First, I have developed the habit of cooking since I was a child.
In the late 1970s, our parents worked in the fields from morning till night. Our primary school was very close to home, so we had to do it ourselves when we went home for lunch. The firewood stove in the countryside is very high, the pot is deeply shoveled, the stool is supported by both hands, and the cooking is like an adult. The immature face is full of soot. The food was not delicious, but it was delicious. Gradually formed the habit, mastered the skills, and had a common meal.
Second, you have a choice when cooking, and you can eat whatever you want.
Husband and wife come from different places and have different tastes and food preferences. I like to eat spicy food, nothing can be cooked without spicy food; She likes light, nutritious and delicious; I like fried rice noodles, and she likes cooking noodles. You can take the initiative to master your own cooking, buy vegetables and ingredients, cut vegetables into the pot, and control the fire. The correctness of each process is the guarantee of authentic dishes. The original juice is delicious, make your own decisions.
Third, share housework.
Although the family is basically dominated by men and women, men don't finish their tasks by working outside to make money, and it is not easy for women to do things at home. First of all, children's clothes and education always drive you crazy and bother you everywhere. No matter how old the children are, it is always a problem. Secondly, the whole family's clothes cleaning and sorting, and the health care at home all need patience. There is no reason for men to be tall and pretentious, but also to participate in housework, so that their wives are happy, their children are happy, and the intimacy between their families is enhanced and they are happy.