women is "eating tofu".
1, the idiom of mourning and doing human feelings: "Eat tofu" In the old days, the folk old man died and had to park at home for three to seven days. During the period, relatives, friends and neighbors came to pay their respects, and some stayed with them at night until the funeral was over. Regardless of the distance, mourners should entertain guests who come to mourn for their deaths. When eating, no matter how many dishes there are, tofu is indispensable on the table. Generally speaking, in addition to a dinner, the food is relatively simple, and tofu is often the main course for entertaining guests.
Because people think it is unlucky to say "funeral" and "funeral of wine", "eating tofu" has become a proxy for mourning. Just as folks can't directly say that the old man is dead, it is a taboo custom in folk culture to say that the old man is "old" and "gone", which is called nickname. Until today, many places in the south still use this nickname. Therefore, the saying of "eating tofu" in the south is still based on mourning and doing human feelings.
2. Taking advantage of women's folk allusions called "eating tofu" Since the South described mourning as "eating tofu", why did it say that "eating tofu" was teased as taking advantage of women? It seems that they are two different things, and the wind, cattle and horses are irrelevant. How can these two things be brought together?
In the old days, housewives usually stayed at home separately, and were not allowed to drop in at random, especially at night, and were not allowed to go out to other people's homes, so as not to cause gossip among neighbors. Because of this rule, housewives have little contact with men outside. When people have weddings, funerals and weddings, neighbors have the habit of helping each other, especially cooking and cooking, serving tea, washing pots and pans, and so on. Besides, at that time, most of them lost their lives in grinding bean curd, and women took care of them, so that women could come out properly.
In the wedding banquet, three meals a day can be completed during the day, while most wedding banquets only have one meal. In the clear sky, under the eyes of the public, women shuttle between guests with tea and vegetables. Men with ulterior motives naturally dare not make some out-of-line actions against women. In the old society, TD was there, and no one wanted to make a fool of themselves in front of everyone.
Funeral banquets are different. In the middle of the night, we have to make tea and supper for those who accompany the wake. In the old days, every family had electric light bulbs at night. When there was a funeral, they usually hung more light bulbs with larger wattage, which also made every corner of the funeral home bright as day. At that time, there were no electric lights, only oil lamps and candles, and the light at night was dim.
A few idlers and some lecherous men, in the name of "eating tofu" or accompanying the night, or in the name of helping women, approach women in the dim light of night and take advantage of them. As a result, the word "eating tofu" has another meaning among the people, and it has become synonymous with taking advantage of women. This is the folk story.
3, take advantage of women called "tofu" historical allusions According to historical records, tofu was invented by Liu An, the king of Huainan in the Western Han Dynasty, and there is a saying that "the method of tofu began in Liu An, Huainan". It is said that when Liu An tried the elixir of immortality in Bagong Mountain, the elixir was not refined, but a delicious tofu was inadvertently refined. "White as pure jade, fine as coagulated fat" was the description of tofu by the ancients, and it was also considered that these people who wanted to live forever made contributions to the people by deliberately planting flowers but not planting flowers.
The invention of tofu making soon spread to the people and became a favorite food. Restaurants will naturally not miss this business opportunity, so there are shops selling tofu on the streets of the city.
Legend has it that in the Western Han Dynasty after the advent of tofu, a couple opened a shop selling tofu on Chang 'an Avenue, the capital of the Western Han Dynasty. Among similar tofu shops, the business was particularly hot. The reason is that the proprietress is very beautiful, and people call it "beauty of tofu". Tofu is delicious, and the beauty is delicious. You don't have to spend effort and pay advertising fees to advertise and sell everywhere. The proprietress of this shop is a beautiful business card and an attractive signboard.
When opening a store, we must attract customers. The more customers come to spend, the better the economic benefits of the store will be. "Tofu Beauty" should naturally give full play to its own advantages. The more amorous feelings it shows, the more it can attract customers, and the more customers will come to eat tofu. As a result, many men in Chang 'an neighborhood were attracted. In the name of "eating tofu", men talk and laugh with "beauty of tofu", and some people even move their hands and feet to take advantage of "beauty of tofu".
Most men have women in their homes. When women find such signs, they are very jealous. It turns out that men use tofu as an excuse, but in fact they are thinking about "beauty of tofu" and want to take advantage of her. They are naturally very dissatisfied with their husbands' trick of building a smooth road and sneaking into their old positions, but they can't say it. Without real evidence, it's hard to say it. Therefore, we have to watch out for them from time to time. When the husband is going out, they will ask, "Are you going to eat tofu again?"
Because of this, people later described taking advantage of women as "eating tofu", which was euphemistic and humorous. This is the oldest allusion to "eating tofu".
Now the average man touches a woman and likes to say that he ate tofu. For example, if a man meets a certain part of a woman, a colleague or someone intentionally or unintentionally, he will jokingly say: You have eaten other people's tofu again! Sometimes it is intentional, sometimes it is unintentional. But whether intentionally or unintentionally, it is collectively referred to as "eating tofu."
It is said that the term "eating tofu" comes from an old tofu shop. The tofu shop is run by a couple. The husband is responsible for doing it from dawn to dusk, and the wife is responsible for selling it during the day.
If you want tofu to sell well, you have to find a way. Of course, as a wife who sells tofu, she has to bear the brunt. Because his wife eats tofu all the year round, people are as white and tender as tofu.
Men who come to sell tofu can't help sneaking around and squeezing them, but their wives don't care, and they really flirt with them ... as long as tofu sells fast ...
In this way, men are willing to come to her house to buy, eat her tofu at the same time, but also eat women's tofu by the way ...
"Eat tofu" spread like this.
Nowadays, "eating tofu" usually happens on crowded buses, people, or supermarkets. Touch a woman's ass, chest ... and take advantage of a woman when people are crowded. With the enhancement of people's awareness of law and prevention, this situation has also been effectively curbed. But it also happens from time to time. Because it is a kind of harassment that can happen anytime and anywhere. For example, on a crowded bus, a woman's dress is a little exposed, or her skirt is a little short, which may make some psychologically gloomy men want to enter the door and act ... Although it won't cause too much harm, if the police are caught, it's just an education and a fine, because it doesn't hurt the body, it's just a touch or scratch ...
However, the awareness of prevention should not be relaxed. Women, in particular, wear little in summer, and are easily eaten by others if they don't pay attention to it ... In the social life of our country for thousands of years, women have always been in a disadvantaged group, and their living environment and state have always been under the control of men. In order to please men and submit to power, they often flatter themselves and make some coquetry or physical deviousness, so some literati are concerned about the beauty of women and their softness.
There are abundant sayings about women's beauty from ancient times to the present, ranging from praise to ruin, and there are also descriptions of men's indecency with women, and all methods are exhausted to describe them. Even in real life, there is such a phenomenon, even joking with very vivid words, which vividly shows the opposite of human nature.
Today, we will explain the ugly behavior of taking advantage of women. No matter the ancients or today's women, women are proud of themselves, beautiful and graceful, and some people appreciate them. It is something that women are proud of. Their vanity likes people's praise and praise, but praise doesn't mean you can touch them with actions or limbs. If you don't want to, it will become a salty pig's hand, obscene or tofu called eat woman in the words of the subject. Some people associate eat woman's tofu with Liu An, the king of Huainan, who makes tofu. It's pure nonsense.
Taking advantage of women is called tofu in eat woman. There is no allusion to this. Its main source is the imitation in Hong Kong and Taiwan film and television dramas. In some dramas, the hostess's provocative behavior of half-revealing her breasts and swaying her steps is totally a provocative affectation, which adds hot spots to film and television dramas. When they are interspersed with emotional scenes of salty pig hands, they often laugh at them by eating old Niang tofu.
Nowadays, the saying of eating tofu is not popular in society. It is better to say that the salty pig hands are happy. When a woman meets indecency on the bus, it is very powerful to shout that there are salty pig hands. If someone says that you dare to eat my mother's tofu, it is estimated that you can laugh in the whole car. Although eating tofu is a household name, it is not applicable and has no deterrent effect. On the other hand, it is a frivolous word, which makes women dare not say anything about eating my tofu when they are violated.
Although people are more enthusiastic and open now, they seldom use these words. In Tik Tok, which is more popular now, there are many beautifully dressed women, and they are shaking all over. This is a kind of beauty, and it is a very noble enjoyment of beauty, so you can't appreciate the beauty with colored glasses, otherwise it is not elegant, or it is very interesting!
Tofu is tender, smooth and delicious, and can be cooked in many ways, which is deeply loved by people. However, why do you call taking advantage of women "eating tofu"?
Tofu is white and tender, which is consistent with the characteristics of white and tender skin of women, so it is called "eating tofu".
1, the story of eating tofu.
It is said that there was a couple on Chang 'an Avenue in the Han Dynasty who made a living by selling tofu. The proprietress was charming and delicate, and she was called "Tofu Beauty".
In order to attract customers, it is inevitable that there will be amorous feelings, which will attract men around to come to help in the name of "eating tofu". In fact, the purpose is well known.
Those frivolous people touched the boss's hands while paying the bill, and later "eating tofu" became synonymous with men and frivolous women, in other words, sexual harassment.
2. Nowadays, people call taking advantage verbally "eating tofu", which is called "pumping water" in Cantonese.
It probably means taking advantage verbally and being frivolous to women.
Typical and common in life is that some men like to tease women and even take advantage of them by touching their hands, which is the so-called "eat woman Tofu".
Some men like to work hard on their mouths, that is, verbally "eat tofu", which gives people the feeling that they are frivolous and unreliable.
Mr. Mao Dun has a saying in Midnight: "Don't panic, I am well-behaved with women, and I don't steal oil or eat tofu."
Eating tofu here means flirting with women. Nowadays, the word "eating tofu" has become more widely used and has become a funny word, and it is not necessarily a woman, but also a man.